Family & Relationships - 22 August 2007

a live lobster?????

would you do it again???

2007-08-22 16:37:20 · 6 answers · asked by el mismo 2 in Friends

I am going out with a boy and we are not that far like (kissing)
or anything and im scared if i do something wrong!

This is what i think might happen:he pulls me away from my freinds and i say "what are u -" i didnt have a chance to finish what to say.With one swift move the boy grabbed both of my hands in his and leaned in and said my name sweetly,romantically........
All at once his lips pressed down......well,on my cheek! but he was aiming for my lips.the boy tried again.....moving even closer this time.And this time it was lip-to-lip,hands locked.
But this i am afraid of doing.pulling away from him and jumping up and down like a bunny is going crazy for jumping and me yelling "HE KISSED ME FOR THE FIRST TIME,HE KISSED ME HE KISSED ME!" all over the town.

Im afraid he might dump me if i go crazy. because believe me im a crazy girl!What am i going to do? and i cant help it but i go crazy when a boy kisses me! i always do that

2007-08-22 16:35:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I was having sex with a guy I was dating. I had never done IT before but I was trying to lossen my morals with him I suppose? With this guy it was the opposite case, he had been in the process of improving himself before he met me, morally where he stood on casual sex I'm not exactly sure............but he had become more religious and had stopped sleeping around. We were unable to really become more serious and eventually I had to come clean. I felt what I was doing was wrong. He felt uneasy about it too for other reasons, I just wonder if I should have let morality guide me or if morality is outdated or what? It was bothering me alot before we talked................we are still friends, that I'm thankful for. I just wonder if I really did the right thing, he seems fine either way but I miss the phisical so much. Alot of people do friends with benies, but I see him as more than just a bed buddy. Do you think our friendship will be better without the phisical?

2007-08-22 16:34:43 · 7 answers · asked by candiecorn 1 in Singles & Dating

Had I of known a broken heart would hurt this much I never would have gotten into the relationship to begin with. I'm just so tired of feeling this way. I'm tired of crying & feeling so hurt all the time. I'm tired of missing him. I think of him constantly. He was my everything. I want to let go & to move on, but this has been the hardest thing I've EVER had to go through. When will it be over?

2007-08-22 16:34:42 · 10 answers · asked by goingxunder 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a guy and making friends with guys was always easy, I would go and ask them what xbox or playstation games they played and that was it, they became my friends it was easy as that to get to know a guy and he was my friend. How come I never had the guts to start a conversation with ANY girls at all? Is it cuz I'm a coward and weak?

Is this abnormal? When a average looking girl is talking to me I get really nervous for no reason and I wanna stop the conversation with her cuz she might think I want her as a girlfriend. Do girls feel the same way talking to a average looking guy?

2007-08-22 16:28:30 · 2 answers · asked by bo3z 1 in Friends

Suppose you do your duty as a wife, why do hubby still surf porn and claim it as relaxation? he claimed that he will stop if I dun like it. But will men really stop?

2007-08-22 16:25:25 · 32 answers · asked by Humble Learner 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-22 16:24:35 · 2 answers · asked by ? 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been with a boyfriend for 2.5 years, but now he has to go to the military for 4 years. Our future is very uncertain, and now I am studying abroad in another country. I just recently met another guy and we are getting along very well. He really wants me to be his girlfriend. I really like him, but if I say yes, I think I would feel guilty. The boyfriend already knows that I am uncertain about our relationship because of us having to be apart for 4 years. When we are together, I feel like he is "the one", but ever since we've been apart, I don't know what to feel. Do you think I should stick with him, or choose this new guy?

2007-08-22 16:24:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been going out for a couple of weeks now and I want to surprise him. He always kisses me first. So I just want to pull up at his house and when he comes outside spontaneously kiss him. I don't want it to be weird so how do I go about making it sexy?

2007-08-22 16:24:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im not sure if its methodane or methodone but i know its a pill and i know my sister is doing it

2007-08-22 16:23:59 · 10 answers · asked by answermethis 1 in Family

it has happened time and again. i'm pretty sure there are girls out there that have experienced the same.
there are guys who court you but when you turn them down, they keep getting up. it's really bugging me. i feel that i'm prolonging his agony somehow.
what do you have to do or to say to make a guy understand that when you tell him no.. it's final.?
*for the record, i am a girl. i just want to experience having a male avatar, just for a change.

2007-08-22 16:15:18 · 1 answers · asked by sally 1 in Singles & Dating

...he commented on so many things that he doesn't like about me, from my head to my toe! and things I do. Why does he stick around?
What's his problem?

2007-08-22 16:15:05 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay guys help me out! A new guy friend has been flirting with me, talking to me all the time, sharing lunch w/me, touching me, gave me his number (but we've only talked on the phone briefly twice), looks into my eyes when speaking, asks friends about me,etc. Then we have drunk sex. I am 10 yrs older & was married at the time & we work together. A few days later he says he just wants to be friends & that I'm a great girl but it's complicated-age, work, etc. I'm no longer with my husband-for other reasons- and we've been hanging out here & there. My friends seem to think he's into me & people thought we were having sex way before we actually did. Now that I'm separated, things are weird. One minute he's like he was in the beginning, the next minute-who knows. Does he maybe like me more than he wants to admit? Or was I a one night stand. Help please!

2007-08-22 16:14:54 · 17 answers · asked by baffled 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband is from El Salvador and his mom treats him and his two other brothers more like romantic relationships than sons, I have two sons who are still young and I feel it is strange to be overly affectionate, I'm talking about more than hugs, kisses and snuggles. Is this a cultural thing or what?

2007-08-22 16:12:36 · 9 answers · asked by Renée G 3 in Family

I have a guy friend that I've known for awhile. Kind of "sexual" things happened between us at one point. We're still pretty good friends, however, we live far from each other. (Other states)

He calls maybe about once a week, and he talks about coming down to visit me when he gets a chance. He's made comments about having sex with each other. He admits to knowing I care for him, He admits to liking me at one point in time, yet, even when I've asked, he hasn't said his feelings for me.

I'm confused. Does, or Doesn't he like me?

2007-08-22 16:07:01 · 18 answers · asked by tinker_872006 1 in Singles & Dating

I dated a guy who apparently took me for granted. after a month apart he claimed he texted me by mistake but took the opportunity to invite me out for coffee. I admit i was excited. but i told him i'm going to be busy for the next two weeks i have family over which is true. i know i could have made some time for him but i feel he has to work for it if he wants to be in my life in any way. he really messed up and now he claims he misses me. i said i don't think is a good idea he claims is just a friend inquiring about a friend. we dated for three months and is good to feel i left an impression. what do you think? if he is interested he should be able to wait, right? is only two weeks. it did not work out because he drank and drove, danced disrespectfully with other ladies being with me. when i told him my concern he said i was controlling. i can observe his behavior as a friend and see if he really changed IF he asks me to be with him again. what do you thin

2007-08-22 16:03:11 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Anyone can answer this question if you have great ideas but, preferably people who have been married for awhile!
I've been happily married for 8 years. My husband is awesome, I still love him as much (NO..more!) then the day I married him. But, you know how it is...with kids and everyday life, that you get caught up with things and you don't do enough to show someone that you do love them.
So, what are your ideas of everyday things that I can do to show my husband that I appreciate him?
What do you guys think is romantic? Hahaha..I know this is an open door to say the obvious...SEX. But, I'm looking for other ideas. Got any to share?
Thanks!

2007-08-22 16:03:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-22 16:01:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok well I need a bunch of help. Im starting a new school and there is a guy next to my locker friendly and nice and kind of cute. Then there is this hott but idk friendly cause im too frightened to talk to him school starts in 5 days so please helpme. Do I make the first move? Which guy should I pick? and how long should I wait for me to make the first move? How long do I wait for him to make the first move before moving on?

2007-08-22 15:58:02 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Good Evening! For those of you who don't know me, I'm T, the very proud lil sister of our gorgeous Bride. I am honored for the opportunity to toast the bride and the groom as the maid of honor today. I want to start by congratulating C and K, and thanking all of you for coming here today!
I would like to also say thank you to my parents, for all that you've done to make this the special day that it is. And, of course, my gratitude to Mr. & Mrs. L and family for all your support and travel time to make this the perfect day for C and K.

C, I have to admit, I'm impressed with the way you cleanup. You look very handsome today! I want you to know, you have passed a tough test. As we all know, any man who can live up to the standards of K's sisters is a stand-up guy. On a more serious note, and on the behalf of the family, we would like to welcome you and your family into our family. Or as they say in Holland, . . . . (Groom is from Holland)

2007-08-22 15:57:49 · 12 answers · asked by Nezz 2 in Weddings

ladies... can you believe the number of men who do not know women have an orgasm too? this friend of mine( a guy) is in his late 40's, didnt know what I was talking about and when I explained this to him & he was like"whaaatttt?" and he thought I was totally making this up. Any familiar stories? I mean if he dont know at this at his age, how many more dont know?

2007-08-22 15:55:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I met this man who is 43 never married and we hit it off. We spent an entire weekend together and seemed to have chemistry. He led me to believe we should see one another again and he wanted to be my boyfriend. After our second visit another weekend together(he lived 230 miles from me) he now tells me he is not into A LDR and we have nothing in common or he is not comfortable with me. How can he not be since he had sex with me? I have to feel comfortable with someone to have sex with them.

2007-08-22 15:53:50 · 14 answers · asked by sheilah f 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a situation w/ my boyfriend whom i have a 8 month old daughter with, see i told him when i first got w/ him 2 years ago that i dont want to be w/ him if he did any type of drugs at all and he told me he would never do any at all as long as we are together, well everysince we moved around his mom shes done nothing but get him high behind my back, i dont see how a mom can sit there and do that w/ her son anyway, but ive told him over and over im gonna leave him if he keeps doing it and he just keeps doing it behind my back anyway, hell tell me hes not but then i find out hes still doing it. then he will make up some stupid excuse. i really have no place to go if i leave him b/c im taking cosmetology classes so i have to stay around here. anyone have any advice besides telling me to leave him?

2007-08-22 15:53:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My boyfriend and I just started dating today and I heard that he was using me for a bet for $20..........so I broke up with him. Now, we sorted everything out and are together again.......but I felt bad for him so I said yes,when he asked me out ......again. I do not want to go out with him. What should I do? I l don't like him anymore..........but have pity for him.

2007-08-22 15:51:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, my uncle's gf (Jen) has a brother who's about 2 and a half years older then me (JonJon yea thats his real name). Well i consider Jen to be my aunt even though technically she isn't which in a way would kinda make her brother like an uncle to me. But i kinda have a small "crush" on JonJon....is that wrong??

2007-08-22 15:50:12 · 20 answers · asked by cdr dsw = <3 [11/1/10] 4 in Family

Ok well i like this guy but i have a boyfriend?
IS THIS WRONG??
pllzz tell me thanx

2007-08-22 15:49:31 · 24 answers · asked by Just Me~!~! 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

football runningback kind of body? football wide receiver kind of body? (terrell owens is a good example) basketball player kind of body? model kind of body (tyson beckford)? Or just an average joe body? haha. I want to know what most girls find attractive.

2007-08-22 15:49:14 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A girl i know is talking to some random guy she met on the internet. he seems by how she talks aboutt him.....
pretty schetchy. but she says that shes "in love" with this guy whenn she's neverr met him beforee. and she said taht he said over myspace or whateverr when he turns 18 (he's 17 now) taht he's going to fly to her state and meet her....
i want to convince her taht this is a really bad idea cuz for all she and i know he could be some creepy 50 year old.
so what should i tell her?

2007-08-22 15:48:11 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband likes to go out and drink a lot. I am totally ok with him going but I rarely accompany him. I work early in the mornings and I just find bars boring. Should I feel guilty not going with him?

2007-08-22 15:46:06 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How long should you be with someone?

2007-08-22 15:44:52 · 22 answers · asked by nugbug456 2 in Weddings