Family & Relationships - 22 August 2007

i can't understand why guy say love gf but they have some one??? They said not serious with another girl just fun...I can't understand. U said love her but why u don'e care of her feeling? i can't not understand!!!Please tell me what r u thinking???

2007-08-22 19:24:05 · 7 answers · asked by nonglnalak 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We have been corresponding for two months. I like him. We have not met in person yet. He is "save" and so am I. He has two children( one is 17 & the other is 7). I don't have any. He is far more experience than I am. I has excuses why he doesn't call me in a timely manner.I on the otherhand find it hard to accept. Its not that I don't believe him, but it doesn't take much to pick up the phone and call a person instead of leaving them hanging. I am not sure where this is going. I am waiting for him to take the lead and get the ball rolling. I do not want him to think that I desperate, but I am 39 years old and I don't have time to waste.
For those who believe in being spiritually lead, what is your input. I am patient and am waiting for the Lord to guide me. I like his personality/character and charisma. He can be a keeper, but he is not giving me much to work on. Since its only been a few months, how much time should I give him to really know if he wants to pursue this or not?

2007-08-22 19:22:07 · 9 answers · asked by weezie 1 in Singles & Dating

For five months I have been seeing this guy that my brother does not like. Well over the weekend as I was getting ready to go out with my brother my cell had gone off while I was somewhere else. He saw that it was the guy and pretty much did not want to hang out with me at all. Since then he hasn't said a word. I don't know what to do. And I fear that he will tell my father about the guy. I really need some advice.

2007-08-22 19:22:03 · 8 answers · asked by biochick11220 4 in Family

If you had the choice to step out of whatever life you're living now for certain love with your soulmate but no guarantee of security...would you do it?

2007-08-22 19:21:32 · 20 answers · asked by Thoughtful 2 in Marriage & Divorce

was she being a bitch?
it was at work and another girl was in the break room. After she said that- I was looking the other way- the other girl giggled and said shut up to my "relative" so i dont know what she did. I'm thnkin she meant i have nothing to lose as in im a loser or im dumb and no one else will want me anyway..

2007-08-22 19:21:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

she says she loves me but always has an excuse as to why she hasn't visited me yet. she has flaked on me 2 times so far and always promises that she will be here with me soon.she has no job or substancial reason to stay in san diego. should i just let her go? i've been with her 3+ years

2007-08-22 19:16:53 · 14 answers · asked by Marco B 1 in Family

My son is 31. I don't know what happened but it seems as though there is nothing I can do right. He is nit picking everything I do. I'm real hurt and don't want to answer his phone calls anymore.

2007-08-22 19:15:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-08-22 19:15:17 · 6 answers · asked by ragedrOgue 1 in Singles & Dating

guys are starting to annoy me lately. this summer, i've had like 12 bfs and i had to break up with ALL of them because they were too obsessed with sex! the oldest any of them was was 18 and i'm 16! i've had sex before, but i odn't really want to 3 times a day, like they do!!!i'm really pretty and i live in la, so i guess that could be part of it. it's really annoying! do guys not understand that i could get pregnant or a disease or something??? anyway, why are so many guys this obsessed???

2007-08-22 19:09:31 · 19 answers · asked by kaylarose 2 in Singles & Dating

I kept count, and one day when she went to 276 I told her to pack her things and get out. She immediately shot up to 450 so I told her I was keeping the dog. Anyone else have this problem with chicks?

2007-08-22 19:03:58 · 27 answers · asked by NONAME 1 in Singles & Dating

We had a huge argument this pm and of course, I dug in and pulled out my defenses which includes how offended I was after he started playing baseball games with his ex and how he spends almost everything he has on their kids. working extra and how I think he probably paid for her cosmetic surgery. Frankly, I have had enough of this woman and if he does not quit calling me by her 1st name I think I will explode and call him every name I know.
Is it me or is it him. I am sick to death of his ex wife who shows up at every single family function, funeral, etc..... I have had enough of her. I raised a family on my own and I have divorced and am not on friendly terms with my ex. Is it ok for me to be aggrivated that he keeps calling me by his ex name or is he still hung up on her? Its been 5 yrs now and frankly I think he needs counseling.

2007-08-22 19:00:57 · 8 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-22 18:58:55 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm Ariel, the little mermaid, our whole situation is the same, minus me being a mermaid n minus being in love w a different species of course.
but we got the dad thing going on, the courage but always wanting to please dad, n the love that isn't that perfect yet.

2007-08-22 18:56:26 · 12 answers · asked by Bella Latina, 22 summers 3 in Singles & Dating

I know im only 15 but I can tell when someone is checking me out. I know I look alittle older since im 5.8" 136 pounds (my face looks alot older). I can tell he is atleast in his mid 20's. But when he looks at me he makes eye contact with me for like 2-4 secounds long....which freaks me out but i just try to act like im really into my work out (which i am). And try not to look at him.
but i can tell he looks at me from the corner of my eye.


I have to say, i kinda like the attention, he is really good looking. But i know we have no reason to look at each other like that.


There was even this time were he was looking at me, walked straight to me but at the slightest sec. he turn somewhere else (i thought he was going to come up and talk to me). That freaked me out like he was playing hard to get or somethin!

This have been going on for two months now!
What should i do?

2007-08-22 18:53:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

today I feel very sad, for many years I been married, for few years I have many problems with my husband I was about to divorse. my husband was born here he doesnt speak spanish, and my english is not well, I am latina so this is the third time that when I talking to our children about something and I dont said it right he starts lo laugth. I told him many times the i dont like that, that he needs to repect me, also he always is in bad mood he said is my falt, but even if I dont said anything he gives B.... and he told my children not to speak spanish.
What should I do I tired of this situation

2007-08-22 18:52:25 · 23 answers · asked by esmeralda669966 1 in Family

I've had basically the same good friends all my life & others that came & went, but thinking about it, I really don't share any of their interests. When I find time to do something I really like it seems I'm always by myself. They dont share my interest in reading or crafts. Being in a small town there isn't much opportunity to meet new people. Kinda sad really.

2007-08-22 18:49:54 · 9 answers · asked by chickem 4 in Friends

I have been married for 16 years (now separated) to a woman who, although is okay with receiving oral sex, refuses to perform it. She's an extremely squeamish person and just finds the act to be disgusting. My problem now is that I'm 49 and I don't get hard just by looking at her like I used to. I need a little foreplay. Oh yes, she doesn't like touching me "there" with her hand either. Her attitude about these things isn't because of any abuse or trauma in her life. Just prudishness.

2007-08-22 18:46:21 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I realized today that my girlfriend who i have been dating for a month now, has an Ex who is more attractive than I am. Not only is he better looking, but is also more in shape. I feel kind of shitty after knowing this.

Should I be worried, or does it really not matter?

If you have any extra information on this sort of thing please add it.

2007-08-22 18:44:48 · 46 answers · asked by Chance 2 in Singles & Dating

if a guy acts really sweet around you but insults you when he's around his friends. is he a jerk or is he just being a guy in general?

2007-08-22 18:44:26 · 16 answers · asked by mochafreeze2007 2 in Friends

when he loves you (but hasnt said it yet)

2007-08-22 18:43:09 · 8 answers · asked by JamaicanmecrayZ 1 in Singles & Dating

she knows that i think its sexy as hell when she wears stockings, but she hardly ever does. and the only time she does, i have to beg. i just love it when women wear nylon and i wish my girlfriend would indulge in that for me.

2007-08-22 18:43:05 · 10 answers · asked by B 4 in Singles & Dating

My wife is bi. We both like the idea of being with another woman, but don't like the idea of a fling. Also, we are looking for an emotional bond. So, we discussed finding a "girlfriend". However, that has the problem of being temporal & the girlfriend would not be on equal footing as my wife and I. My wife suggested that we find someone who could be OUR "wife" and we would be on equal footing. Has anybody had any experience with this? These are my concerns:

How could this impact the relationships of any potential children with their half-siblings or their parents?

How does one allow their extended families become aware of the situation? Would you want to hide the fact? Would it even be possible?

How does this affect one on one intimacy with your wives?

Has anyone had any children that were raised in this environment? How did it affect their view of women & marriage?

Having lived in this situation, do you look back and say it was well worth it?

What advice can you give?

2007-08-22 18:43:01 · 9 answers · asked by Rope-a-dope 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-22 18:42:08 · 13 answers · asked by ManHere 2 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriends family is overly dysfunctional. his brother yells, throws objects, and there is no respect between them. the mother usually sides with the brother and therefore my boyfriend always feels hatred towards her. the father butts out and acts like nothing happens. my question is..if someone is brought up in a home filled with disrespect for one another and fighting, do you think this will be the case when my boyfriend has a place of his own ??
(or when we get married?)

2007-08-22 18:42:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

im getting married in a week but it is to the guy i always wanted to be with we have been in a relationship for 2 years now but he has been in jail for 1 year and 1month is it normal to be scared?what should i do? please help me and try your best to answer

2007-08-22 18:36:58 · 33 answers · asked by tjsacuttie224 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriends family is overly dysfunctional. his brother yells, throws objects, and there is no respect between them. the mother usually sides with the brother and therefore my boyfriend always feels hatred towards her. the father butts out and acts like nothing happens. my question is..if someone is brought up in a home filled with disrespect for one another and fighting, do you think this will be the case when my boyfriend has a place of his own ??
(or when we get married?)

2007-08-22 18:35:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I believe in god and jesus and all, but I was never baptized. I don't really have a religion, when i was a child I went to a non denomination church(i think that's the right word) We have 2 kids and they are both baptized catholic, and our son is already attending catholic school, and I attend catholic church with my family. I do not want to be baptized catholic, but it is very important to my fiance that we be married in a catholic church. I am completely supportive of him , but i was just wondering if We can be married there, without my being baptized? All and any advice or insight is GREATLY appreciated. Thanks, Pam.

2007-08-22 18:35:46 · 12 answers · asked by Miss Elizabeth 2 in Weddings

I have been seeing the best guy so far I have dated for about 5 months now. 1 month ago he moved to Florida and I am in Michigan. When he moved he took off without saying goodbye and ignored my phone call (i only made one after i realized he skipped town on me) and a week later he texted me to apologize and said he wanted me to move with him. We had planned for me to move down there shortly after his move, but we never made solid plans, only talked about it. Anyway, so we began to talk on the phone and he used to call me up to 5 times a day and send me about 15 text messages a day. This lasted for about 2 weeks. I then cut off contact for abut 2 weeks while I figured some stuff out. Now he only calls once a day, we talk for about 20 min and then he says he has to go and will call me later. Later to me is a few hours, but he won't call till the next day. He also doenst call back when he says he will and I havent heard from him since yesterday morning. Do you think there is another girl?

2007-08-22 18:35:35 · 12 answers · asked by Sad Girl 1 in Singles & Dating

i've been this guy for a about a year now and im his longest relationship..well he went off to boot camp at the marines and he came back.. well he's change and i accepted taht becuase i love him..well before he had left to boot camp he had cheated on me and chose that other chick over me..(that girl knew he was with me still went after him) well we were broken up for 2 weeks and he kept writing me telling me he'll do watever it takes to get me back in his life.. well i took him back.. everything was fine untill he came home..things just change..well he broke up with me today on our anniversery...i've been crying all day long...he just say that he's change and that i'm still the same...he expect so much from me he wants to me to work and be more independent..its hard wen im a full time student and i'll be graduating from college next spring with a BA...I'm always at school. why cant he just be happy with me as of rite now...i accepted him for who he was and not wat he was...I love him.

2007-08-22 18:35:35 · 14 answers · asked by nancy p 1 in Singles & Dating

i never delivered the emotional security that's what she told me..is that enough reason for a girl to break up with you? what should i do to get her back? does those ebooks online works?

2007-08-22 18:31:04 · 10 answers · asked by Robert r 2 in Marriage & Divorce