if your Boyfriend/ or girl cheats on u & get aids from him, would u stay with him or leave & be alone 4 ever?

Question

i found out my boyfriend cheated on me and now i just took an aids test if it comes back positive then should i leave him or be alone cuz who will want me with hiv? im stuck btwn a rock & hard place on this one. WHAT WOULD U DO? would u staty in relationship like that just cuz no else would want u after your boyfriend or girlfriend who was supposed to love u & be faithful after a 5 yr relationship cheated on u with many people & gave u aids? if i do leave him i will be alone 4 ever. if i stay i will be unhappy with someone who betrayed me and murdered me.

Answer 1

Leave him immediately. Why stay with someone who has given you a death sentence?

Even if your test comes back negative, still LEAVE him. He's already had put your life at risk, so why give him a second chance to do it?

With all the drugs out there for HIV, someone will want you, even if's another HIV person.

Just don't stay with the one who infected you. You deserve so much better.

Answer 2

Wow, where do I even start? I'm very sorry that you have to deal with this. As a human being, you do not deserve to be disrespected in this way. Like you said, you were betrayed and God forbid, if it comes out positive, this person could be the reason for your experience of a horrible condition as well as possible death. A relationship means nothing to the person who will betray you. If it did, they would resist the temptation that everyone constantly faces. It's all about will power and this person apparently doesn't have any. Ask yourself this: Can I wake up next to this person ever morning and feel content? Will I feel loved and as if I'm in the safest place on Earth next to this person? Is this person like my best friend? If you answer no, this is not the person you should call your lover, regardless of what might happen if you let go of them. It's not guaranteed that you will be alone so don't assume that. You have to worry about that later, but for now, you have to take it step by step. The first step is to let go of this person that hurt you, whether the test comes out positive or negative. They do not deserve your trust, faithfulness and love. If you're with them, yes you won't be alone, but you might as well be because a relationship like that is already dead.

Answer 3

Forget about him
you are obviously too good for him

im sorry to hear about his foolishness hurting you as well

if the worst happens
then you shouldnt feel the need to stay with him for the reason being that you feel stuck to

i know many couples whom of which one has an std nd they still remain happy

there is more to a relationship than simply sex

when you find the right guy
he wont care what is wrong with you
or the little imperfections you think you have

he will look in your eyes and all he will see
is the love of his life

Answer 4

look first of all leave him
because someone like that is not worth ur time
and have hiv doesnt mean u have to be alone
i know tons of ppl who are infected and they find relationships with other ppl who are infected
and if not u can still be with other ppl and have safe sex becasue hiv is not transmittteed by touching, or kissing unless there is blodd contact
so go back out there
or look for places where u can meet pppl who are also living with aids
and depending where u live i might be able to help because i volunteer at a couple places
so take care
and its not the end of the world because there is still alot of fishys out there for you

Answer 5

Well, it's normal to worry that you're settling so young when there are more fish in the sea. I wouldn't break up with your boyfriend just yet though. Go to college, and if you start to like someone there, or realize that its better for you to be single - then end it. Otherwise, you don't want to lose something good because of the "unknown". Good luck!

Answer 6

I think you should leave the traitor, then wait for your test to come back negative and go on with your life. You have lost all trust in him and it will be hard to trust him again, you need to move on. Everything will be alright, just trust in God.

The other thing is that you need to use protection from now on and don't assume everyone you go to bed with has never slept around with someone at some time in their lives.

Be careful, and best of luck....everything is gonna be alright.

Answer 7

Is this a serious question...?

Cause you cant "just take an aids test".

I'm pretty sure those things are like $300.

&&What the fuckkkk?
You may have the i.q of a retarded orange peel.
Why would you stay with someone after they cheated on you...and even worse gave you aids...


Sounds like you probably deserved it..

if my boyfriend were as stupid as you...
I may want him to have aids too.

Answer 8

If this were me id leave him hes not only putting himself at risk but yours too If the Test comes out negative which i will hope and pray that it does LEAVE HIM NOW this only means he will do it again and maybe hopefully u have just dogged a bullet. If god forbid it comes out positive Then you have to think do you love him enough to forgive him but i do urge you to leave him once a cheater always a cheater remember that... If he cheats on you once shame on him if he cheats on you twice shame on you... Good luck and i hope that everything works out for you.

Answer 9

if u dont love him anymore just leave him. dont add insult to injury by forcing urself to be with someone, just for the sake of being with someone.

and think about this: some people live alone, with or without hiv. but they're not at all sad about it.

and i may sound like a hopeless romantic, but, who knows, u might stumble upon someone who's worthy of ur love? love knows no boundaries.

Answer 10

In the USA he can be criminally charged or you can be too because it takes 2 to tango. Manslaughter is a charge and you need to stay away and stay away from any sex untill at least a year because the HIV is dormant at least 6 months to a year.