your spouse looking at an ex boyfriend naked on the web cam? and she was on cam as well wearing lingeree? Here is most of the whole story... There is this man, who makes 400,000 a year working in a "plane tower" directing the planes as they come in. He buys his wife everything, and daughter too. She, however, spends some of that money on lingeree and shows her ex boyfriend this, on the web cam, and he strips for her, I think they do more than that... but, what would you do if you found your wife doing this when you came home from work early??? The ex boyfriend wants to see her in person, but, she says no, it can't go further than this. Does she not worry that her husband will probably dump her for even just doing this??? sigh... he works hard for her and she makes him look like a fool behind his back =(...
2007-08-23 04:22:19 · 59 answers · asked by elvlayarvvi fEisty wife and mom 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
thanks for the answers! no, it's not me...and no I am not related, and no I don't want her husband, I am happily married, lol! I just wanted to know what men would do if the shoe was on their foot...and found their wife doing such things... this is about a couple I met a few years ago, once, then shortly after, I heard of her "affair" through a mutual aquaintance. You hear so much about men cheating, well, in this case, it was the wife... no matter the reason, she should not have done this, and I am pretty sure her husband gives her what she "needs", she is just a "sex fiend" in my opinion... who thinks this type of behaviour is ok... and I know her husband would not be happy about it! you hear so much about men cheating, so, I was wondering about what people thought if the woman did it... I got pretty much the same response, divorce...and cheating is cheating... nice to see people agree the same whether it be man, or woman... thanks all!
2007-08-23 07:11:14 · update #1
Some people have a problem believing that a relationship on the internet can be just a damaging to a marriage as a true physical affair. You are still ploting and planning behind your partners back and you are taking your attention away from them and your marriage. Let me guess her husband works long hours to provide for them and she is LONELY. What a $#@#$.
An affair is an affair regardless of how physical it becomes. If she says it is no big deal then tell her to tell her husband everything and see if he thinks it is a big deal.
2007-08-23 04:34:36 · answer #1 · answered by katbonikowski 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WoW, Maybe he's working a little too hard and she is bored and not 'satisfied'. I'm not giving her any excuse as it would be horrible for the husband to come home to that. I think she should talk to her husband directly and air out her dirty laundry. She should tell him what it is she wants and totally ditch her ex. I know every woman wants to feel sexy especially for her husband but perhaps he is not giving her that required attention due to being busy all the time and materialistic things, all though good too, tend to not compensate for emotional support and reassurance.
She should definitely try to stop the web cam activities and maybe try making a private video and show it only to her husband.
GL!
2007-08-23 04:33:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is an act of disrespecting her husband and such behavior should not be tolerated especially when you are married. Why expose herself to her Ex when she got her husband whom she is supposed to expose to only. She is very decisive and such the best way to handle this case is to let her move with her boyfriend or ex so as to expose to him the rest or their lives together. Double life should not be given a chance in a happily marriage. Am sorry for this but she isn't worth, or wasn't ready to be a wife yet. She needed more time in the field or dating and kissing more frogs untill she understand what marriage is and make herself ready for one man in her life.
2007-08-23 04:41:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if this is a true history, the only thing i can say is that this woman doesn't love her husband, the man does everything for her, but we should consider if he is an absent person, if this happens, maybe his woman just want some attention, and he is not giving it to her, i think if was this man i would look for somebody else and leave this woman, she is not worth.
D. Shadow
2007-08-23 04:32:04 · answer #4 · answered by Paul's Alter Ego 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you caught someone doing that, you almost have to presume that they are doing more than that that you don't know about. I wouldn't trust the person and I would expect that they have cheated on me. At a minimum, I would be removing the web cam from my home. At the maximum, I might have substantial trust problems that would not allow the relationship to continue.
2007-08-23 04:29:05 · answer #5 · answered by muriel12 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on how dedicated husband is to the partnership. There are lots of businessmen out there who claim to really love and care for his wife and whatnot but he is truely in love with his work. Only assuming he realises her net play is innocent he should have no problem with it. He ought to be proud to have such a confident lady as his lover!!
2007-08-23 04:31:44 · answer #6 · answered by Jeska J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is bad. I am a female, however if my husband were showing himself to anyone on a web cam, photo, slide show...street show....I wouldn't tolerate it. Neither should you. She sounds like she has issues. Personally in my marriage I need respect, friendship and love....this demonstrates none of this. i am sorry for you. Wish you the best. Hoping that you will find all of the respect, friendship and love that you deserve.
2007-08-23 04:28:59 · answer #7 · answered by Rein 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur title says all of it however somewhat "too reserved" if u question me, u made a pie and he commonly ate a few of it then as such a lot men do, attempted to make his different part snicker however most likely u dnt see the humorous aspect to a person demoralising a work of pastry. recover from it n bake one other pie, simply ensure he is helping u to do it cos then he wont be so eager. If my female friend baked a pie and that i made it seem american pie sort she might commonly throw a few of it at me and we might grow to be guffawing approximately it. U simply sound like an absolute bore, i consider sorry for ur associate, u have got to get a lifestyles. what usual character has the time to bake a pie at the present time besides?u have to have plenty of spare time on ur arms. probably u must do anything optimistic with ur time like embellish your condominium. or get a task in a bakery
2016-09-05 11:19:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you in love with this spouse by the way? It seems like you are. I do not understand your role, but anyones if it were my husband on the cam, well I cannot say he would have an easy time explaining things to me thats for sure. But again you seem to care too much and say how much he works for her like you feel sorry for him. I hope you are his sister, if you arent then you may have a thing for him yourself.
2007-08-23 04:28:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The husband deserves way better! He should file for divorce.
He is slaving away while she is playing on the internet with the ex boyfriend. That just does not sound right at all.
2007-08-23 04:31:08 · answer #10 · answered by Mommy M.D. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋