This guy has been asking me out for 2 months. He has told me he likes me a lot. He tried to kiss me, but I wasn't expecting it and pulled away. I haven't had my first kiss yet, and I didn't think he only wanted a peck. He tells me how much he wants to kiss me, and he's dropped hints that he wants to make out. The thing is, I don't know if I should tell him that I've never been kissed, but I also don't want to be caught in an awkward position where I don't know what I'm doing, but I also don't want him to feel like he has to "teach" me. He hasn't asked me, so I don't know if I should just volunteer that information. Do you think he'll be able to figure it out when he kisses me? He said he'll wait until I'm ready to kiss him (I pulled away last time). Any advice? Any personal experiences? Please help!
2007-08-23 06:39:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If this guy has done everything you say he has then he must REALY like you. you dont have to tell him you've never been kissed and don't feel like he has to teach you. it's not likely he will ask you about it. just give him a chance, you'll be fine.
2007-08-23 06:47:40 · answer #1 · answered by misha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him. You'll kiss him when you feel ready to. Don't feel embarrased. Just remember that we all have once had our first kiss and that everyone has once felt this anxiety that you are feeling now. Chill... Everything will be just fine. You'll know when the time is right.
2007-08-23 13:46:27 · answer #2 · answered by Ann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my question is why you would kiss him if you werent going out with him? All that would do is make you look like a whore. So if your not going to go out with him or anything dont kiss him.
2007-08-23 13:48:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only way to learn how to kiss is to do it
Only way to get good at it is practice
Only way to practice is with a partner
Only way to enjoy it is , forget about everything else except this kiss....
2007-08-23 13:48:28 · answer #4 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont feel like you really love him as much as he loves you, then dont waste your first kiss on him. you'd want to remember it right? but not with him... (you guys havent even gone out yet, am i right?!) i cant believe i wasted my first kiss :'(
if your friends dont like him, try to hear them out before you go and kiss him.
2007-08-23 13:50:52 · answer #5 · answered by christen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you are comfortable with. Don't rush because he wants you too.
Wait until it feels right for you. Sure you will be nervous. But you will know in your heart if it's right.
2007-08-23 13:59:56 · answer #6 · answered by Kaytie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll tell u how to kiss...start with a zipper.
2007-08-23 13:44:47 · answer #7 · answered by lotsofthem2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should give him a chance and be confident....go ahead.. every one have their 1 st chance so dont worry..good luck...?
2007-08-23 13:49:08 · answer #8 · answered by Bintush 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋