2007-08-22 16:01:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm about to turn 18 and shes about to turn 17. He told her that if she doesnt stop talking to me at school then he's going to make her quit the dance team. I cant make her do that because she lover dancing way to much. I do know its stupid for him to control her life like hes doing but i just dont know what to do about. All she can say is just wait it out but its hard not talking to her at all
2007-08-23 10:32:20 · update #1
Make a date for a time and place after she is 18. Go your separate ways - met then to decide if you still want to be together.
2007-08-30 15:53:42 · answer #1 · answered by keezy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This rather sucks and is very tricky. Your obviously nonetheless in love with your ex. Nonetheless ya'll have harm each other in ways which are emotional and can always have some form of barrier for a while. Its difficult to let her go. She hopely realized from you so when a one more fine man comes along she is going to do him proper. / As for you this new lady friend could also be rubbing you in a great way considering you've got mentioned the way in which your ex seems to be different that implies your slowly drifting away. The whole lot will figure out./ Plus its not fine with your new female friend your holding back she can believe that and its just a messed up drawback. Do not be with our female friend simply considering you do not need to do her improper when you consider that you had been performed wrong. Follow your heart for probably the most section. Just let your mind do some of that work too.. HOpe this helps.
2016-08-04 12:17:46 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This extremely sucks and is extremely confusing. Your for sure nonetheless in love at the same time with your ex. besides the shown fact that ya'll have harm one yet another in techniques that are emotional and could continually have some variety of barrier for some time. Its hard to permit her pass. She hopely found out from you so whilst a yet another great guy comes alongside she would be able to do him genuine. / As for you this new lady pal may well be rubbing you in a reliable way on the grounds which you have suggested the way your ex seems to be different which means your slowly drifting away. each and every thing will paintings out./ Plus its no longer great at the same time with your new lady pal your protecting decrease back she would be able to experience that and its basically a tousled venture. don't be with our lady pal in basic terms on the grounds which you do no longer prefer to do her incorrect on the grounds which you have been completed incorrect. stick to your heart for the main area. in basic terms permit your suggestions carry out a little of that paintings too.. desire this helps.
2016-10-16 13:09:22 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does he have to know you guys still talk?? You can email each other too. Surely he doesn't know her passwords. You can make it work if you want to. She only has one more year until she's 18 and you guys can do whatever you want to.
Why does her dad not like you? Are you a bad boy?
2007-08-30 15:04:15 · answer #4 · answered by blessed1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has every right to do what he is doing until she is 18 he can run her life but most parents would talk to their child first to try to work out something sounds like you have done something bad for him to have gone that far so you have put her in this position so if you really care for this girl than proof to the father that you are a stand up guy.
2007-08-30 03:56:18 · answer #5 · answered by twinkle2twinkle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she is 16 so far and you are 18. that is what is wrong. its too old right now. wait till shes in her 18th year and then persue it. the thing is sometimes being older can make one talk someone into things andhes not having it he does not want babies or whatever to spoil his daugthers life and hes taking no chances so wait and then it will be more receptive.
2007-08-30 14:24:23 · answer #6 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I agree age does matter, If your young theres not much you can do. After all she still has to do what her parents say. I'm guessing that you are both young. But you could stay good friends untill you get a chance to date again. If you are "in love" you would stick with each other and work it out.
2007-08-22 16:10:07 · answer #7 · answered by KaitieRose 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
BE VERY CAREFUL!! With you being 18 and her 17 you are considered an adult If dad gets too mad he might be able to press charges!
2007-08-30 15:52:50 · answer #8 · answered by julia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My parents made me break up with my boyfriend a few weeks ago. I did it, and i feel miserable. They told me he was no good for me and that if i live under their roof, i have to respect their wishes. I don't know what to tell you, but if her dad doesn't approve, it's going to be hard to be together right now.
2007-08-22 16:09:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think is better for u to ask her.. "what do we do now?"
ask her if she wants to break up definetly, listen to her dad, and just be friend. if that's her decision, u should respect it.
but if she says that she still loves u a lot, ask her if she wants to keep on dating but keep it secret just so her dad wont get mad at her. but these will take more responsability.
anyways, wish u luck
2007-08-22 16:11:14 · answer #10 · answered by Linda1314 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋