Lets just say that your friend cheated on her bf and her bf broke up with her. But she realized that the bf meant the world to her and so she is trying to suduce him but all attempts are failing because of the bf's jerk roomates who will not let him come back to me. So is this legal or wrong if you accidently poke a hole in the condom and forget to take your birthcontrol pills? I guess she thinks that if I get pregant then he will love me and stay with me forever. But first she has to trick him into making love with her. Is this wrong or illeagal to do? What do you think?
2007-08-23 04:47:15 · 35 answers · asked by Ashely85 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The second person is right if this guy really trully loves you then he will come back to you. I wouldn't do the thing with the condom that is just asking for trouble, more trouble than you want to deal with. Kids are wonderful but if you are not ready for a baby I wouldn't take that route. Hope this helps
2007-08-23 04:54:18 · answer #1 · answered by jbbsbrock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know the definition of the word MORAL? Probably not, because if you did you would already know the difference. BUT... Moral or morality is a set of subjective values adopted by cultures. They are essentially things that are accepted as good and wholesome in any given society. Incest is considered immoral (not moral) while going to church and staying faithful to your wife are considered moral. Moral values however, are not laws. You can't, in most instances, be legally punished for being immoral. Legal wrong is just that an act that violates a formal, codified LAW! Robbing a bank is an example of a legal wrong. You won't go to jail for cheating on your wife, but you will for robbing a bank.
2016-05-20 23:41:31 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats with the friend reference lol, you even slip up in your question by "so she is trying to suduce him but all attempts are failing because of the bf's jerk roomates who will not let him come back to me." If YOU do that, it will destroy his life and yours. He won't stay with, and if he does it'll end in divorce. Life isn't over, you can find someone else and in time they will be the world to you. Just don't let someone mount you again while your dating someone.
2007-08-23 05:55:15 · answer #3 · answered by Bane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's definitely wrong! I'm pretty sure if he wanted to press charges there would be a way to do it...Why would you want to put a baby in the middle of this? You cheated on him and that's hard for anyone to get over but when you're a man it's even worst.Specially when you're friends now about it there probably teasing him telling him he wasn't doing it right and that's why you cheated...fight for him if you want him back but don't think a baby will fix anything
2007-08-23 05:01:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never heard anything more wrong than this... This is stupid... so you think that by becoming pregnant he's gonna looove you again. Yea right. Then by seducing him and putting yourself out there as only a lay... yea ur new label will be "freind with benefits.." He will not want a serious relationship with you at that point... Why in the world would you chance at getting pregnant knowing that you only did it to try and get a man back? Is that a real reason to become pregnant. I sure hope not-- thats freekin gross.
2007-08-23 04:58:52 · answer #5 · answered by Abstract Expression 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is extremely wrong. Usually, if love is not present in the first place, everyone suffers. Divorce (if marriage occurs) is usually what happens. Before that, a WHOLE lot of fighting and blaming and what not. Not good for anyone. Yet another reason sex is extremely dangerous and should be done within the confines of a marriage. Just my personal opinion on the marriage thing but nonetheless, I think it's wrong and has serious consequences.
2007-08-23 04:56:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wanted to come back he would regardless of the friends.
Think about what you just said. You're talking about creating another human being for the selfish reason of getting an ex back. That is one of the lowest most pathetic things I've ever heard anyone suggest. For even thinking this I would say 'she' has a serious mental condition and I don't say that jokingly.
I've read a lot of horrible things suggested here but this is truly the lowest. I suspect that this mental disease 'she' has is at least part of the reason he is not with 'her'.
Make no mistake your 'friend' is mentally unbalanced. My suggestion is get your 'friend' some help.
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2007-08-23 04:50:21 · answer #7 · answered by elurle 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's not illegal, but it's not a smart thing to do. Even if you were to "trick" him into having sex with you and you were to get pregnant (which may not even happen that one time you have sex with him), there's no guarantee whatsoever that he will want anything to do with you even then. There are plenty of couples I know where the girl has gotten pregnant and the guy does the bare minimum...pays child support and spends time with the child, but they still don't want to be with the girl. Where's that going to leave you? With a child you never really wanted, scraping money to pay bills to support you and your child, and the guy with a new girl? Your plan probably won't turn out the way you hope it will.
2007-08-23 04:53:55 · answer #8 · answered by crabbyone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is so wrong. A baby should be conceived out of love, not to try to hold on to a man. She could end up alone and with a baby. Men do not have to stay with you because you have their baby. I see a very unhappy ending for your "friend" if she does this. Tell her she should have never cheated on him and when she finds the next guy she really cares for to stay faithful. Babies are not the answer.
2007-08-23 04:56:24 · answer #9 · answered by princessannie122 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It should be illegal but would be tough to prove...however any woman who thinks that'll ensure her a loving relationship is an idiot and a fool. IF she got pregnant and had the child, all it would mean is he'd be trapped paying child support for a kid he didn't want and tried to prevent...it wouldn't mean he'd become fond of her again. In fact, pregnancy is a good way to end a relationship that isn't solid to begin with.
Can't help but feel sorry for any kid who's brought into the world for that purpose...the whole situation is baaaaaaaaaaaaaad karma for the chick playing such tricks...
Sometimes my own gender is so stupid and manipulative I'm ashamed to be female. *rolls eyes*
2007-08-23 04:52:21 · answer #10 · answered by . 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋