Family & Relationships - 23 August 2007

he sents me a lot pics of him, he wants me to buy a webcam, so he can see me. he says that he wants to know who i really am and how. So one day i forgot my ymessenger on and he sent me a IM saying this Are you ignoring me? so i called him, i felt like i was loosing him and i started to explain myself and we both talking the same time. he was in tears. he hang up on me, he sent me a email saying that he cares so much about me and to know who i am, that he wont talk to me anymore because he doesnt want to hurt me by pushing me to do something that i am not willing to do it. . we know each other for 4 weeks, what i should do? he is not talking to me. i feel that i like this guy

2007-08-23 06:46:22 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i know she opened which she said but its half empty anyways should i pay half i already want to order online through my cousin all i need his her id # etc iam showing her today but she said did u use it i said no why would i set myself up like that and show her prof

2007-08-23 06:44:37 · 1 answers · asked by dvcgurl 7 in Family

Okay I'm 16. Yeah some might say I'm young whatever, but everyone has at least had their first kiss. I haven't. So i'm just wondering what guys like in a girl, I mean I'm not going to change myself or anything, I'm just curious. Also is it tru that guys are intimidated by tall girls? I am very tall for my age, I am 5'9" 5'10" so is that why guys are staying away? I'm not mean, I'm a little shy, but I'm nice. So what's up?

2007-08-23 06:43:13 · 10 answers · asked by .:Zany:. 3 in Singles & Dating

ok this jockish guy i no hes attracted to me becuz he gets an erection when ever he sees me but about 50 percent of the time he just wants me to shake my butt and somtimes will have deep conversations and talk and flirt and i love him when were talking and flirting but not when hes being a jerk does he like me or my butt????
plz help me i appreicciate it
alyssaluvsopi,

2007-08-23 06:40:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I just had a baby girl 3 months ago. I feel like our marriage is slowly slipping away. I feel no attraction to him anymore, my hormones are all messed up, and I had postpartum depression, so I am gussing this is why. Also with a baby I am so tired at night I just dont want to have sex, I have no desire to be intimate with him at all, I know that is horrible. I love him dearly and want to know if any of you experianced this and how to make it better. Thanks!

2007-08-23 06:39:28 · 32 answers · asked by wondering 2 in Marriage & Divorce

This guy has been asking me out for 2 months. He has told me he likes me a lot. He tried to kiss me, but I wasn't expecting it and pulled away. I haven't had my first kiss yet, and I didn't think he only wanted a peck. He tells me how much he wants to kiss me, and he's dropped hints that he wants to make out. The thing is, I don't know if I should tell him that I've never been kissed, but I also don't want to be caught in an awkward position where I don't know what I'm doing, but I also don't want him to feel like he has to "teach" me. He hasn't asked me, so I don't know if I should just volunteer that information. Do you think he'll be able to figure it out when he kisses me? He said he'll wait until I'm ready to kiss him (I pulled away last time). Any advice? Any personal experiences? Please help!

2007-08-23 06:39:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do I ask questions without being too personal or not trying to open up past wounds.

2007-08-23 06:31:45 · 3 answers · asked by lucynunn660 1 in Singles & Dating

Weve been dateing for 2 months now and the makeing out has lost all its fire. how do i put the hotness back into the boreing makeouts?

2007-08-23 06:31:11 · 17 answers · asked by david f 1 in Singles & Dating

really bad acne or really bad dandruff. by the way the girl has black hair so the dandruff is noticable. and the girl with acne has it all over her face w/ black heads.

just wondering. me and my friend are having a bet.

2007-08-23 06:31:09 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-23 06:30:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i dont understand how they can do they things they do.

like , omg ive never felt so used before .

okay saturday . realllly drunk .

couldnt walk, couldnt move, couldnt do anythingg.

this guy , we'll call him .. bob ? haha .. okay well bob was helping me . we may have made out ? well anyways , there was some fondling etc lol,

and then we were in my friends house, and i passed out, i woke up

he was gone

i didnt see him for the rest of the night ..

my friend said, yeah hes like that . and such ,

but she also said usually if he knows a girl is that drunk and like throwing up and passing out he'll just leave .

but he was with me like all night, and then he left


and i hate this


cause i get attatched to people sooo quickyl ,

and i can hardly handle this

i dont understand how someone can hurt someone this much and not care whatsoeverrr

2007-08-23 06:28:47 · 3 answers · asked by anaforeverxo 1 in Singles & Dating

want to make mad love to him

2007-08-23 06:27:12 · 7 answers · asked by death_by_stereo 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend works a lot. He works as a manager at a store. About three months ago he started to be at work a lot more than usual. When I asked him about it he just said there are things he has to do. Now he is pretty much there al the time. Even on his days off he says he has to go do something. I Don't think he is cheating on me I believe he at work I just think he has become work obsessed. We hardly ever get days off together when we do he always says he's got something to do at work . In the past month he was transferred to another store which he says is why he says has to be there all time. I can understand he might have to do extra work but I
can't understand why he has to be there all time. It has started to make me feel hurt and rejected like I am not as important as his work. I don't think I can handle coming second all time. Am I being too needy?

2007-08-23 06:23:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

but without your bf knowing???
Is it a horrible thing???!!!

2007-08-23 06:21:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Time after time I see women asking,

"Why is my husband wanting sex more than once a month [when I'm not in the mood.]"

Time after time I see women answer:

"Who does he think he is? Does he think he can demand sex when you don't want it?"

"Sex isn't the glue that holds a marriage together!" those same women say.

I think the women who answer in this way probably have husbands who are 'cheating', or husbands who will one day cheat.

If a man needs frequent sex, but loves his wife and kids, he'll sometimes pick the lousy option. Same as a woman picks a lousy option by believing it's not important.

What a man 'should do' is a matter of conjecture. What he probably will actually do is a matter of near certainty.

Maybe it isn't 'right'? Maybe it isn't how it 'should be'?

But isn't accepting reality over wishful thinking sometimes preferable?

2007-08-23 06:18:50 · 25 answers · asked by Jack P 7 in Marriage & Divorce

what if the ex girlfriend and your boyfriend IM each other about once a week and occasionally she removes clothes. Also your boyfriend has some videos and pictures of her from when they were together that he masturbates to and that the ex does not mind that he has kept. Keep in mind, she(the ex) is also in a relationship with someone else, and lives literally thousands of miles away in completely different time zones. How is this any worse than masturbating to Playboy magazines, or internet videos; would you also consider that cheating?

2007-08-23 06:16:42 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We just went up to a family reunion last weekend. He kind of has been depressed and I could tell somthing was going on. He finally texted me and said I now whats goin on since the family reunion I have been thinkin about my brother in law passing away. I dont know what the best thing to do for him and I feel talkn is the best way to help him he doesnt want to do it at work so I am waiting for him to get off. Any answers will be benificial.

2007-08-23 06:13:53 · 6 answers · asked by stephanieaadland2000 2 in Family

I meat this guy a few weeks ago. He has been trying to see me again for 2 weeks now. We finally went on a date and we kissed. I feel kind of guilty because I let him kissed me. He was trying to grab me other places but I didn’t let him!!!!!!!! Did I do wrong by letting him kiss me on the first date?

2007-08-23 06:12:17 · 11 answers · asked by Jazmin 3 in Singles & Dating

i m 23 yr guy,i fell in love wis a gal whom i know since childhood,,but never dare to tell her abt my feeling 2 her ,few yr back,we use to talk always,,but i also was shy at dat time...nd use to talk very less ..wid her.thus i get far from her..even ,she too know dat i love her...i never dare to say her ...but recently i come to know dat she was engage wid a guy..one more thing.as we know each other well, but due to my shyness i didnt talk from past few yrs.....she is very goodlooking ,ambitious ,beautiful nd she very friendly,,but i fail her 2 talk 2 her...plss give me some advice..guys...i m quite confused....becoz she stay in front ma buld.she know everthing abt me .i cant even 4get her...as i see her frequently...i m unhappy in ma life .....plzz help

2007-08-23 06:09:57 · 14 answers · asked by raj m 2 in Singles & Dating

We've been friends for 3 years know! He's my rock with a lot of things. Last school year someone told me that we'd be cute together but i just laughed at the idea! Than shortly after that i saw if in him in a different light so to say lol Anyways last school year I was single most of the school year! John became touchy filly with me! Not that I minded but it made me like him even more. Anyways he likes giving me bear hugs in sometimes he'll just hold me! ;) But I told him i WAS seeing someone in he kind of freaked out on me in said he'd kick this guy's *** when he See's us in school together!?! Than after he cooled down. He said that he would have my mom for AP English 3...in than fallowed up with " you know what will be funny? It's going to be weird when me and you date!?!"
That confused me even more cause he knew i had a bf at the time. He's been confusing me with a lot of things this school year! In I just don't know I mean every one who's not us. Say's there chemistry when where just in the same room....That gives me some hope! But still..Help should I Just try in move on?

I triad that with my ex bf but i couldn't get john off my mind when i dated him.

2007-08-23 06:09:02 · 7 answers · asked by Sara D 3 in Singles & Dating

i think it's really weird that some people have tickling fetishes. but i love to be tickled and watch tickling videos.. is it a fetish or just something i like...like chocolate? i'd like to hear about your experiences with tickling and...any recommended sites???

ps- i definately have a navel fetish so any navel tickling is good too..

2007-08-23 06:08:25 · 2 answers · asked by pandalover410 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Next sunday a 17 year old girl from northern italy is coming to stay with my family for the school year. I have a 15 year old daughter and a soon to be 14 year old son and 4 dogs. We already have a room set up for the foreign exchange student. is there anything i should know about foreign exchange students or that i should get for her?

2007-08-23 06:08:08 · 1 answers · asked by Jeppy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-23 06:07:43 · 2 answers · asked by justcurious 4 in Singles & Dating

He calls me all the time at work for no reason. When he's at work and I'm at home he calls every chance he gets just to say nothing. He gets mad when I never call him which is because he's calling me every hour anyway. Even when I'm w/ my mom he has to call every hour "Just to hear your voice, it makes me feel better." Then he gets offensive wondering why I don't want him calling all the time so I just drop it. I've tried dealing w/ it too many times. Also when we're together he has to constantly say why don't you love me, do you love me or why I'm going to leave him. It's so annoying but he says he's just kidding. It feels like he doesn't trust me even though I'm either at home or work. He's says it not me its other ppl he doesn't trust. I never go out or do anything w/o him. Any time we fight over anything he always calls me a ***** and accuses me of sleeping w/ ppl I work w/ or go to school w/. He's always sorry but I'm getting sick of it. Is there a solution to this?

2007-08-23 06:06:49 · 5 answers · asked by Jo 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-23 06:03:48 · 34 answers · asked by pujolsfan2007 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'd just like to know.
Describe as clearly as possible.

Mine would be a nice guy, who loves classic rock, Nintendo, and Hellsing. And being cute doesn't hurt. :D

2007-08-23 06:03:36 · 26 answers · asked by Dana Y 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my girlfriend have split up, i still have my belonging out at hers and I can pick them up at anytime. However, its only been a week ( of no contact ) and she decided to text me this :

im a little offended after all that was said the other week you still havent bothered to contact. Im sick of it always bein me & have had enough.

It sounds like she is hurting, not excepting it very well and she sounds desperate? I have not replied or contacted her.

Just want your views,opinions...Thanks Girls

2007-08-23 06:02:39 · 18 answers · asked by Jamie79 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-23 05:53:45 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

in what way do you like IT!?? you know what i mean.

2007-08-23 05:52:30 · 9 answers · asked by Stephy12006 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm blessed to be with someone who favors the second option, but I'm just wondering how other women feel about this? I have to say that it's so much more intense when your lover keeps you in her mouth throughout the entire orgasm.

2007-08-23 05:50:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating