I've been with a boyfriend for 2.5 years, but now he has to go to the military for 4 years. Our future is very uncertain, and now I am studying abroad in another country. I just recently met another guy and we are getting along very well. He really wants me to be his girlfriend. I really like him, but if I say yes, I think I would feel guilty. The boyfriend already knows that I am uncertain about our relationship because of us having to be apart for 4 years. When we are together, I feel like he is "the one", but ever since we've been apart, I don't know what to feel. Do you think I should stick with him, or choose this new guy?
2007-08-22 16:24:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How about if you and your boyfriend agree that for the time being you both can date (not be intimate) with others. If after a period of time either wants to call your relationship off then you can without having a problem, and if neither of you calls it off before he comes home you will then date for 6 months without being intimate with each other - before you make a commitment to each other
2007-08-22 16:35:52 · answer #1 · answered by keezy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's really hard.
If met someone who I thought was the one, I'd just suck it up for 4 years.
2007-08-22 16:30:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bad news young lady..you have a ''dilemma''..beam me up ma
2007-08-22 16:35:54 · answer #3 · answered by eb_guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋