2007-08-22 15:23:28 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First you have to get him to notice you. Use your femininity. Be a girl and show off a little. By achieving a little sexual interest from him (which happens to be the easiest to get from a male) you've gotten a good start. Play hard to get but let him know that you're interested.
This is usually best accomplished by asking questions relative to his sex/love life. Ask if he has a girlfriend and if he says no, smile and ask him if he wants one.
To this, he may reply, "Why, are you offering?"
The best reply to this comment would be something along the lines of, "Well, I'm not entirely sure yet. Maybe you could ask me out and I'll think about it."
Once you have a date with him, try to keep your feelings for him on the same level as his. You don't want to seem desperate or TOO eager to get to know him. Play hard to get but definately know that he has a good chance to get to know you if he doesn't screw it up. You know you're a prize.
I think it's human nature to put greater value in the things we have to work harder for. In that sense, you need to make yourself into HIS challenge.
This is the best way I know of to get a guy to like you.
2007-08-22 15:36:40 · answer #1 · answered by Cosmodot 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well, I'm a guy. Here's what I would suggest:
1. Be attractive. I don't mean "good looking". I mean, shower, etc, do your best to look your best. Wear a little nice perfume.
2. Don't wear slutty clothing. If you do, you will atrract the wrong kind of guy.
3. Be a good person, treat others with respect, be kind, etc.
4. Be friendly to the guys that you think you might like. Get to know them and let the friendships develop into a deeper relationship.
Your overall presence should be such that guys want to be around you, not just because of your chest or any other part of your body, but because of who you are as a person.
Any guy who likes you for your body only, is no guy you want. Trust me. I've been happily married for 12 years.
2007-08-22 15:31:59 · answer #2 · answered by skpicky 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Step #1. Be yourself, but only if you are comfortable with yourself.
Step #2. Grow up.
Step #3. Use the spell check.
So I guess you are out of luck... at least for now.
2007-08-22 15:30:42 · answer #3 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Step 1. Be yourself
Step 2. Be yourself
Step 3. Be yourself......
2007-08-22 15:30:36 · answer #4 · answered by My name here 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be friendly,clean,smell good, don't dress like a ****. Develop a little knowledge of his interests so you can have something to talk about. Don't play games, don't be cheap or an easy lay.Guys are attracted to girls who have a lot of self respect.Anyway, I am. Good luck
2007-08-22 15:41:36 · answer #5 · answered by sawdust552001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shave your head bald...then tuck your head between your legs....walk two steps forward...then two steps backward....sing the song Bay Bay Bay by Hurricane Chris...moo like a cow and quack like a duck...shave your eyebrows...and smear a boogie on your face...then good luck...its all up to fate!
2007-08-22 15:32:34 · answer #6 · answered by Harry Potter 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you are a happy person and you just be yourself...a guy will like you.....in fact a lot of guys will like you..now you go get em ....
2007-08-22 15:31:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are no steps, if he likes you he likes you. Be nice ofcourse, smile, talk to him you know dont scare him away either.
2007-08-22 15:30:28 · answer #8 · answered by Dystany Loves Ryan <33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree just be yourself, everything else will fall into place. If he doesnt like you for who you are then why should you be dating someone like tht. Dont try to be fake, thats bad...and no one likes tht
2007-08-22 15:31:20 · answer #9 · answered by brittany_maez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Their are no steps, just be yourself.
2007-08-22 15:28:54 · answer #10 · answered by ... 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋