Falling for a guy!!!??!? help?
I am dating this guy and have been for about 3 weeks. we are really happy and never argue. I am falling for him but dont want him to know i am all serious because i dont think guys like that. i am not clingy by no means and do diss him sometimes... i really like him and i know he likes me but dont want to seem so into it ..... help?!?!? guys what do you want!?!?!? i dont understand you
2007-08-23 08:14:03 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OMG, you haven't argued in 3 WEEKS? Marry this prince immediately, he's the ONE for you!
2007-08-23 08:17:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its alway all good at first. So dont get all excited because you havent argued in the first 3 weeks. I don't think any couple that has been together a while argue within the first 3 weeks . If they did then they probably arent together. Take you time. Make sue he has everything you want and make sure your everything he wants. Good Luck...
2007-08-23 08:24:41 · answer #2 · answered by Mr.504 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off, how old are you? If you're younger like in your teenage years you wouldn't want to express yourslef like that. If your're a bit older like around 19 years old. Also how long have you know this guy? This is another thing, if you just first met him a lil before you started dating, then you wouldn't want to express that way either.
Me as a guy date so I can have a partner when I grow a bit older. If this guy is like me and isn't in it for the booty, then he might share the same kind of feelings back.
Good luck!
2007-08-23 08:20:44 · answer #3 · answered by mastagw3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow!! u love him so soon? Well I know that u cant control what the heart does, but dont be so pushy and tell him that u are falling for him so quickly. U may scare him away. Most guys feelings dont move that quickly. Make sure you dont wear ur heart on ur sleeve so fast becasue he may not feel the way that you do and your feelings will get hurt. Take your time and let him make the first move.
2007-08-23 08:20:35 · answer #4 · answered by its not that serious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 week just take it slow be your self
you dont want to compromise anything within your self
Your still at the begining dont rush.
Just enjoy each other company and get to know each other your falling is just the high of being with some one new the real teast come much latter after you really know what you like and dont like about one another.
so just take your time.
2007-08-23 08:23:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend sent this to me because I thought guys were confusing! Maybe it will help you as a guide in life:
the age of 12 but I think the boys in your age just wanna play. dont expect that boys your age understand girls at all. They wanna be cool and tease girls.
When you are becomming older (like 16)Boys are only interessted to get layed the first time and girls wanna have romantic kisses under a tree or at the beach with a big moon.
At the age of 20 guys only wanna have ___ with you (sorry, but it is the truth) and girls wanna have a study/career and have a study boyfriend.
At 25 guys still only wanna have ___ with you and women wanna marry.
At the age of 30 guys maybe wanna marry (if you are lucky) and women wanna have kids:)
2007-08-23 08:17:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try being yourself. That is the first step for us to make a decision about women. If you are not yourself then any likes or dislikes are primarily your efforts to give what you think we want. Why don't you try being yourselves and let us make up our own minds about the girls and not on just what they do or say. We are people like you and have intelligence but if we make a decision on what we see and it was for our benefit that is deception and we are entitled to change our minds. Be yourself and take what comes.
2007-08-23 08:22:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I've always found that it helps to tell a man why you like him - especially for the things he does - like how he's trained his dog to be well-behaved or that he is polite to his parents and kind to his little brother.
That's a nice way to at least give him praise without going into gushing mushy monologues about how "dreamy" his eyes are - or something "girly" like that.
2007-08-23 08:21:45 · answer #8 · answered by Barbara B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay a lot of guys like it when the girl get serious means that they want to be with them n if uhavent argued dam stay with him get serious cuz this kind of guy wont come a long often
2007-08-23 08:19:23 · answer #9 · answered by The Midnight Captain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you really seem to be looking for, is how to behave so that you can have as much control over your situation with him as you possibly can.
If you want to know what guys really hate (girls too I'll bet) is someone who wants to control them.
Try just being yourself, & stop over analyzing.
2007-08-23 08:20:26 · answer #10 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋