Family & Relationships - 22 August 2007

i said how are you coping? his reply was well i could be better. WHAT DID HE MEAN BY THAT?

2007-08-22 20:25:08 · 5 answers · asked by frauline1999 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend and I have been together about 5months now we both love each other...i had decided not to have sex with him for the 1st year but somehow everytime i meet him i keep going one step closer to having sex with him (he doesnt push me into it at all its hard for me to stay in limits)...what shall i do??has anyone else gone thru this?

2007-08-22 20:20:43 · 14 answers · asked by kera 2 in Marriage & Divorce

or engaged for that matter.
even if they are in love and have been together 6+ years.
what do you think?

2007-08-22 20:19:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This has gotta be creative.

2007-08-22 20:14:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I see a person that looks the same a lot of places I go. I don't know whether he is the same person or just a very common type. I am not in harm but one time I was followed up the street by someone that looks like him. I often see someone that looks like him drive past my place and places I hang out. I know I am being paranoid but I get the feeling this person thinks they know me or wants to know me. I have dreams of this person and know I am in almost obsessed. They are a real person I have seen and heard of. Is this part of the crush, or part of a mental illness or actually happening.

2007-08-22 20:11:19 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I AM A 43 YRS OLD FEMALE ADOPTED IN LA COUNTY IN 1964. I NOW LIVE NEAR SACRAMENTO CA.I DO NOT HAVE A CAR TO DRIVE DOWN TO LA .ANY SUGGESTIONS? THANK-YOU!

2007-08-22 20:05:37 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-22 20:02:29 · 8 answers · asked by navin sarvanan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

it's ok i can take a joke too!
cuz i'm sure there'll be "the funny ones"
but really, who do i look like?
i used to get "shakira" back in high school but that was when she had her natural black hair, so no more of that!

2007-08-22 19:59:44 · 16 answers · asked by Bella Latina, 22 summers 3 in Singles & Dating

Needs urgent suggestions.?
iam much upset. my love is getting married to other girl because of his family.
i love him alot i can not see this moment
kindly suggest me your opinion,

i love him a lot i cant live one without him.

2007-08-22 19:58:14 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-22 19:55:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am not saying all arabs do, but it seems a lot are very violent and abusive toward their wives, why is that?

My girlfriends ex-husband was an arab. He would verabally abuse her and threaten to beat her up. He told her he broke his sisters jaw and the same would happen to her if she didn't keep quiet and let him fool around with all the women he wanted to. She was scared to death to divorce the guy.

2007-08-22 19:55:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im in a play at a community theater and i am the love interest... i am married with a baby in real life and i have to kiss this guy in the play and i cant get over the awkwardness of it, so i just laugh.... i know we cant progress and be believable if i dont get over my immaturity but this is the first time ive been in a role like this since ive been married, so i have a fine line of innapropriate i have to dance around..... we havnt kissed yet but we have to on friday and i need a trick or something to get my mind off the giggly thing ive been doing......

2007-08-22 19:53:02 · 11 answers · asked by renai0718 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been married for nearly 2 years now and find myself completely frustrated and increasingly growing distant from my husband. He was a very spoiled mama's boy before we got married. Now, I feel like his maid and secretary more than his wife. He never picks up his trash or puts laundry in the hamper although I'd asked him to several times. He constantly demands that I fetch everything for him when he's at home such as a drink, cigarettes, his phone, etc. He never tries to do much of anything for himself, instead demanding that I take care of it. I feel so worn out and used from constantly meeting his demands. My resentment is building everyday until I begin to wonder if i even still love him. I've tried discussing these things with him but he doesn't do talks about emotions and feelings unless he's drunk. In fact, he hasn't even told me he loves me in over 2 months. I want to work it out but am I really just beating a dead horse?

2007-08-22 19:52:40 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i found out my boyfriend cheated on me and now i just took an aids test if it comes back positive then should i leave him or be alone cuz who will want me with hiv? im stuck btwn a rock & hard place on this one. WHAT WOULD U DO? would u staty in relationship like that just cuz no else would want u after your boyfriend or girlfriend who was supposed to love u & be faithful after a 5 yr relationship cheated on u with many people & gave u aids? if i do leave him i will be alone 4 ever. if i stay i will be unhappy with someone who betrayed me and murdered me.

2007-08-22 19:51:36 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

age difference is the only hesitatation

2007-08-22 19:50:12 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

we're schoolmates..when i see him i show him that i'm annoyed at him.. but i'm really not.. when i don't see him i sort of feel sad..

2007-08-22 19:48:27 · 1 answers · asked by frenchfries1993 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my family is out of there mind, very southern, closed minded.. what id i want to get out and explore my options, party, still go to school, is that so bad? people talk around here and i would hate to be called a whore or that i'm not southern if i do this, but i feel like i need to get out and do something else besides... marry a low life have 4 kids get a divorce at 35.. i love it out here, but i refuse to be aother pretty girl that marries a guy that is not worth it? what do ya'll think.. i would hate for people around here to talk about me, or my ex boyfriends get happy because they think i'm not living right... what do u think?

2007-08-22 19:42:12 · 10 answers · asked by southernprideinmyveins420 1 in Friends

SOME TIME I HAVE SHOKED WITH MY FRIEND

2007-08-22 19:40:23 · 16 answers · asked by rangeen 1 in Friends

When you meet someone thats seems like youcould be with them and they say all thesethings to you and later on you realize there messed up in thehead and you want to stay with them and keepthem but they just keep screwing you over cause there problems. Sometimes I wonder if my girl never did cocaine or drank so much if she'd still be this way.. I want to help but in this situation I think that she permantely screwed eversince she quit she just seems different. I don't want to leave herbut I kinda feel like I haveto now.

2007-08-22 19:40:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was in NC this week n there was this girl who was sister wit some guy my friend knew n they wer chillen with us. Neway i wanna know if she liked me. she kept sayin i was "nice" like i guess a gentleman. N i thought she wanted to be friends or watever but when i was sayin bye she gave me this reallty tight hug tht threw me off.

What does she want???????????????

2007-08-22 19:38:05 · 1 answers · asked by CQ 2 in Singles & Dating

I started dating my ex-gf again about 2 weeks ago. While I was so in love with her, she said she was just "testing her feelings for me again." I've changed my life significantly and have done everything I possibly could do to show her how much I love her, but she's just not into me like she used be in the past. She says she needs to take it slow, but she's had nearly 6 months after we first broke up to think about our relationship. Obviously we don't have sex, but she can't even hold my hand without being uncomfortable. I tried so hard but I could not take it anymore. She says she cares about me, and wants to love me but says she has to continue to build her feelings for me again. Yesterday, I broke up with her. It's so painful to love someone so much and not be loved back. Some people say true love is worth waiting for, but I'll never know if she would ever fall in love with me again...Should I have just kept on dating her like this forever? Was my decision rash?

2007-08-22 19:37:37 · 16 answers · asked by bananas4breakfast14 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

A couple of days ago my boyfriend and I went to breakfast and I saw a misterious name in his phone. Not because I was checking but he was goining through his phone in my presence. I asked him about one of his numbers and he claimed he didn't know who she is. He even volunteered to call the number and the person on the other line claim not to know him or me. Today he was really late coming home from work (which is unusual) so I called him. The first two times he didn't answer the phone. The last time he did and said he was right around the corner. Then all of a sudden he called back yelling at me for calling him with a tone of voice I guess he didn't appreciate. I am a worrier and I just wanted to make sure he was okay. I've done this serveral times before and it's never been a problem. In my heart I know something isn't right. But at the same time when I think I see trouble I'm out the door. My instincts tell me to leave. Please I need some serious advice.

2007-08-22 19:36:03 · 13 answers · asked by D 3 in Marriage & Divorce

because they found there life was dull or think they need a change in lifestyle, would you take them back if there plan went "itts" up.

2007-08-22 19:34:08 · 54 answers · asked by Dibski 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have 2 children and he's going overseas for work and we won't be with him for a while. So I need something from the kids that he could take with him from them (they're 3 and 19 months)
And also I need to give or do something special for him before he goes... I'm very open minded so throw any ideas at me for my present to him.

He's a very simple person, who puts me and the kids before himself... so I want to do something special just to make sure he knows how much he means to us...
Likes: motorbikes, country music, me and the kids!!
Dislikes: jewellry

Any help would be great thanx!!

2007-08-22 19:30:34 · 9 answers · asked by JazzyKat 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-22 19:30:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Husband wants to stay together he says he needs counseling and wants to go to couples counseling,but this man has lied to the point where I am emotionally drained he even went so far as to have his friends lie for him only they are about as smart as he is which isnt good.My thing is he lied alot to be with this other woman and that to me says he wanted to be with her he did anything to get out of the house to see her and disrespected not just me but our babies gone for days at a time no phone call or anything I did my part so why should I stick it out with him,he still resents his ex wife for what she did to him she treated him like he was beneath a pile of dog crap now he finally admits that he needs help and I dont understand just what am I supposed to do I have done my part and I have paid for what she did to him many many times and they were divorced 4 years before I met him my heart says leave what should I do?????

2007-08-22 19:28:52 · 5 answers · asked by CaliMa 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Could you fall in love with someone you have been talking to for a long time but u dont realy know what he say is true. But you belive that he is telling the truth. What i'm saying is that we have never met. We talk on msn a chat room sort of

2007-08-22 19:26:36 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Somebody said so about my ex-boyfriend.

2007-08-22 19:25:56 · 16 answers · asked by PocahontasPR 3 in Singles & Dating

We are from the Central Coast in Cali...looking to move somewhere that is actually AffOrdAble. As much as we love the area and have been spoiled with the weather here growing up so far... cost of housing is ridiculous!!! We have been looking into Austin, Tx area, but I'd like to know if anybody else knows of places (or lives anywhere) where housing is also AS AFFORDABLE as Texas? (new 4BR homes for about $200k! we could have a mansion there! lol). We are not willing to be on the east coast, too far from family in Cali, also, no areas that rain alllll the time (Wa & Or), but possibly Az? Nv? Nm? I don't know... Don't like the scOrchinG hot weather either!!! Sorry so picky, but please help! Also we would obivously need an area suitable for raising our son.. safe, pretty, employment opportunities for mom and dad, etc. Any help would be appreciated! TIA :]

2007-08-22 19:24:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

people will like you for who you are instead of what you look like after awhile?

2007-08-22 19:24:29 · 17 answers · asked by eoc1000 2 in Singles & Dating