A guy gives me his phone #, I call him, he acts like he wants to hang out, then when the time comes he's got other things going on. I've chalked it up as having bad timing. I don't want to scare him away. He seems interested but we can never find the right time to get together. Do I try one more time as they say 3rd times a charm or do I forget him and move on??
2007-08-23 04:59:39 · 28 answers · asked by ALABLUEYES 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
forget him. hes stringing you along as a last resort if he doesnt have anything better to do. "to do" get it? funny thing is...if he was all about you, thatd scare you away. girls just cant make up there mind what they want.
2007-08-23 05:01:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a single person can be a busy life or it can also be tons of free time. I go through peaks and valleys where I am extremely busy and there are other times when i have nothing going on at all. Also take into consideration that he probably has friends that like to do summer time stuff.
Give the guy a few more chances. Tell him to make the attempt next time when his schedule is free.
2007-08-23 05:04:07 · answer #2 · answered by umannjo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should let him set up the next date. Don't give up quite yet, especially if you really like him. Give him a call and just let him know that you would love to hang out with him and to give you a call the next time he's free. The ball is now in his park. You are still free to move on if you don't hear from him and if you do hear from him, then you know for sure that he sincerely wants to hang out with you and all those previous attempts were just bad timing!
2007-08-23 05:04:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he seems interested then I think he still wants to get together with you, perhaps he's nervous about what to say to you or if ou guys will have an awkward time together alot of men are like that. Don't take it personally but maybe call him back and shoot for a time, if it's a no go leave him with your number and if he doesn't call back to reschedule then I think its time to give your number away to someone with more potential and who can put more effort into things.
Good luck sweetie.
2007-08-23 05:06:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say give it one more chance. It nice to know that some women like yourself have the confidence take charge to get what they want... On the other hand if he blows you off again he's def not worth the time because at some point he has to man up and make a move.
2007-08-23 05:05:42 · answer #5 · answered by And_AOF 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3rd time is a charm however this guy has your number. If he is truly interested in YOU then let him call you. As soon as you have "forgotten" about him and are busy with other things he will blow your phone up.... but only if he is really interested in you. If he's not then you don't need him anyway.
2007-08-23 05:07:06 · answer #6 · answered by moonfrog 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to call you ... that way, you know if he really wants to hang or not. If not, not a big deal, but at least the ball is in his court. Give him a few days to call you back but don't wait around.
2007-08-23 05:03:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you give him three chances and it doesn't pan out...move on. A guy will make time for the things he is most interested in. If it isn't you, then why waste your time!?
2007-08-23 05:02:53 · answer #8 · answered by upnorthguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know we are in the year 2007, but if he was really interested, he would have taken your number and he would be calling YOU. Some things don't change, leave him alone and let him come to you.
2007-08-23 05:02:46 · answer #9 · answered by trieste_71 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait for him to call you. I think he likes the fact that you call him to make plans. If he does not call you will know it was not a good thing from the beginning.
2007-08-23 05:04:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋