Anyone can answer this question if you have great ideas but, preferably people who have been married for awhile!
I've been happily married for 8 years. My husband is awesome, I still love him as much (NO..more!) then the day I married him. But, you know how it is...with kids and everyday life, that you get caught up with things and you don't do enough to show someone that you do love them.
So, what are your ideas of everyday things that I can do to show my husband that I appreciate him?
What do you guys think is romantic? Hahaha..I know this is an open door to say the obvious...SEX. But, I'm looking for other ideas. Got any to share?
Thanks!
2007-08-22 16:03:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just do random stuff for him.
Call the fellas over to watch the game and tell your husband there's beer and snacks in the kitchen as you and the kids go to a friends.
Give him a neck rub while he's relaxing.
Give him a "spa" day. Make his favorite foods and let him just relax all day.
Have a movie night with favorite movies and snacks.
Maybe buy him something he's had his eye on for a while.
Run him a bath and have him relax as you wash and dry him. (had it happen to me, I was like "WOOOOOOOWWWW")
Do a husband appreciation day and ask him what he wants to do.
Just be creative, you know him better that we do.
2007-08-22 16:31:52 · answer #1 · answered by riding128 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I give my hubby a pedicure of sorts. I have a hot foot soak ready for him, then I scrub his feet and then rub foot lotion into them. He loves the pampering since he's on his feet all day long. I don't do it too often, maybe once a month. I also rub his back a few times a week. And on the few times he's gone out of town without me I slipped very sexy notes into his suitcase. He loved getting the notes while he was gone and reading what he was going to get when he got home. You could do this if he carries a breifcase to work or if you pack him a lunch. Do a date night, it really works, just see if someone will keep the kids for a night, then go out and have a great night then come home and have a wild or very romantic night in bed. Good luck!!
2007-08-22 23:38:15 · answer #2 · answered by Drea Z 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you pack his lunch for him? Does he carry a brief case? How about a simple little love note?
How about a date night? Arrange for someone to look after the kids and you put together a really romantic candle-lit dinner followed by... uh... dessert. Lotions and potions and toys from the lingerie store.
You get the idea.
2007-08-22 23:14:55 · answer #3 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband loves it when I have a bath waiting for him with candles lit in the bathroom when he gets home. I don't do it often, but even once in a while especially when I know he has had a bad day. And I just sit in the bathroom with him while he soaks in the tub and we sit and talk. And I buy him "i love you" type cards just because.
2007-08-22 23:22:03 · answer #4 · answered by cris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My lady sometimes will come into the bathroom and take over when I'm shaving.. she buys me silly little gifts for no reason... she listens to what I have to say and is forever telling me how much she loves me.... and of course theres sex... Most guys love it when their lady makes the first move in the bedroom
2007-08-22 23:21:40 · answer #5 · answered by sumfin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Topless Tuesdays. Serve him food w/o your shirt on. Boobs, food and turn on the TV. No man will ever cheat and will love you more than beer. No woman will be able to compete w/this. Look at Hooters. This is all they do and they dont even take their short off. And we jjust throw money at them. And the food isnt even that good.
2007-08-22 23:11:28 · answer #6 · answered by csiders30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dress hot, get him out in public and fawn all over him. Love him out loud without restraint or reservation. Make him feel like he is the luckiest guy in the world and it is your pleasure to make everyone know it.
2007-08-23 00:20:14 · answer #7 · answered by Thoughtful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply by having a clean comfortable home, good meals. A few love notes will make him feel very important, appreciated and loved. Man like to come home to woman who look good. Always look you best for your man.
2007-08-22 23:15:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My thought is that most of what women consider romantic, men don't.
Whatever he'd like might not be something other men would.
Sorry
2007-08-22 23:13:22 · answer #9 · answered by Jack P 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋