he sents me a lot pics of him, he wants me to buy a webcam, so he can see me. he says that he wants to know who i really am and how. So one day i forgot my ymessenger on and he sent me a IM saying this Are you ignoring me? so i called him, i felt like i was loosing him and i started to explain myself and we both talking the same time. he was in tears. he hang up on me, he sent me a email saying that he cares so much about me and to know who i am, that he wont talk to me anymore because he doesnt want to hurt me by pushing me to do something that i am not willing to do it. . we know each other for 4 weeks, what i should do? he is not talking to me. i feel that i like this guy
2007-08-23 06:46:22 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This guy is a PSYCHO NUTJOB! Don't let him contact you again!
He's trying to control you, he's trying to brainwash you by playing on your sympathies, and he's using the fact that you like him to try to trick you.
Block his IM and his email address, and don't contact him for your own safety!
2007-08-23 06:50:15 · answer #1 · answered by Frinn 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think of you're able to desire to probable cut back ties with this guy. Be intense for a minute. you do no longer even comprehend him. You consult with him on-line. he's in no way met you, has particularly seen you. Now he's IN TEARS on the grounds which you probably did no longer respond to an IM as we communicate? something is amazingly incorrect right here. i does not have faith that this guy is familiar by skill of any skill. Why do no longer you are trying searching for love in person?
2016-10-09 02:46:00 · answer #2 · answered by nelson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. That's a tricky thing. There are so many people on the internet with different agendas. He wasn't the one for you. He sounds like he was a little crazy if he started freaking out over you not responding to his IM.
2007-08-23 06:56:59 · answer #3 · answered by lawstudntbynite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your parnter is way to sensitive. send him a mess with an appoligy in the subject line . dont take resposibility for his feelings just let him know you didnt mean to hurt him. that you still want him also leave a mess same way and give him a little time about 24 hours
2007-08-23 07:16:03 · answer #4 · answered by link00777rl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, first thing you do........DROP HIM LIKE A HOT POTATO
and let me tell you why he seems to be the oversensitive kind that will be forever making you feel responsible for how he overreact. don't fall for it, or next line will be " if you leave me I will kill myself" so just do something good for you and keep it the way it is now Not talking to you. move on, there is more normal people up there.. this one feel like a future stalker, Stay away. and take care.
2007-08-23 06:58:20 · answer #5 · answered by Nena SV 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This guy really sounds like a weirdo. Run like hell. It's hard for a guy to cry. If he does it that easily, he is emotionally unstable. Someone who pushes you and plays mind games is an emotionally abusive person. Don't take this any further. You are putting yourself into a bad situation. It's only been four weeks-break it off now before things get too involved. I'm serious-this is serious-cut off contact with him...........................
2007-08-23 06:52:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like both of you have an unhealthy cyber relationship here. I'd run away very fast and be sure not to give him any way to figure out who you really are or where you live.
2007-08-23 06:54:48 · answer #7 · answered by Jay P 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is prepping you for doing a topless cam show for him in the future. Sounds a bit like a guy I met over the internet from Florida. Your guy's name doesn't happen to be Sheridan?
Hmmmm.
In any case, he sounds a bit squirrly to me. Be very very careful and watch for "red flags" regarding what he says and his behavior...
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2007-08-23 06:53:06 · answer #8 · answered by YRofTexas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds a little clingy and psycho for an online dating experiance that went on for only a month. I would quit talking to him. You have to be really really really careful meeting people on the internet.
2007-08-23 06:50:42 · answer #9 · answered by buddhist_20 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you both have an unhealthy obsession, turn the computer off for a few days
2007-08-23 06:51:24 · answer #10 · answered by A***n G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋