I'm 19, and have a crush on a 21 year old girl. We've talked several times, but I can't really tell what she thinks of me. I am just hoping that I've been leaving her a good impression, but who knows. I know girls tend to like guys who are older than them and think of younger guys as immature ppl. damn.
2007-08-22 14:46:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well i might be one of those rare woman tht think its nothing wrong to date a younger man..for me, ultimately it comes down to the level of maturity of tht guy..and i do believe tht it differs from one person to another.i met and dated this guy who's 4 years younger then me and he is by far so much more mature then the guys my age, so yeah im basically talking from my experience.unfortunately things didnt work up but still up to now i still think highly of him.. so my advice, just go ahead and give a try, perhaps ur crush got the same thinking as me...and as they say, u nver know till u give it a shot..life is too short to think of wht if and wht not..good luck
2007-08-22 14:55:45 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie Y 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do not know you, and I do not know her. Since you are both older, this might not be an issue, but because girls mature faster than guys, and you are younger, you might be much too immature for her. I am not sure at what age this levels out, but continue talking to her and be optimistic. You never know if you don't try. Good Luck, man!
2007-08-22 14:52:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The main problem I see here is going out to a club or something. You are not of legal drinking age yet, and she may want to go out dancing. Other than that, if you are a mature 19 year old guy, there should be no problems.
2007-08-22 14:51:33 · answer #3 · answered by nurse ratchet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im a lady who perfers guys to be older as well but my hubby is 3 yrs younger than me and there sis nothing wierd about it. I was shocked but because he is so mature It works well :) Good luck and show her the REAL YOU.
2007-08-22 14:50:57 · answer #4 · answered by mistista07 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with a chick dating a younger guy.. its just personal preference.. i have dated guys your age and im a lot older than 21.. lol there are plenty of chicks out there that dont like older guys
2007-08-22 14:54:29 · answer #5 · answered by lapobrediabla555 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no rely what age is suitable by skill of you, it incredibly is usually a venture the place there are "toddlers already interior the domicile", and it incredibly is their adjustment that could desire to be seen. If a woman is actual involved interior the courting, then there is usually a call...yet particular, we who're of the 50's / 60's could desire to reassess, having a youthful Age companion, who could settle directly to bypass away Us, as quickly as we age. some women who're of their early 60's are nonetheless youthful with power stages, adequate to be a solid "in superb condition to the situation" you have. From what I actual have referred to, a relatives form woman, of approximately 8 to ten years distinction makes a solid mate, the place youthful toddlers are interior the domicile, whilst the adults are, say between the a while of 40's to late 50's. One could desire to constantly get to comprehend someone, earlier permitting them to be an enduring area of the relatives. for my area, nevertheless, whilst a extra robust half turns into an enduring area of a relatives, that person has an equivalent genuine, interior the administration / decision-Making of All stages of the existence, interior of that relatives...even to the Step-toddlers. (some individuals who're start mothers and fathers are hesitant to allow that to take place, even though it incredibly is an approach, which will desire to be adjusted, for the cohesion of the relatives to prevail. TF
2016-10-09 01:52:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age dont matter. and if she lets that you are younger than her than move on
2007-08-22 14:50:16 · answer #7 · answered by amy c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋