A couple of days ago my boyfriend and I went to breakfast and I saw a misterious name in his phone. Not because I was checking but he was goining through his phone in my presence. I asked him about one of his numbers and he claimed he didn't know who she is. He even volunteered to call the number and the person on the other line claim not to know him or me. Today he was really late coming home from work (which is unusual) so I called him. The first two times he didn't answer the phone. The last time he did and said he was right around the corner. Then all of a sudden he called back yelling at me for calling him with a tone of voice I guess he didn't appreciate. I am a worrier and I just wanted to make sure he was okay. I've done this serveral times before and it's never been a problem. In my heart I know something isn't right. But at the same time when I think I see trouble I'm out the door. My instincts tell me to leave. Please I need some serious advice.
2007-08-22 19:36:03 · 13 answers · asked by D 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The most confusing thing is that until the other day I had no reason to think this. I am not the type that likes to accuse without merit. This is a man who come home every week and hands over his paycheck for me to do what I want to do with it. I've been here before and I don't think I have the stamina to stay and see how it goes. However until I figure out my next move I will continue to take his paychecks every week, and if by chance that stops he's really go to go because I will have my answer for sure then
2007-08-22 21:50:25 · update #1
listen to your instincts
2007-08-22 19:53:30 · answer #1 · answered by shck 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure doesn't look good, but you never know people do dial the wrong number at times. I would be trying to find one more clue before throwing in your marriage. Smell his shirts and collars for perfume or check his mobile phone a few more times and look for that dial ed number. The truth always has a way of coming out.
2007-08-23 02:48:15 · answer #2 · answered by Live_For_Today 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely say go with your instincts. I'm sorry to hear about your situation but when I was suspecting my husband was seeing another girl I had that gut feeling about it. It's woman's intuition and when you pretty much know but have no proof, you're usually right. Good Luck Sweetie and I hope everything works out for the better.
2007-08-23 02:51:41 · answer #3 · answered by ~{Graciela}~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you should do anything unless you know for sure. i always speak up before i have the facts... and it really brings my relationship down.. hes always tired of being accused of things that aren't true, dont exist, or never happened. imagine if u were in his shoes and u never did anything wrong. but at the same time.. players kno how to play.. but have faith and have trust. and if both have gone, maybe u should too. i accuse but i kno he would never cheat on me. i think it has a lot to do with my past experiences and im really working hard to let it go and to start trusting
2007-08-23 02:48:32 · answer #4 · answered by Blessed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number don't put themselves in cell phones and throw a name on top.
Use common sense which comes from the head, not the heart.
2007-08-23 03:17:33 · answer #5 · answered by riding128 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it could be either way, it sounds like you are weaker than he as a person,,, which is always the best way to learn love.... but it comes with certain pains. This is one of them, enjoy the agony of it, truly when it is gone,it is easy to miss.. next time when you are with someone weaker than you that worries about you cheating on him and not loving him in return it is quite annoying and boring, the same way he sees you
2007-08-23 02:48:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to call CHEATERS and have them follow your boyfriend so you'll know what's really going on!
Trust your instincts...instincts aren't given to us for nothing. If you feel deep inside that something's wrong, either you might want to talk to your boyfriend and straighten things out or just head out the door for your own good.
2007-08-23 02:46:17 · answer #7 · answered by ♥♥♥MiSSY♥♥♥ 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i would say that he was with a girl the other day when you rung him,that is why he rang you back and had a blast at you...for her benefit.
put a tail on him,you need your proof before you act but i would say that he is cheating on you.
2007-08-24 04:32:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better do some more investigating before leaving, but it sounds like he could be, but you need more evidence.
2007-08-23 02:49:49 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs. CT 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's not cheating, he is getting closer to the possibility...
My perception is that he's having an affair..
Sorry...
you need to put a tail on him...
G'd Luck!
2007-08-23 02:46:33 · answer #10 · answered by Jet 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋