My husband and I have been married for over 3 years. When we had been married for a year I found out that he had asked one for his friends to tell his ex that he missed her hot a** I confronted him and he said he was kidding and that he was sorry. 2 years ago we split up for 6 months, during that time this same girl told him she wanted to move (she's from England) to be with him, he said no. So when we got back together I asked him to stop emailing her, and he said ok. After that I found other emails between the two of them, we fought and he said that he would stop. I found out in February that he had gone to see another of his ex's who lived close and he lied to me about it. Today I found an email from her saying how much she wants to travel with him again and misses him and another email from England girl and HE had invited her to meet him in Ecuador when he went there. He told her he wants to have her close he can have someone to talk to.. what's going on? What do I do?!
2007-08-22 17:36:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
How many times do you want to be kicked in the teeth? He is cheating on you girlfriend......if that is the kind of man that you want to be married to...then stay with his cheating butt...if not....leave him!
2007-08-22 17:45:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know how much it hurts when you find out about your husband's cheating. Sorry but your husband is a player and has always been one that's why he is so good at it and will never stop. He tells you what you want to hear and that satisfies you until the next time you find out about his cheating. Then once again he will tell you what you want to hear.How many more times will it take until you have had enough of all the lies. What's it going to take to get you to walk out the door. Don't take his s h i t let him know how it feels to be made a fool of let him feel just a little of what he has done to you. There isn't that much love to make me put up with that from anyone why should you. Fool me once shame on you but fool me twice and shame on me.
2007-08-22 18:01:19 · answer #2 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that were my husband I would be over the top!!!!! I don't know what I would do, I would probably see him, my fangs bared, foaming at the mouth with a cast iron skillet in my hand next to the pepper spray and vicious rabid dog I had gotten for the occasion. This is really, really, very wrong. I have no room for that kind of thing in my life.
2007-08-22 18:06:07 · answer #3 · answered by Rein 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must be D-mitized because you cannot see the reality of some sh*t! Just tell me he has a bunch of money and you have been torn between having a luxurious lifestyle and going back to a normal lifestyle. Because it's a no brainer that you need to leave due to infidelity. I don't understand your question about what you need to do. Who knows maybe your next thought will be if you can't beat 'em join 'em.
2007-08-22 19:11:55 · answer #4 · answered by Kimberly Sue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he has no respect for you or the relationship. You know what you should do...leave him, but I'm sure that's not what you want to do. Suggest counseling. Here's the thing. You keep bringing up the problems you are having with him and he keeps saying he will change/stop, but he doesn't. He knows that you will keep hounding him and when he says he will stop, you get off his back until he gets caught again...So he knows you aren't going anywhere. He needs to see real consequences to his actions...Not just talk and anger for a few days.
2007-08-22 17:58:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
*sigh* Accept him for who he is...because he is not going to change. He has other women and will continue too. If you cant deal with it then get the big D.
Or you can go find a guy and do the same thing back to him. When he finds out and flipps out make a deal. He will stay true to you and you will him. If the deal is broke the other is Divorced.
2007-08-22 17:48:06 · answer #6 · answered by buffyteresa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what is with these EX's!! seriously they are like a magnet coming back to haunt people, do you wanna keep finding hints that hes cheating, do yourself a favor and leave the marriage, how many times do you have to tell your husband "NO" let him be with his ex's you derserve WAYY better
2007-08-22 18:05:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear that. Carry on with your life. Well it's hurt, wound heals, scars remained. Spice up your time with something fun and in a healthy way.
2007-08-22 17:55:55 · answer #8 · answered by raraluglio 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sound like you need to move on, he has shown no respect
to you at all, the fact that he continue to lled to you really said
it all, he was not kidding, and you really should have seen the
sign from the beginning, he playing games and it time for
you to serious think about what is good for you. he not
going to chance that obvious.
2007-08-22 17:49:22 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Answer one question, will you really every trust him again? If not, get out, hopefully there are no kids in the mix. You will drive your self crazy if you don't
2007-08-22 18:04:32 · answer #10 · answered by Nicole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋