age difference is the only hesitatation
2007-08-22 19:50:12 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
lol...if she agree to marry wit ya than ok...
2007-08-22 19:54:52 · answer #1 · answered by Shahreen 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Age is just a number, true, but this age difference is different than if she was in her late 20s and you in her late 30s ~ it's called maturity and she just won't have it at 18. 99% of people at 18 are not all that mature and don't know how to handle problems because they've not had to deal with problems since mom and dad made all the decisions.
I would suggest you date a couple of years (not live together) and see how well you interact together. If you truly love each other, 2 more years is only going to cement your love for each other and make you both stronger.
When she is a little older, she will be better able to handle the stress of a household and being married. Once you marry, wait a couple of years before having children so you have time to adjust to each other and get your home set up. Don't need alot of debt when you start a family or it could add alot of problems to your relationship.
2007-08-22 20:59:42 · answer #2 · answered by KittyKat 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is a huge maturity difference between the average 27 year old and an 18 year old. The 18 year old has just finished high school or will be finishing it soon and the 27 year old has been out some what on his own for nine years.
There is almost a decade of difference between their tastes in music, friends and social life.
The two of you are at an age where the age will make the most difference. Things may work out and work out well, but you should expect some differences because of the social maturity and expectations.
2007-08-22 20:01:59 · answer #3 · answered by don n 6 · 4⤊ 2⤋
If she is mature enough, then you should. Also make sure that if you marry her, that you let her grow as a person, so she had a personality that is her's. Let her be independent and make her own choices. Also know that she is very malleable right now, so she will change over time and will form a definite personality. Most medical literatures say that most people are not ready for marriage until age 26-27 including women.
2007-08-22 20:14:51 · answer #4 · answered by healingarden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No problem! 9 years is not a big age gap. If you like each other, pl get married with parents blessings. Both of you can be at sweet seventeen in heart - always. Enjoy life
2007-08-22 20:15:08 · answer #5 · answered by villager 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope. That's a lot of difference...27 and 18. Generally, not compatible on long term.
2007-08-23 16:34:09 · answer #6 · answered by Question 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's ready to be married and you love her and you're ready to be married....then go for it. I would spend sometime engaged though make sure it's the right thing.
I'm 20....and I was a very different person at 18 I will be a very different person at 25. My husband is my age so we've grown together. It all depends.
2007-08-22 20:12:03 · answer #7 · answered by confused 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Hi there! Well, I am here to tell you that AGE is nothing more but a NUMBER.
My husband and I have a huge age difference (he's older than me 15+ yrs) but we get along so well and we do love and care for each other very much. I honestly don't care about our age... never did I let it bother me because that's how much I love him. I'd honestly feel stupid if I had let myself put on some drama just because of our age difference.
I am just wondering why you are having hesitations just because of your age gap. I am starting to think that you don't really love each other just because you let yourself be bothered simply by your age difference.
2007-08-22 19:59:58 · answer #8 · answered by ♥♥♥MiSSY♥♥♥ 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Its better to take some time to think about it...
she may say yes but still is immature..The difference
in ur age will be same after one or two year also.
So first take a time to understand each one.after a year
or two decide what u ppl want to do...
2007-08-22 20:18:13 · answer #9 · answered by sprite 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Why not? The age difference (9 years) isn't considerable either.
2007-08-24 07:07:03 · answer #10 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup
with no hesitation u should marry her
love her?
care abt her?
sacrifice urself 4 her?
if ur answer is yes 2 all then
u go marry her NOW dude..
gooooooood luck 4 u both!
2007-08-23 04:18:49 · answer #11 · answered by A's 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋