Though we've met in real life before, we just keep in touch through online, and I'm just another online friend to her, but I somehow fell in love with her very deeply and I finds myself in a very impossible situation. I mean, I'm not a part of her circle of friends, she have many other great guys friend and when I saw her today with other guy, it just made me realize I'm not even that close to her and I'm just a nobody to her. And yeah I admit I felt devastated at that moment, I wish I was her close friend and not just another screen name in her IM list but what can I do.
What do you guys think I could do being in this position? or am I fighting for a lost cause?
2007-08-22 22:48:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hie Bored. Well to me when you have the feelings for her and you have met her in person then it is good for you to go and express it to her and instead of you keeping it in your heart and when you have kept this then for sure there will be depression too and when this has happen then for sure there will be other feelings which is bad too, and when this happen then for sure it can lead you to a bad ways, although she has guy friends that doesn't mean that you can't express your love to her, it is good that if you can meet her up and express it face to face but if you are shy then it is good that you could send her an e-mail or an e-love card and from there you can express it, when you have express it then it is good for you to give her some time and also be patients and for sure she will reply to you back and when she has done that then it is good for both of you'll guys get a date so that you'll guys can get to know more better and more deeper. Try this and hope it might help you..............................
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2007-08-23 08:50:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, normally, i'd say you're screwed. But this is pretty much an uphill battle if you do have a chance. I think the only thing giving you a shot is that you've met her before online. And if everything went ok, then she knows that you're a good person to hang out with. So pretty much the only thing I can suggest is to set something up while talking to her.
Tell her that you're gonna go eat something, and that you'd like for her to come too. Or something like that, it doesn't have to be so forward. I'm pretty sure it's still summer, I dunno, but you can ask if she wants to go to some public event or place. Maybe a concert. There's a bunch of possibilites, you just have to find the right one that'll suit you. So remember, just start it out in a friendly way, or you'll come out a little stalkerish. Good luck.
2007-08-23 05:58:08 · answer #2 · answered by Brian 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We have always had different levels of friendship with people, from those in our most inner circle to those people we see occasionally and have a chat or send a Christmas card to . With our modern day technology, a new level of friendship has developed, cyberfriends. These are people we may never have met and only communicate with online or they may be friends that have moved away or they may even turn into friends that meet face to face.
I think you need to accept what your current status is with this lady and try to look elsewhere for someone who may want a deeper relationship with you. Good luck finding that special person.
2007-08-23 05:57:54 · answer #3 · answered by lizzie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you feel so strongly about her, you need to make it known. Tell her that you want to be more than an online buddy. See how she takes it. Thats all you can really do. If she doesnt want you any more than a friend, at least you'll know. And if she does, well then the cause wasnt lost, was it? :-)
2007-08-23 05:57:32 · answer #4 · answered by La Cosa Nostra 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋