Are you a wife or husband who suffers or struggles with a spouse who is addicted to porn? Share your feelings and why. If you could tell them how you really feel about their addiction, what would you say?
2007-08-23 09:54:58 · 11 answers · asked by Committed Ministries 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I HATE IT!!!!!! Yes, I'll admit that we use to buy a couple at a time to watch'em 2gether & have some hard-core sex....but that was then..I knew it was bad 4rm the get go....
Anyways, I've grown up and I see that it hurts me so much that he would do it online & try 2 delete the history, but I would always find out cuz he don't know exactly to how to "delete" everythin'....Anyways, it makes me feel unpretty, not good enough for him.....I feel like he rather screw some young whore that's either a yellow-bone or white bimbo........It hurts me inside so bad I lose it sometimes & think that I'm ugly & don't have huge boobs.....When I tell him about how I feel, all he says: "is u never use to say anythin' cuz u would watch them too." I know that God doesn't like porn & it's a shame for my husband to see that. I don't want him lustin' over some whore while we have sex or make love....I want his eyes on me always, I want him thinking of me only....I never think about any other guy....Why would I? I love my husband, if I didn't I wouldn't care what he'd do.......
2007-08-23 10:20:47 · answer #1 · answered by mz_noneya_biz 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-21 08:10:59 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really know what I would say. I have said it, but it never comes out of my mouth right when I do. Sometimes I enjoy it with him....when he is in the porn mood, he is more amped about having sex than when he doesn't feel like looking at it. I am a seriously hot looking female...sounds conceited, but I know I am because of the reactions I get from men when I am just driving down the road in my car, or walking through a parking lot, even women look at me. I feel sad sometimes that he finds that what we have isn't enough. I am a bounty full lover and he is not denied anything here. So I don't understand sometimes why he wants to go solo about 15 times a month. He is in his mid 40's....so changing this is probably very much out of the question because it has been a habit for him for so long. Why do you ask?????? It is something that makes most women very sad.
2007-08-23 10:04:31 · answer #3 · answered by Rein 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband is addicted to porn and looking at young girls. I have watched porn, by myself and with my husband, although I do not find the big deal. I guess there are tasteful porn movies but most of the movies are hardcore porn. It would be ok if my husband could look at it with me or by himself a little..but its like a drug to him. Its like any addiction and must be handled that way. We are going to counseling and he knows how I feel about it all, with alot of good communication and open feelings and truth.. this is helping the situation. A person can fill their mind with all that stuff and the kind of perversion this world craves, the lustful images go to the heart and must be delt with. For me as a woman, it degrades women in general. To me there are better ways to make money in this life.
2007-08-23 10:07:39 · answer #4 · answered by slither22a 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I am a wife that struggles with a husband that is addicted to porn!! I hate it it makes me feel like I am not good enough. We have GREAT sex!! But he watches porn to take care of himself. He says that is "His " time that he really enjoys that time. But it hurts me really bad! I have told him just how I feel about it and really he does nothing! He is addicted to porn BAD!!! I hate it!!!
2007-08-23 10:41:29 · answer #5 · answered by sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband watches porn when he wants to. right now he has days off from work so he is watching daily while I am at work. My main concern will be if anyone from the open window will see him and hit on him. He wants me to show porn also which is fine. but then he just wants me to pleasure himself not me. which i think is not fair. he is not feeling well So I thought thats ok maybe he has no energy but still. I like to watch porn also. I am surprised that after marriage I am highly sexual. But he sometimes don't understand what I want. I am too shy to ask him about things. We have been married for 2 1/2 months now. But still I feel awkward talking to him about sex and things.
2007-08-23 10:25:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are married, you should have a good enough relationship that you could just talk to her about anything, including a porn addiction. Just go talk to her.
2007-08-23 10:07:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are there any husbands out there whose wife is addicted to porn?
2007-08-23 10:00:28 · answer #8 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm only addicted to porn when I have no significant other, or I am not satisfied with my other, otherwise I have no need for it.
2007-08-23 10:09:34 · answer #9 · answered by Destructor 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whats with all the losers GLUED to this crap? How do you women that have men like this TOLERATE that crap? Seriously! I mean, I am sure my man must look at it occasionally, but some of these guys are ridiculous!
When you have a woman wiling to have sex with you and you replace HER with some flickering images on a screen, you are a LOSER!!! Sorry!
A real man knows how to take care of his woman.....must not be many left in this world...glad I got one of them though!
2007-08-23 10:12:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋