why the hell are guys such assholesss?!?

Question

i dont understand how they can do they things they do.

like , omg ive never felt so used before .

okay saturday . realllly drunk .

couldnt walk, couldnt move, couldnt do anythingg.

this guy , we'll call him .. bob ? haha .. okay well bob was helping me . we may have made out ? well anyways , there was some fondling etc lol,

and then we were in my friends house, and i passed out, i woke up

he was gone

i didnt see him for the rest of the night ..

my friend said, yeah hes like that . and such ,

but she also said usually if he knows a girl is that drunk and like throwing up and passing out he'll just leave .

but he was with me like all night, and then he left


and i hate this


cause i get attatched to people sooo quickyl ,

and i can hardly handle this

i dont understand how someone can hurt someone this much and not care whatsoeverrr

Answer 1

Maybe. just maybe you should not get drunk and pass out. I hardly see how that qualifies guys to be assholes. The way I see it if you got drunk and passed out on me I would leave too. What is one supposed to do for fun, watch you sleep. That is just at the top of my list of things to do. You need to get a clue and accept the real problem and it is not the guys, just off hand I would think your drinking might be part of it. I know, I know, the guy held your arms and poured the drinks down your throat against your will, uh huh, and then left. Sympathy is somewhere between syphillis and symphony in the dictionary. Try changing the things you do and maybe your impression of others, like the male gender, would be subject to change also.

Answer 2

You were drunk, "Bob" helped you move, you made out, and then he left... And now every guy in the world is an asshole? Yeah, I guess you really do get attached quickly... If this keeps happening, I'd suggest that you stop drinking. Or you'll be kissing and hurting wayyyy too much.

Answer 3

Um......you probably need to hold yourself. Stop giving yourself so easy and you won't have attachment problems. BUt guys are real horrible. Girls are worse though lol