2007-08-22 18:29:38 · 37 answers · asked by Gabrielle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not if I'm the 40 year old man.
2007-08-22 18:32:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, no, it's not wrong. It is somewhat questionable. At 40 years old, most men are in their prime. But if he was any older, I'd be wondering what a girl is doing with a man old enough to be her father. She should be with a guy her own age. But then again, if she's just out to have some fun, it doesn't really matter.
2007-08-22 18:34:25 · answer #2 · answered by Riven Liether 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no but why would you be, what do you have in common, or to talk about. At 40, what you have to talk about and the things you want to and should be doing should not seem interesting to him. When he was 20 you were being born, and if he had anything to do with you before you were at least 18 he would have went to jail child molester, ect... to me i am 42 and 20 year olds still seem like children to me (not trying to be mean here or anything by saying that)
2007-08-22 18:36:37 · answer #3 · answered by humboldt1965amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong but you are better of with someone closer to your age. You are not some object that the 40 year old can hang on his arm you are a person. You actually think the men who marry women 10 plus years younger are actually marrying them for their intelligence? Ha! It's for one thing arm candy and trophy wife!
2007-08-22 18:35:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not. You could offer her more than men her age because you have been there and done that. Some women are attracted to older guys. Fellas let face it. Most of us do not mature untill 40 plus. When it comes to love....age is just a number.
2007-08-22 18:39:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. Right now I'm liking real bad a 46 year old man and I'm 20 also. Age is nothing but a number.
2007-08-22 18:32:19 · answer #6 · answered by Cardiophobia <3 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. If she's attracted, then she is. It's not a right or wrong thing. What's right or wrong is how the relationship goes. Will it work? That depends on who she is and who he is. Age is just a number. If two adults make each other happy, are supportive and loving, then who should say it's wrong?
2007-08-22 18:34:08 · answer #7 · answered by Jennifer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I am attracted to a 37 year old and I am 22. Love is Love
2007-08-22 18:32:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm i don't think so... it isn't wrong.
However, this situation could be difficult for their life together, because of the culture and prejudice, u know what i mean.
In the past.. i had a relationship with a man that is older than me. I'm 22... and he is 60 years old.
It was wonderful and bad at the same time. Wonderful when we were together because our love, but... it was so bad... too... because all the people around us.
Now, we are not together anymore.
2007-08-22 21:04:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not wrong, but I would suggest the younger female enter with caution being that the man would be older and wiser than her. It is far more socially acceptable for a younger woman to be with an older man than vice versa.
2007-08-22 18:32:59 · answer #10 · answered by marm212 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋