i never delivered the emotional security that's what she told me..is that enough reason for a girl to break up with you? what should i do to get her back? does those ebooks online works?
2007-08-22 18:31:04 · 10 answers · asked by Robert r 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Perhaps she was trying to let you down gently, move on, plenty of other women out there
2007-08-22 18:34:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She feels that way and thats the way it is! But did you ever ask her what more you could do to make her more emotionally secure? Why does a reason to break up with someone have to be a big reason- or big in the other persons eye anyway! It doesnt seem to me that you really cared about her anyway cause right here your talking about getting back at her! Why dont you just chalk it up to a learning experiance and move on. GEt past it and start over. Learn from your experiance and carry it into your next relationship!
2007-08-22 18:39:50 · answer #2 · answered by tpettee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then she definitely does not sound like she really loved u because when u loved somebody you tried to communicate what is bothering and she should made an attempt of let u know that u were not offering emotional security.
2007-08-22 18:49:28 · answer #3 · answered by MARIA G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should learn to be more sensitive to women's feelings. Too many men get dumped everyday for the same reason. They don't realize that a women is sensitive and needs someone to be there when she is emotional, if not to understand, but to just be there for her. Try holding her and reassuring her when she emotional.
2007-08-22 18:39:25 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup! The number 1 for a woman is security, emotional and financial. To be able to get her back, you may need to mature yourself.
Good luck
2007-08-22 18:38:51 · answer #5 · answered by orcahock 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of he's dangling you on a string. you're putting greater means into the courting than he's, and every time he senses you like greater from him, he acts loving and makes you experience like a million funds. Then he leaves you sitting there and is going out along with his acquaintances, who're his first precedence in spite of each and every thing. in case you got here upon a guy who positioned you first on his checklist of priorities, how could you experience? greater valuable? Or could you omit being dealt with like a 2d type citizen? you need to choose for a guy who could provide you what you like and deserve in a courting.
2016-10-16 13:26:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She never felt secure with you, that she could soar and you would be there for her.
Having someone to be secure with is very very important to both men and women.
2007-08-26 13:22:20 · answer #7 · answered by brilliantyetconfused 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she was upset because she never knew how you felt basically about ANYTHING. and for some girls, they need to feel secure about their relationship. to get her back, just talk to her, and tell her that you'll try to express how you feel more often (and actually be willing to do this) and ask her to help you out with this because you really love/like her (whichever one you do..lol) and you dont wanna lose her.
2007-08-22 18:37:56 · answer #8 · answered by Jay babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In her book it is enough reason....I wouldn't waste my time trying to get her back...she obviously doesn't want to be with you.
2007-08-22 18:35:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you just aren't the one for her; but you would be for someone else. Be yourself and you'll find the right person for you.
2007-08-22 19:05:11 · answer #10 · answered by gma 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋