I have been with my boyfriend for over 2 1/2 years. We NEVER and I mean NEVER would fight until recently. Everything he does pisses me off. HE is so annoying about things, but God I love him. I want to hit him and love him the same time. He always goes out because he works until 12 at night so after he works he will go out. Im already in bed when he comes home because i have to go to work at 8 every morning. And lately i have NEVER been jealous about girls being around him, becasue i know he would never doing anything. But now it bothers me when hes out with his friends and thir are girls thier. What is that about?For some reason we just bicker ( i dont know if i spelled that right) all the time. What should i do? Just let it go and why do you think we are like this all of a sudden.
2007-08-23 08:24:33 · 5 answers · asked by Dr.Yang 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It could be because, you guys don't spend enough time together anymore, and it's causing a drift between you both. This may also cause paranoia because you don't feel as close, you feel like he is drifting away little by little. But if you want this to work, find some time to spend together and try not to bring up a lot of the problems, just enjoy each others company like before. The reason why you fight all of the is because of lack of communication, this is KEY in any relationship, always talk about what is on your mind and work it out, if you guys don't talk it becomes frustrating because you guys are trying to figure it out on your own. The way he copes with it is by going out and loosens up. Hope this helps
2007-08-23 08:50:31 · answer #1 · answered by happygrl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for one he doesn't want you to find out if he is cheating or has cheat with any of the girls his boys are messing with. I'm not going to tell you to let it go because people don't understand that you can love someone so much that your eyes are blind and it doesn't matter what anyone say at the end of the day. Your heart is still there so the best thing to do is pray. You are like this because god gives us women a second born gift the is our six sense of find that something is wrong. so do sit back wanting for a answer from him wait on god. trouble come in it right order to you.
2007-08-23 15:53:26 · answer #2 · answered by Temisha H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the two of you need to have a conversation about why there is so much stress all of a sudden. Something is happening with at least one of you...and you need to find out what it is.
2007-08-23 15:35:47 · answer #3 · answered by Mathsorcerer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you’re not dependent of him,…..leave ,………..but if you want to live with drama and trust issues,……….Stay. and deal with it………your life and you are the one who will create your own destiny.
2007-08-23 15:37:54 · answer #4 · answered by sbyumabaker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is sexing some1 for a fact if he's going out after work
2007-08-23 15:32:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋