I know im only 15 but I can tell when someone is checking me out. I know I look alittle older since im 5.8" 136 pounds (my face looks alot older). I can tell he is atleast in his mid 20's. But when he looks at me he makes eye contact with me for like 2-4 secounds long....which freaks me out but i just try to act like im really into my work out (which i am). And try not to look at him.
but i can tell he looks at me from the corner of my eye.
I have to say, i kinda like the attention, he is really good looking. But i know we have no reason to look at each other like that.
There was even this time were he was looking at me, walked straight to me but at the slightest sec. he turn somewhere else (i thought he was going to come up and talk to me). That freaked me out like he was playing hard to get or somethin!
This have been going on for two months now!
What should i do?
2007-08-22 18:53:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
stop whoring yourself. no means no
2007-08-22 18:57:47 · answer #1 · answered by SO_CAL 4 life 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is normal for us all to check each other out - but the more you think about it, the more you think about it, iykwim?
20 is too old for you! And sex is ALWAYS one of the first things on a guys mind, whether he is a nice guy or not. Its how he goes about it that makes the difference. But at 15, you should be having fun, not worrying about whether a guy wants to be with you for sex or not.
And if you notice him or any other guy looking at you and youre not interested (which you shouldnt be because of the age), just break eye contact and move on. Dont look back - why bother? Dont encourage conversation - theres no point.
Be 15!
2007-08-22 19:20:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know the answer to your question. Look all you want. Have all the teenage angst and drama that you can stand. But do nothing. If he makes a move, tell him you are 15 and report him to everyone within ear shot if he continues anyway. Flirting is part of the joy of life. Everyone looks. Most people (even old people like me) like to be seen as desirable. And we all occasionally make mistakes (If he thinks you are 18 or 22 he gets one chance to correct his mistake). It isn't a big deal -- eye candy comes in all shapes, sizes, and ages. Relax, do another set, and drool over somebody else
2016-05-20 07:06:08 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had that same problem when I was 15 when my dad was in the nursing home I had to keep moving to get away from the male patients some were young adults & some old men. Only advice I can give you is walk away.
2007-08-22 19:06:39 · answer #4 · answered by Death Girl Am 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though you know he's not in your age range to date, yes it can be very flattering to have a cute boy look at you! If you think he thinks you're playing hard to get, you can always go up to him (I'm assuming you work with him or something) and just start being friendly. Casually mention your age and hopefully he'll get the hint not to look at you like that. He could just think you're older--like you said, you have a face that might look older to him. So don't hold it against him.
If you have a boyfriend, find a way to mention him. "You like basketball? Yeah, my boyfriend does too."
2007-08-22 18:59:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's what happens all the time: I get it, a lot, myself. Most girls do: Guys like to look at girls. Normal, normal. Nothing special about that.
If you find him attractive, go up to him. But don't be too easy, it'd be dangerous, and embarrassing on your part.
2007-08-22 18:59:00 · answer #6 · answered by green eyes. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that he reminds you of your father. Then tell him that you have a much older sister that would you would like to introduce him to. He will get the message that he is too old for you. If he doesn't, tell him to get lost. He is way too old and dangerous for you.
2007-08-22 19:03:15 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stay away! He could get in big trouble if anything happened with you. All I can say is be very careful and try to avoid him at all costs.
2007-08-22 18:59:22 · answer #8 · answered by Trista 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hello u r 15 only.... there is a long queue of guys along the way, take ur time to grow up
2007-08-26 18:04:21 · answer #9 · answered by chocolate929 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that guy does not sound serious. leave him alone. most older guys just want to use you anyhow so i will suggest you stick to guys in your age group so you will be able to give yourself a chance at a rewarding relationship
2007-08-22 19:10:13 · answer #10 · answered by Kate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
15 will get you 20....ur minds are not even on the same level....he shouldnt be lookin ..and you shouldnt be thinkin..dont feed it and their wont be a problem
2007-08-22 19:08:24 · answer #11 · answered by wildfire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋