I have been seeing the best guy so far I have dated for about 5 months now. 1 month ago he moved to Florida and I am in Michigan. When he moved he took off without saying goodbye and ignored my phone call (i only made one after i realized he skipped town on me) and a week later he texted me to apologize and said he wanted me to move with him. We had planned for me to move down there shortly after his move, but we never made solid plans, only talked about it. Anyway, so we began to talk on the phone and he used to call me up to 5 times a day and send me about 15 text messages a day. This lasted for about 2 weeks. I then cut off contact for abut 2 weeks while I figured some stuff out. Now he only calls once a day, we talk for about 20 min and then he says he has to go and will call me later. Later to me is a few hours, but he won't call till the next day. He also doenst call back when he says he will and I havent heard from him since yesterday morning. Do you think there is another girl?
2007-08-22 18:35:35 · 12 answers · asked by Sad Girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have been seeing the best guy... yadda yadda yadda
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2007-08-22 18:38:13 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are absent minded. I say I'm going to call people but sometimes I forget. Sometimes I remember but its too late at night or too early in the morning. Later to me is usually the next day but sometimes longer than that. You have to make things clearer, both about what you expect but also what you want. You come across as slightly desperate but you cut off contact for 2 weeks. How do you think that made him feel?
2007-08-23 01:45:38 · answer #2 · answered by Daniel H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not worth it don't even bother moving down there. If he doesn't have the balls too tell you he moved to Florida he's not the one for you! Also you deserve much better anyways and most guys don't call back because well they aren't much of the ones to chat on the phone. I don't like talking on the phone I rather be talking to the person i'm with in person so I can see them.
2007-08-23 01:39:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there WAS another girl. Back when he first moved. He didn't even tell when he left town! But after a month the other girl didn't work out so he started in on you again. And he wants you to up and move for him. After his lack of care and communication you need to realize that he's not looking out for you. It's time to move on.
2007-08-23 01:42:55 · answer #4 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey girl call him & tell him that u too hav hav moved to florida u will make out if he is happy or no from his answer. if he is happy u can be assured that there is no other girl but if he dosent like ur statment u should mive on in life there r many other guys in the world....
2007-08-23 01:52:24 · answer #5 · answered by kamal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe some of us get tired of getting fake phone numbers the vast majority of the time.
2007-08-23 01:38:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sad Girl,
Buy the book "He's Just Not that Into You". Read twice.
It will be the best money you ever spend.
CW
2007-08-23 18:29:01 · answer #7 · answered by Elaine J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure there is. Or maybe it is just not meant to be. Long distance relationships only work for special people.
2007-08-23 01:38:45 · answer #8 · answered by l.o.v.e. .l.i.f.e. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him 3 days. then call him and say that you got worried and you dont like guys who dont stick to their words
threaten to leave him
2007-08-23 01:38:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i didnt read all of what you said except the first three lines and it pierced me its a bad sign move on
2007-08-23 01:38:34 · answer #10 · answered by ethnhunt2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuz the guys that do that r prolly dogs!
i'm guessing, wouldn't know?
2007-08-23 01:38:08 · answer #11 · answered by Bella Latina, 22 summers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋