He calls me all the time at work for no reason. When he's at work and I'm at home he calls every chance he gets just to say nothing. He gets mad when I never call him which is because he's calling me every hour anyway. Even when I'm w/ my mom he has to call every hour "Just to hear your voice, it makes me feel better." Then he gets offensive wondering why I don't want him calling all the time so I just drop it. I've tried dealing w/ it too many times. Also when we're together he has to constantly say why don't you love me, do you love me or why I'm going to leave him. It's so annoying but he says he's just kidding. It feels like he doesn't trust me even though I'm either at home or work. He's says it not me its other ppl he doesn't trust. I never go out or do anything w/o him. Any time we fight over anything he always calls me a ***** and accuses me of sleeping w/ ppl I work w/ or go to school w/. He's always sorry but I'm getting sick of it. Is there a solution to this?
2007-08-23 06:06:49 · 5 answers · asked by Jo 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Drop him.
2007-08-23 06:09:50 · answer #1 · answered by Beach Saint 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he's hugely insecure and probably has a control issue. You want a partner in life, not a Daddy or a watch dog.
The solution is NOT giving in to him...........ie dont answer the phone every 5 seconds, go on about your life and whatever you have to do. If it causes friction with him, move on.
2007-08-23 13:19:31 · answer #2 · answered by Kit Kat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he has a serious insecurity problem that he's going to have to deal with. He probably has a low self esteem too. You should stop trying to "deal with it". Make it an issue and tell him your tired of being insulted because of his own insecurities. Just tell him how you'll feel.
2007-08-23 13:29:25 · answer #3 · answered by christine21486 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Theres no real solution other than dumping him. Tell him that this attitude is pushing you away from he. Even though he says he trust you he totally doesn't. Someone has hurt him pretty bad in the past.
2007-08-23 13:12:21 · answer #4 · answered by -Swatty- 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about it first.
2007-08-23 13:12:10 · answer #5 · answered by Giraffe Bites 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋