2007-08-22 18:22:55 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Method? I hope there isn't a scripted process. Goodness all of the times I possibly wasn't actually having sex.
Seriously? Only talking vaginally here, but my wife and I try to do any possible position. Sometimes its hot, sometimes it does seem like you are doing a lab experiment. Eventually, you discover some things you both like. Certain things will get a guy to ***, too quick. Some things allow the guy to stimulate the woman many different ways. Some things work better for some than others. For example, God did not bless me with a huge penis, so we are limited in how we can contort ourselves and still get the plug completely plugged in. However, I can hit her cervix and it feels good to her. I have heard from several different people (not sexual partners) that this can be incredibly painful. Don't let other people dictate what you enjoy or try.When it gets down to it, go have some fun. If something winds up funny, don't get embarrassed or frustrated, laugh! But for goodness sakes, have fun!!!!
Regards,
Tim O
2007-08-22 19:01:58 · answer #1 · answered by Rope-a-dope 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Usually you start off with something basic like the missionary position. Once you master that and want to try other stuff, feel free. Maybe let her be on top the next time or change positions one or more times during. It really depends on the body types and attitudes about sexuality of the two people.
2007-08-22 18:27:38 · answer #2 · answered by Daniel H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You on top.
Her on top.
Lying like spoons.
Covering the bed with rose petals and caressing each other with peacock feathers for 20 minutes.
Exchanging foot massages and backrubs as foreplay.
Lying in bed afterwards in each others arms, on a soft summer morning, a breeze blowing through the open windows, talking about your children to come and your lives for the next 50 years.
Doing it in the living room, on the rug in front of the fireplace, as the worst storm in 15 years howls above you, the room scented by applewood logs you got from your neighbor the summer before.
Some of these have to be before kids arrive or after they are asleep.
2007-08-22 18:31:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anne Jovie 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
As often as possible and in as many ways as you and your spouse can think of and agree on. Doesn't really change much from before marriage unless you didn't have sex before marriage.
2007-08-22 18:28:11 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After marriage - a whole lot less than before marriage.
2007-08-22 18:31:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's a problem just 'after marriage', may God help you to never have to ask 'after children'.
If it's that tough, you're in the wrong marriage.
2007-08-22 18:27:02 · answer #6 · answered by Thoughtful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BOTH PARTNERS NEED TO KEEP THE ROMANCE IN THE MARRIAGE. THAT MEANS BOTH. THE KAMA SUTRA HAS VERY VARIED TECHNIQUES AND PICS AND SUGGESTIONS. GRAB A COPY AND GET SOME TOYS, MAGS, BATH AND BODY STUFF, OILS AND CANDLES ANS SUCH. 2 TIMES A WEEK IS GOOD FOR YOUR HEALTH. AND JENNA JAMESON...FOR VISUAL INSPIRATION.
2007-08-22 18:28:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
same as before marriage with lots more romance and feeling --- have fun
2007-08-22 18:26:25 · answer #8 · answered by trader1867 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For wives, it is the non-method.
For suffering husbands, it is the hand or the sister-in-law.
2pts.
2007-08-22 18:48:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
allow things to progress naturally
2007-08-22 18:26:01 · answer #10 · answered by swati_chhavi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋