Family & Relationships - 22 August 2007

2007-08-22 18:29:38 · 37 answers · asked by Gabrielle 2 in Singles & Dating

and giving me that kind of look. I am the only one in class who is not fat and i dont wear t-shirts, only thin tops. Sorry for details. But it is not my fault that they cant go to fitness or control what they eat.

2007-08-22 18:26:08 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my ex bf just broke up with me on the phone 2 days ago, said it was cause he didn't love me anymore all a sudden and says he doesn't care if we stay together or if he sees/talks to/is with me ever again! he said i did nothing wrong, he just doesn't care. he didn't cry/or get upset at all! he told me he didn't care if i loved him or missed him that its final! last time he broke up with me, he was emotionless and he came back the next day. so i called him yesterday to see if he was serious about it this time and said hes already over it, and hasn't gotten upset at all! that i have to get my stuff this weekend! and i DON'T wanna pack his stuff up and i DON'T want either one of us to move on! im praying hes gonna change his mind when i get my stuff, but im not so sure. how could he love me last week but now he doesn't? how could he not get upset one bit or shed one tear? when i get my stuff and im outta his life for good, will he realize what a stupid mistake he made and ever want me back?

2007-08-22 18:23:45 · 20 answers · asked by heartbroken</3 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-22 18:22:55 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my girlfriend doesnt allow me to help her out and buy her things or pay part of it for things she needs mostly for school, how can i convince her i'm doing it to help her and i dont mind. I work and can afford it. i'm not doing this for selfish reasons, i just love her and hate seeing her work so hard the little that she does, she does have 2 daughters as well, and is very limited. we've been seeing each other for over 2 years. any help on what i can tell her to allow me to help. I think she doesnt want to feel like she owes me, but thats not the point i'm trying to do, i just dont want her to struggle so much.

2007-08-22 18:22:10 · 14 answers · asked by jack a 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-22 18:22:04 · 9 answers · asked by shoppinggirls3 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so i like this guy and he is like a...umm...shy but not shy, so anyway he hanges out with a lot of people and most are girls(he likes to flirt)but one of the girls that i know, know him very well and said that he asked her if i liked him ,but she didn't know.but we hug once in a while and we make fun of each other, just a bunch of little things like he was chasing me and grabed aroung my waist and it felt like a hug, anyway. and we r both in marching band-hes a tenor and im colorguard-but everyone knows i like him bc the way i act aroud him so yeah.oh and everytime im in rang he glances over.

2007-08-22 18:21:53 · 7 answers · asked by Bunny 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-22 18:21:37 · 7 answers · asked by marina_703 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was wondering what guys like to see on their women? I know my husband likes my hair blonde and long.

2007-08-22 18:21:16 · 9 answers · asked by cotton~candy 4 in Singles & Dating

i have told her i love her but i would like some other ways to show her besides just tellin her that i love her and cant live with out her

2007-08-22 18:19:59 · 12 answers · asked by Ray Z 1 in Singles & Dating

so this guy that i have been talking to online for a few weeks..like 3 weeks sent me red roses to work....i told him that i was talking to somebody...not in a serious relationship..and i talked to him like 2-3 times on the phone.just regular converstaion...didnt lead him on or give him any idea that i wanted to get to know him other than as friends
is this weird? do normal guys do this?

2007-08-22 18:16:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what would it mean if you called me almost every other day and we talked on the phone each time for hours? Why don't you just ask me out?

2007-08-22 18:16:19 · 6 answers · asked by SMITHYSNUFF 1 in Singles & Dating

im a little nervous that my new guy friend is controlling. here are some little things that has happened.
1. he got mad when i was talking to his brother on the phone (as a friend.)
2. he got mad when i said white boys are cute
3. he said he doesnt have patience and he doesnt like to wait for a girl to give him an answer
4. he always begs for stuff he wants even after i constantly say NO.
5. he's very judging

so is he controlling?

2007-08-22 18:15:00 · 17 answers · asked by cowmoomoo 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-22 18:10:27 · 8 answers · asked by simplesimon 5 in Singles & Dating

I know I can make a disc of our songs but how to play it without buying speakers ect? We're having a small outdoor wedding at a pavillion.
thanks!

2007-08-22 18:09:29 · 7 answers · asked by countrycatcandles 2 in Weddings

numerous times for my behavior and actions,and she said no worries and i believe she is still mad,but at times she will pass by me,look at me,and today she smiled warmly at me and said see you next time when we talked for a little(like i said i've apoligized alot even if i knew she was mad) even if she didn't feel like talking to me.What's the deal?

2007-08-22 18:05:04 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is there a chance he will ever quit? Should I give up and move on?

2007-08-22 18:02:55 · 15 answers · asked by star 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, my OLDER sister thinks that even "shut up" is a swear word and will tell on me if I say that to even 1 of my friends at a joke! She also thinks that whenever I say to my friends on the phone, "She's kinda annoying", my sister tells on me for that when i'm not even talking about her! I tried talking to her about that but she says, "Then stop saying that."
Then what CAN i say, "I love everyone!"?
I tried talking to my parents about that but she says, "You know her..." or "Then don't say it."
They're always on her side! What can I do?? (Like right now, when I watch tv, my sister keeps asking me stupid questions like "who's that?" so I say "I don't know!" and she told onme for THAT.)

2007-08-22 18:00:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

So there is this amazying boy that lives about 5 minutes away from me by car and he is everything I look for in a guy. I was going to go to his school but decided not to transfer yet. I really really really like him and I want to tell him but I am afraid that he'll think I am retarded. He has a girlfriend that he has been dating for 5 days and I am soooo jealous. My friend also is obsessed with him.. I don't want to tell anyone how I feel because I am afraiddd. We are great friends and talk almost every night on yahoo messenger and we flirt sometimes but is that all the farther this relationship will go? Any advice of what I could do to try and win him over?

2007-08-22 18:00:03 · 1 answers · asked by Shelby 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-22 17:56:52 · 34 answers · asked by BeezKneez 3 in Singles & Dating

i am 12 years old and the girls in my grade are already making out with guys but i havent even had my first kiss. One of my friends recently gave her bf a present out of nowhere where she took a pic of her in her bra and sent it to him. what i am getting at here is i dont want my bf to think i am scared to kiss him and do that stuff for him, what can i do to show him that i am not afraid to do that stuff even if i dont want to.

2007-08-22 17:56:42 · 12 answers · asked by roni4196 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was wearing a normal t-shirt, not tight at all and jeans (not tight at all either, but not extremely baggy) today at youth group.
This one boy was looking at me a few times...
but I noticed him looking at me but not at my face, at my body (twice).
Where would a 12/13 year old guy be looking at on a girl's body??
I know he could've possibly been staring at 'the girls'... what do you think?
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2007-08-22 17:52:02 · 14 answers · asked by Life On Wheels 2 in Singles & Dating

I find this depressing, and hard to believe.

2007-08-22 17:46:01 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Recap: I'm 20 and my boyfriend is 21. We dated for almost 2 yrs. in the past, broke up for 7 mo. (no communication), and now we've been back together for 6 mo.

My boyfriend is transferring over to a new college. I'm transferring as well, but we're both commuting. He needs to take about 5 courses per semester and he wants to work 16 hours a week. He will not give up his crotch rocket, which he's making payments on still. He keeps saying that there will be no time for anything else besides school and work. He's distancing himself from me and he's not acting like himself anymore. He cannot handle stress.

We broke up last time for the very same reason. He started a new job and was freaking out that all his time would be dedicated to school and work. He admitted once we started dating again that he had acted like a jerk.

He's pushed himself away and needs time now. He's "confused" and "wants" to love me. A week ago he loved me. Should I give him space? Last time I didn't and he ran...

2007-08-22 17:43:55 · 6 answers · asked by SuperFox 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-22 17:38:31 · 1 answers · asked by anne 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband and I have been married for over 3 years. When we had been married for a year I found out that he had asked one for his friends to tell his ex that he missed her hot a** I confronted him and he said he was kidding and that he was sorry. 2 years ago we split up for 6 months, during that time this same girl told him she wanted to move (she's from England) to be with him, he said no. So when we got back together I asked him to stop emailing her, and he said ok. After that I found other emails between the two of them, we fought and he said that he would stop. I found out in February that he had gone to see another of his ex's who lived close and he lied to me about it. Today I found an email from her saying how much she wants to travel with him again and misses him and another email from England girl and HE had invited her to meet him in Ecuador when he went there. He told her he wants to have her close he can have someone to talk to.. what's going on? What do I do?!

2007-08-22 17:36:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My 33 year old daughter is married to a sadistic man who has beaten her down emotionally. She is afraid to leave him. This has occured over a 10 years.How can I help her

2007-08-22 17:36:04 · 56 answers · asked by dancer 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-22 17:35:51 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok i love my folks but i am 16 and here are my rules:
no make-up
no boyfriend
no dyed hair
no pirceings (not even ears!)
no nail polish!
no friends over after 6:00 pm
no parties (can't go to 1 either)
no sleep over (can't even go 2 1)
no dates
1 hour of tv a day
1 hour of coumputer a day
must spend at least 1 hour on homework (will be cheaked over)
Y WONT MY PARENTS LET ME HAVE A LIFE?????????

2007-08-22 17:32:01 · 20 answers · asked by ♀freak and proud♀ 2 in Family

Would you rather be considered attractive in general by all the races, or be considered attracted only within your own race?

2007-08-22 17:31:05 · 2 answers · asked by pharmdcougargal12 3 in Other - Family & Relationships