ok on my girlfriends myspace it says that she is confused and is unsure on what to do.....now i asked her whats wrong, she wouldn't tell me....should i be worried about anything. i talked to her best friend she said, that i shouldn't be worried and something else is bothering her. she also won't even tell her best friend (which happens to be my cousin) whats wrong....so should i be worried that she may break up w/ me or not...COME ON GIRLS HELP ME OUT!!!
2007-08-22 15:39:56 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok if anyone who answered looks back here, well EVERYONE helped me out A LOT!!! i wish i could thank each and everyone of you guys. thanks a lot.
2007-08-23 05:12:11 · update #1
Don't stress yourself, I cant tell you how many of my friends boyfriends call me when something wrong, usually its something as simple as a parental problem.
But pushing it, makes it worse, she'll talk when she's ready.
corny but true
2007-08-22 15:44:02 · answer #1 · answered by SoCali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this is a hard one, but hey when you are in a relationship , everything can be confusing and scary for both of you. (believe me I know). Depending on how long you have been gong out, probably depends on how much she trusts you. If you have been going out for awhile, then I dont see why she wouldnt tell you. If you are that worried explain to her you are worried about her, and want to make sure everything is ok with her and between you two. If you still wont tell you, then give her some space and time, maybe she will come around. But let her know you are concerned for sure.
2007-08-22 15:46:23 · answer #2 · answered by brittany_maez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I would not juss start jumping to conclusions juss yet she may be juss having problems at home or some other type of issue. Juss tell her that u are her boyfriend and that u are consened about her and the situation and that u juss really wnat to kno what is goin on and then maybe u 2 can talk it out and work thru everything good luck
2007-08-22 15:44:54 · answer #3 · answered by SexieIndianPrincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you think she could be pregnant? It sounds like a serious decision...Maybe you should go out and get her a card something saying you are there for here if she needs you etc. They make those really neat Hallmark expressions cards- I always find something that says just about everything I need to say in those cards. They are at any local grocery store or pharmacy. Get her maybe a single red rose too-just to let her know you care. She just sounds stressed- if she says leave her alone and acts mad then maybe but probably just stressed right now...Good luck!
2007-08-22 15:46:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her the space that she needs to work out whatever is bothering her. Take this time for yourself to do stuff you want to do, hang with your friends etc etc. You have already asked her whats wrong and displayed concern. If indeed she is breaking up with you, don't be worried, there are plenty of other girls out there.
2007-08-22 15:48:22 · answer #5 · answered by dharrasunrise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her about it again, but don't pester her because you're trying to show that you care about her, not trying to annoy her. Let her know that you'll be there to listen when she is ready to tell you. Be patient..
Sometimes, there are things more comfortable being discussed with a close friend rather than a boyfriend. But since your cousin doesn't know about it, then that means she's not ready to talk about it yet, but needs time to think about it alone.
But continue to be supportive and caring, because girls like to feel like they have security and is being cared for.
Good luck!
2007-08-22 15:46:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say Goodbye! Obviously she's crying out to someone on myspace other than you, too who? or whom? Communication is one of the key factors being in a good relationship. What matters is yourself be happy plenty of girls out there.
2007-08-22 16:12:39 · answer #7 · answered by jtease 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When she says she's confused it probably means your relationship is shakey n her eye sight so just give her time she's bound to talk sooner or later so i would just wait for it n FYI a girl doesn't always tell her best friend everything especially if her best friend is her boyfriends cousin.
2007-08-22 15:47:18 · answer #8 · answered by arbrdeco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry. It is probably nothing to worry about. After all her best friend/ your cousing probably know best. If you r worried then try and comfort her, take her to a romantic movie or something. Get her a meaningful give and be understanding.
2007-08-22 15:44:52 · answer #9 · answered by illuminati789 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she won't talk to you abt it, THERE REALLY is a prob. it may not be on yer relationship, might be something else... but for sure, the prob is serious. for now, just see if she will change (i mean, if she's breakin u up SOON), if for a matter of days, she's not the same her, try to ask her what really's bothering her... maybe when she's ready to talk, she'll open it up wit you (the prob--may it be the break-up or not)
2007-08-22 15:54:38 · answer #10 · answered by anne e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would prepare yourself for the worst, in case she does break up with you, then you'll really know the reason, and maybe you can try and solve it, but im not sure if you should keep asking her what the problem is cause she may get annoyed, but i would just see what happens and try to give her as much love as you can to show her you care.
2007-08-22 15:45:55 · answer #11 · answered by zainabainza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋