i am 12 years old and the girls in my grade are already making out with guys but i havent even had my first kiss. One of my friends recently gave her bf a present out of nowhere where she took a pic of her in her bra and sent it to him. what i am getting at here is i dont want my bf to think i am scared to kiss him and do that stuff for him, what can i do to show him that i am not afraid to do that stuff even if i dont want to.
2007-08-22 17:56:42 · 12 answers · asked by roni4196 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am sorry but 12 years old is far to young to be doing any of this stuff. A first kiss is as special as a first date or first holding hands or first anything special. Don't do something that you will look back at and feel dirty for doing it. If it does not feel right, then chances are it is not right. If you thought it was right, you would not be asking complete strangers for advice. You know what is right and wrong and good and bad.
I married at 16. That was not right. That is only 4 years older than you are right now. Boy did I miss out on so much fun and growing up. I had a baby at 17. I resented that poor child for a very long time. Wake up child. If it does not seem to be the right thing to do, don't do it.
You have only yourself to answer to. None of your friends will be there when you grow up. They will all be gone. You will not matter to them.
Good luck.
2007-08-22 18:13:11 · answer #1 · answered by dellet2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WOW! You are 12. Don't feel pressured into doing anything you are uncomfortable with. I was 16 when I had my first kiss. Not because I didn't have the opportunity but because you only get one first kiss and I wanted it to be special and it was. The same goes for your virginity, treat it like it is special. Don't regret loosing it. You have your whole life to do adult things like kissing and eventually sex. Be a child as long as you can. The pressures and worries of serious relationships will come to you all too soon and you will long for the days when your life was simple.
Take it slow, respect yourself. If your boyfriend doesn't understand then he doesn't respect you and he's not worth keeping.
2007-08-22 18:04:59 · answer #2 · answered by American Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't need to kiss just because ur friends are already kissing theirs, when ur ready you should, but don't rush and start making out with every guy u think is cute, and don't show ur bf ur lingere....
what u can do is hold hands and hug him...
their really is no need to rush, their are alot of girls in my grade who has never even had a bf before and i'm in 10th grade...so no need to worry
2007-08-22 18:06:13 · answer #3 · answered by DeeDee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep on being "you" and you will find everything else will fall into place when your ready and your boyfriend is ready and you will discover that you have been stressing over nothing. Things have a way of turning out right at the right time.
2007-08-22 18:15:36 · answer #4 · answered by Live_For_Today 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is being slutty! don't lower yourself to prove anything. Respect yourself and other people will respect you too. If you want to send him a picture. Send him one in your swimsuit or a cute outfit!! Don't worry. When the time comes , he will lean in for the kiss. Just be patient, and let it happen when you feel ready.
2007-08-22 18:05:40 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to do it then just don't do it. I didn't kiss my first girlfriend and I didn't lose my first kiss till 16.
2007-08-22 18:01:04 · answer #6 · answered by Life Stops 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. Tell him you're not ready to do these things yet. Let him know he'll be the first to know if you change your mind though. If he cares about you and respects you, it won't bother him.
2007-08-22 18:04:41 · answer #7 · answered by Momma Gaga 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
PLEASE YOU ARE JUST A BABY GROWING UP DONT DO WHAT YOUR FREIND DID THAT IS INMATURE JUST THINK WOULD YOUR PARENTS BE HAPPY OF YOU TAKING PICTURES OF YOUR SELF HALF NAKED AND GIVING THEM TO A LITTLE KID THAT IN 3 YEARS YOU WONT BE TOGETHER NO MORE OF COURSE NOT, YOU SHOULD FOCUS IN SCHOOL, HOMEWORK I KNOW IT IS HARD BUT PLEASE DONT BE THINKING OF GETTING HALF NAKED JUST CUZ YOUR 10 YEAR OLD B/F THAT THOSE NOT KNOW HOW TO EVEN CLEAN HIS OWN ROOM WANTS TO
PLEASSE DONT DO THAT !
2007-08-22 18:04:15 · answer #8 · answered by colima 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pier pressure? Don't give in to what others are doing. Your setting yourself up as slut material.
2007-08-22 17:59:36 · answer #9 · answered by kys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow way to young to be doin that kinda ****
i was 15 when i lost my virginity
at least wait 3 more years
2007-08-22 18:00:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋