I broke up with my exboyfriend 3 months ago, now he got a new girlfriend but he said to me that i am the person he loves and ask me to give him time to solve the problems. now two weeks has past, i really don't know what i can expect!
2007-08-22 14:53:09 · 14 answers · asked by nan_biz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Personally I feel that there is some reason for both of you to break off in the first place. Since your bf is requesting for a reconcilation, but the main thing is that the feeling that both of you have may be different?
Coz after being couples for few mths or years, you should have understand yr ex bf character. U know his habit and other tings etc. Given all this info, do you think the relationship will work out or it is just another heartbreaking moments waiting 4 u. Only u can answer this question. If the answer is another heartbreaking moment, then i don't see the rationale for u to be together with yr ex bf again.
2007-08-22 19:07:57 · answer #1 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What problems does he need to solve.He has a new girlfriend within 3 months of ending a romance with you,he now wants time from you in order to presumably break it with the new girl and come back to you.This type of behavior shows him to be selfish,self-centered,uncaring,and only interested in number one.I think you can expect the same type of treatment at a future date when he thinks someone better has come into his life.I suggest that you let him remain your ex although I do not know how long you were together.Look for a more caring,supportive, loving, giving guy who can appreciate a good and giving woman.
2007-08-22 22:12:19 · answer #2 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask urself, deep inside ur heart...
Do u still love him?
If yes, then u should give him one more last chance...
If no, then no need to give him any chance again....
If he can break up with his gf and love u again, then is a good news...
But u must make sure he really will break up with his gf and only love u one girl only...
If he cannot do that, tell him, sorry, since he cannot break up with his gf so u cannot be his gf...
In love, only got one people u love, u cannot say u love two or more peoples at the same time...If u love more than one peoples then is mean u haven't know which one u really love...
Only the right guy u should choose...
Good Luck...
Cheers...
2007-08-22 23:33:44 · answer #3 · answered by WindWalker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he has a new gf i wouldn't even waste time with him.. he's obviously not concerned with how he's making you feel. there are guys out there that will appreciate you and be there for you and not find you so easy to replace.. you should find a guy to hang out with, even if just as friends, to take your mind off of it, but to give him something to think about... how you can replace him just as easy. good luck and don't lose any sleep over no man.. there will always be another one to come along.
2007-08-22 22:00:06 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ Just Me ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really love you why he got a new one?is that enough reason to give him another chance?why dont you observe first and you will know the answer.
2007-08-22 21:59:51 · answer #5 · answered by merlina h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends y u dumped him! if he cheated, beat u, or just tried 2 force things on u 2 quickly u shouldn't give him another chance!
2007-08-22 22:01:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
...why did you break up in the first place?
maybe you should ask yourself this time why you want to be with him again...
if your answers are more of positive, then give it a try, again...
but if its more of negative, then move on.
2007-08-22 21:59:08 · answer #7 · answered by leighn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel like it will work out this time, then give him a chance
2007-08-22 21:59:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
time is the only thing that can answer your questions, and communication between the 2 of you!!!!
2007-08-22 21:57:31 · answer #9 · answered by Stymie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the more important question is... why did you all break up? trust issues? cheating..... if it was something like that, then no... you should leave it alone... if you believe that it'll work out..then go for it.
2007-08-22 21:57:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋