i m 23 yr guy,i fell in love wis a gal whom i know since childhood,,but never dare to tell her abt my feeling 2 her ,few yr back,we use to talk always,,but i also was shy at dat time...nd use to talk very less ..wid her.thus i get far from her..even ,she too know dat i love her...i never dare to say her ...but recently i come to know dat she was engage wid a guy..one more thing.as we know each other well, but due to my shyness i didnt talk from past few yrs.....she is very goodlooking ,ambitious ,beautiful nd she very friendly,,but i fail her 2 talk 2 her...plss give me some advice..guys...i m quite confused....becoz she stay in front ma buld.she know everthing abt me .i cant even 4get her...as i see her frequently...i m unhappy in ma life .....plzz help
2007-08-23 06:09:57 · 14 answers · asked by raj m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, you do not propose to a girl that is engaged. Move on. Get out there and live your life and enjoy the hell out of it and eventually you will think of this girl less and less, and you will meet someone else to fall in love with and obsess over.
2007-08-23 06:14:29 · answer #1 · answered by Tom T 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT PROPOSE
If she's engaged to another man, then things must be serious. It would do you well to tell her how you feel, no matter how hard it is, but do not propose. A proposal will look naive and she will surely turn it down.
Now brace yourself, because you will likely be turned down; however, you must give it a chance. You don't want to always think "what if" for the rest of your life.
It sounds like you need to take more chances in your life and you should start here. You've had a good relationship with this woman (as friends) that she will be polite if she doesn't feel the same way.
Morever, you don't know unless you try. She could feel the same and break things off with the other guy.
If things don't work out, at least you were able to express your feeling and you can move on. You're young, you have plenty of time to meet another girl if this doesn't work out.
2007-08-23 13:19:32 · answer #2 · answered by bx01z 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could tell her how you feel, but it sounds like it might be too late already man. I know how you feel a girl I have been friends with since we were kids and I really love got engaged recently and I definitely know the feeling. We have to accept there are a lot of other girls out there that aren't engaged. Think about her feelings and how it might effect her engagement if shes happy let her be. Either way you might think about talking to her about it but don't expect her to leave her guy for you.
2007-08-23 13:15:40 · answer #3 · answered by alius n 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's only going to break your heart. don't do it. You'll only end up feeling extremely horrible. Just realize that she's not the one for you, and if you're friends, be fulfilled with that. Good luck!
P.S. I can't believe that a 23 year old guy types like you do. Seems very..teenage.....strange...
2007-08-23 17:18:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have told her long time ago about your feelings, it is too late now, u must learn how to forget, life is beautiful , as per my experience no body really knows what is the best for him, she may not be the best for you despite that she is good looking, ambitious,..... etc.
2007-08-23 13:24:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but sounds like you are too late. Since she isn't married yet though, I would talk to her and confess all your feelings for her. It is now or never. At least you won't go through life wonder what if she did know your true feelings. Spill your feelings to her now before it is too late forever.
2007-08-23 13:15:56 · answer #6 · answered by misbotta 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If she is engaged to someone else you should get over her. I know that it might be hard right now, but there are other girls out there that you will fall in love with. Good luck.
2007-08-23 13:15:41 · answer #7 · answered by amy00 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah sure why not, hope the 3 of you will be very happy
2007-08-23 13:14:54 · answer #8 · answered by marie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
um be honest with her, tell her how you feel and see what she says. but you may have missed your chance with her. but that doesn't mean you won't ever be happy again or that you won't find someone else. if it bugs you too much move to somewhere not so close to her.
2007-08-23 13:15:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Watch "My Best Friend's Wedding."
2007-08-23 13:14:43 · answer #10 · answered by Beach Saint 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋