You ever know a person like this?

Question

I feel bad for my aunts new husband. All my aunt does is ***** all day about how a marrage is supposed to be a commitment, yet the husband works a 12 hour job and just wants to nap when he gets home.
They have a baby, and whatever suggestions the husband makes at my aunt, my aunt shreds his face with a wood chipper and says he is implying she does not know how to be a Mom. They argue all the time, and it usually ends with the husband sighing and shaking his head.
One time as they were walking inside, the husband grabbed me and said
"Listen kid, all women start out good, but NEVER GET MARRIED, or you'll end up like me!"
I was wondering if they will get a divorce...do you think so?
and what causes relationships to end up like this?

Answer 1

Not all marriages are like this......Sounds too me like he is "too" for his wife and that she is beginning to resent it.

Answer 2

Some marriages get like this when one partner is too busy to pay the average amount of attention to the other partner. Not all marriages are the same so don't take his advice when you find that one and you know the time is right don't let the moment slip away.
For them getting divorced I am not sure but it seems that she is being a bit unreasonable as he is as well. When there is a problem you don't sit by it and just wait for something to happen you make things happen and try to compromise as much as possible.
My mother always said to me one hand can never clap so when a marriage is not working out its because both partners have a part to play.

Answer 3

Marriages end up like this because the couple involve have no respect for each other and are too lazy to work on their marriage. It is suppose to be a give and take relationship. I would be a little upset too if my husband came home only to sleep ALL the time and didn't find anytime to spend with me. I don't know if that is the case with your aunt and her husband. At the same time....your aunt's husband may not want to spend time with her because all she does is b*tch. Again...it is a give and take relationship.

Answer 4

I am sure I will get all sorts of nasty remarks for this, but here goes anyway. Some women get irritated easily after the birth of a baby. I know many a couple who seam to argue all of the time and they are still together. Some people thrive on drama and are just argumentative by nature. I can't imagine the hubby did not know how your aunt was, I doubt she started this behavior over night.

Answer 5

Sounds like they should seek professional help or ask for help from a church official. Having a baby and losing sleep, working 12 hours--sounds like they are under a lot of stress and they probably don't get much time alone to be a couple. Just a night out would be helpful. They need to find the love they had when they got married.

Answer 6

If your aunt doesn't stop acting like that then her husband may leave her or ask for a divorce.She may loosen up or always act like that.She may just be acting like that cause she don't know how to react with her husband being gone 12 hours a day and then trying to take care of the baby.When he offers advise about the baby she may feel as if he doesn't know what he's talking about cause he's not around the baby that much.When to people don't know how to communicate relationships end up like this.I wish your aunt and her husband good luck and you to.

Answer 7

Usually reality sets in. Where both partners start taking each other for granted....Rather than enjoying each other for who and why they married in the first place.

Answer 8

I think they don't help each other (selfish), I think there fixated on there own needs and wants..They haven't realized that its a family and NOT a one way street....There in tune with what they feel but not what both feel with no solution..GREAT.........

Answer 9

i tried looking it up and found nothing.