Okay I'm 16. Yeah some might say I'm young whatever, but everyone has at least had their first kiss. I haven't. So i'm just wondering what guys like in a girl, I mean I'm not going to change myself or anything, I'm just curious. Also is it tru that guys are intimidated by tall girls? I am very tall for my age, I am 5'9" 5'10" so is that why guys are staying away? I'm not mean, I'm a little shy, but I'm nice. So what's up?
2007-08-23 06:43:13 · 10 answers · asked by .:Zany:. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
One of my best friends in jr. high was a six foot tall centerfold look alike. I had SUCH a crush on her, but I didn't have the guts to tell her. It wasn't until I bumped into her when I was 23 that she told me SHE had a crush on me too. She actually tried to kiss me a couple of times but chickened out.... Same for me we wrestled, and swam alot, but neither of us had the confidence to go for the money.
So in answer to your question, guys like confidence. Don't mistake confidence for cockyness though... Don't be afraid to laugh at yourself if you flub up. Don't be afraid to laugh at other people as well. Be honest, and don't be afraid to take criticism.
Good Luck,
Jer
2007-08-23 06:51:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK well Hun it depends on the guy every guy is different in what he likes in a girl. Some guys don't care about the looks but the personality. So having a fun, independent, bubbly personality will attract the some guys. When you first get your feet wet some guys are gonna wanna just get down Ur pants remember put Ur foot down and say no if they truly like you they will respect that answer. Some guys are intimidated by tall girls just try to find a tall or tallish guy. My boyfriend and I are a couple inches apart me being taller he got over it. In the end it comes down to a guy accepting u for who u are not Ur looks not Ur money just who u are as genuine individual. Good luck hope that helps
2007-08-23 13:51:35 · answer #2 · answered by stephanieaadland2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 15 and a sophomore. I am handsome and athletic. but never had a girlfriend. Don't pay attention to stupid stuff like that. People today watch too much MTV and crap. It doesn't mean ****. And I like girls that are at least my height or smaller. If you are tall then you should look at guys tall enough for you. There are many guys that are 5'9 and taller.
2007-08-23 13:55:03 · answer #3 · answered by hd67eh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy, and here's what I look for in a girl:
1. A pretty face (75% of first impression, 10% of overall)
2. A nice a** (15% of first impression, 10% of overall)
3. Nice rest of body (5% of first impression, 5% of overall)
4. A great personality (5% of first impression, 75% of overall)
Notice there are two categories: first impression (short run) and overall (long run).
Obviously, this is just an approximation I came up with. Personality includes: non-smoker, doesn’t use drugs, caring, honest, fun-loving, intelligent, and down-to-earth
2007-08-23 13:47:00 · answer #4 · answered by bluedevil1642 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys like a flirt, buy books on the art of flirting... Most girls don't know how to flirt, they think they can get by on looks alone which definitely helps, but flirting is the key..hope this helps.
2007-08-23 13:49:43 · answer #5 · answered by ACTS 4:12 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no "magic" answer to this. Every guy likes something different about every girl.
Don't worry that you haven't been kissed yet. Just continue to be yourself, follow your heart and your interests, be with your friends and enjoy life. It will happen, and you'll be glad you waited for that someone special. :-)
2007-08-23 13:47:44 · answer #6 · answered by Frinn 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think guys don't like to be intimidated by a girl that is taller than they are. But usual guys look for boobs. i dont though. i look for personality.
2007-08-23 13:47:09 · answer #7 · answered by starwars f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately at Ur age all guys want is the popular girls, really pretty, n sex. if Ur serious about dating just remember these aren't the guys u will end up wed'n. take it all as learning experience.
2007-08-23 13:49:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No most guys are not intimidated by height but if you dont talk to them they may think you are mean or different so if you dont talk to them they dont know your interested in them
2007-08-23 13:48:34 · answer #9 · answered by LARGENCHARGE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it just takes time
good things come to those who wait
dont change yourself, someone will turn up sooner or later
2007-08-23 14:08:18 · answer #10 · answered by samsam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋