I find this depressing, and hard to believe.
2007-08-22 17:46:01 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, I can only speak from experience and mine is this. My husband will always climax before me, but he is always able to make me climax soon after (not too soon though). A couple times we have climaxed together due to the position we were in.
2007-08-22 17:55:39 · answer #1 · answered by The Great and Powerful Jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are several factors involved when it comes to this. For some people, it just happens. It is very depressing and can become detrimental to your relationship, but there are ways around this. What I would suggest is using a product called sliquid stay, a male desensitizer. You can order online at drugstore.com for about $10. Read the reviews for the product on the website and follow the directions of the product. Hope this helps.
2007-08-22 17:57:25 · answer #2 · answered by richards150 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually they do. However, men can learn to control their peak, so they won't ejaculate too early. Most men don't seem to want to learn this skill. That is quite depressing too.
On the up side, pardon the pun, guys can have erections very quickly again after peaking. All it needs is some stimulation and a bit of time and relaxation. The second time round should last a lot longer.
2007-08-22 17:54:49 · answer #3 · answered by justaguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not always. I've climaxed long before my boyfriend many times. It depends on your relationship, your mood that day, the temperature, blah blah blah. There's never an exact way to do it.
Point is, not always, but most of the time :) Us girls think too much but the guy is just feeling really good.
2007-08-22 17:48:23 · answer #4 · answered by fdmgjfdkjess 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Almost always , that's just the way it is , if a girl is smart she will help him climax first and then he is usually ready to go much longer the second time around.
2007-08-22 17:48:41 · answer #5 · answered by BILL 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not always, if the guy really cares about the girl and tries his best, then no, but sadly many jerks just dont care and go right for it because they dont care much for the girl in the first place. Dont be depressed, there are plenty of good guys out there, you just have to find them!
2007-08-22 17:50:47 · answer #6 · answered by marm212 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the person. Some women can climax just by having their breasts touched... although that is very rare.
2007-08-22 17:49:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the guy and whether or not he cares that he gives her a climax.
2007-08-23 03:39:37 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No and sometimes I won't *** at all . There are times it is all about her and her needs . I can get off at any time but to make her have 3 or 4 well that's when I feel like the man I want to be for her .
2007-08-22 17:53:16 · answer #9 · answered by knightrunner13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to angel. desensitize the thing via regular use.
it could be that you are packing special stuff that causes
pre-ignition.
just know there are sprinters and long distance runners.
no need to be disgusted. take charge and manage the show your way. stop action when needed. all kinds of ways to skin a cat or stop a nut from busting.
remember some people pack special stuff, you could be such a person.
2007-08-22 18:00:10 · answer #10 · answered by ramni222 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋