guys are starting to annoy me lately. this summer, i've had like 12 bfs and i had to break up with ALL of them because they were too obsessed with sex! the oldest any of them was was 18 and i'm 16! i've had sex before, but i odn't really want to 3 times a day, like they do!!!i'm really pretty and i live in la, so i guess that could be part of it. it's really annoying! do guys not understand that i could get pregnant or a disease or something??? anyway, why are so many guys this obsessed???
2007-08-22 19:09:31 · 19 answers · asked by kaylarose 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey hey hey. guys arent shallow!
but ya, were obsessed with sex.
why? cuz it feels so good to be inside a woman.
2007-08-22 19:15:13 · answer #1 · answered by 123mantobeat456 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
theres a little thing called testosterone...it increases guys libido. also...having 12 bfs in 1 summer probably isnt healthy at all. thats an average of 1 bf per week. also dont b 2 anxious 2 have sex...if ur going 2 do it then make sure ur protected and dont just let the guys have it. the more u let them have sex with u the more they will expect it. also guys ur age r still mentally and emotionally immature compared 2 girls ur age so they act like idiots and often think with the head in their pants rather than the 1 on their neck. also u living in LA has nothing 2 do with...guys r just as horny all over the world
2007-08-22 19:17:51 · answer #2 · answered by Mikey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm..
I could ask " why are girls so shallow that they only go for good looks, a big expensive car, and a well filled wallet" ?
But, i`ll be nice - and don`t.
Not all guys are like this - but in the age range you give hormones usually have more influence than common sense.
Just wait till you are 25, 26 and see if it is still the same.
If it is, you might need to find a slightly older guy (+4 years ) and see the difference.
May you find wisdom ;)
2007-08-22 19:22:39 · answer #3 · answered by U_S_S_Enterprise 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try to understand that Mother Nature programmed guys to be this way in order to ensure procreation. It's not that they're selfish or immature or shallow. Once you understand how they think, you may be able to delight in how outrageously fun it can be with them. But I do understand that too much is too much for the female, especially at your age. Hey...send them to me. I'm a little older than you and I like how they are! LOL
2007-08-22 19:17:01 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys are obsessed.
It's generally the message you give them to get them to like you in the first place. If you're pretty, and you use that to get guys to like you, then they will be focused on your looks, like how sexy you are, instead of actually liking you for your personality. So if you take it down a step, more guys will like you for who you are, and not have the message that you put out on their mind. It will still be there, but more toned down than like 3 times a day or every day.
2007-08-22 19:21:22 · answer #5 · answered by plaidbunny3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because one, they've seen your pass as a sl-t? and you might just be pretty that they're shallow and just wants you for your body and appearance. It's our nature to have such strong hormones and wanting sex, for me, not 3 times a day, but whenever my girlfriend feels like it, i wouldn't mind if i couldn't ever have sex with her cuz love beats sex anyday.
2007-08-22 19:19:02 · answer #6 · answered by skipper 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
okay 3 times a day is ****** up, most guy will b happy with like once or twice a week at most.
BLOODS. CK. since ur from la u should know what im tlkn bout there.
2007-08-22 19:16:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Guys are just that way. All of their blood runs to the penis, and their brain can't function from lack of oxygen. At least that is the excuse I make for them!! lol
2007-08-22 19:21:13 · answer #8 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
um because they're guys....and oh fyi alot of girls are obsessed with sex too, it's not gender biased although that may shock you. Maybe that's why its sometimes better to date someone alittle older.
2007-08-22 19:15:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I blamed eveything on the music because now adays every type of music it involve sex instead of love.
Big influence!
2007-08-22 19:19:04 · answer #10 · answered by jane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋