Im getting a little aggrevated lately because sometimes if I happen to glance at a girl (not even on purpose) and shes with a guy, he'll tap her on the ***, or look back and then put his arm around her or something to rub it in my eye. Is it me or are they trying to glorify the fact im a lonely piece of s*it?
I was also at a bar and a girl was looking at me, like she was interested, and I asked her a question about something and this fat kid she was near went over to her and said "What was that honey?". Then he was staring me down for the rest of the night.
I've been dating someone who has looked at the girl I was seeing before and I don't get happy about it either, but should I have confronted the fat kid?" How should i react to these guys seemingly rubbing it in my eye that they're girls are "spoken for".
BTW, I was at a restaurant the other night and stared towards a girl's sandals and the guy was giving me a chaperone look. Im not doing anything wron
2007-08-23 05:37:30 · 12 answers · asked by Pep Harris 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I notice most of the women answering are saying what they are with such pride and passion, as if these guys are right.
Why is that? Just curious.
2007-08-23 05:47:33 · update #1
They are marking their territory...It shows that they see you as a threat...
2007-08-23 05:41:30 · answer #1 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing is how can they be rubbing it in your face if they have no clue that you are single or taken? The scenarios your giving only entails that they maybe are a bit causcious towards you when you are around their female especially while in their presence. Maybe you are giving off a bad vibe and they feel almost threatened by your presence. It's ok some people give off bad vibes and you got to get to know them before you know better. Also maybe you should pay more attention to who you look at and how you look at poeple.
As for reacting, it's not like these people are calling you out. Even if you have an interest in their girlfriends they are too cowardly to confront you, you should just be a man and find someone single. That's not hard is it?
2007-08-23 05:47:36 · answer #2 · answered by kathy e 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this is you, and not them. I agree with Sophie on the marking territory thing, some guys are over-protective or scared to lose their girl. You seem a little too sensitive about being single and stuff. I mean if you take note of all the little things that happen, you are gonna be an anxiety nerd and its gonna affect your self confidence. No offense, but i had this problem before. Just lighten up. No need to confront the fat kid, just feel sorry for the girl(she might find herself lost in his cellulite, lol)
2007-08-23 05:48:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-13 06:20:38 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe it is all in your mind. Why are you single? You might also be doing a lot og staring that isnt necessary...so keep your eyes to yourself....I am sure you are a good looking man and you will find someone soon...take care
2007-08-23 05:43:12 · answer #5 · answered by Amanda W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys have a need to conquer, right, and when they do there is still that driving need to feel they have won, in a sense. Let the boys play with their thingers, allow their peircing glances and displays of art-higher-than-thou either slice into you or inspire you to find your own darling lady to love and please. A guy has to have a reason to be proud, yes?
2007-08-23 05:43:55 · answer #6 · answered by Jeska J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well u have nothing to worry about i am a chick and girls r B's...ok and so r there Bf's....dude...the whole pride and passion mean that they r so callled going to b with the guy 4ever and crap...until the guy gets to sleep with her...so wtf...w/e u should have so confronted the fat A>> i would have told him off like people shouldn't asc like that...u just had a simple question...people like him are the ones who make me mad...well like peace
2007-08-23 06:28:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're staring so long that they are noticing you, then you ARE doing something wrong.
Side note: You're "dating someoen who has looked at the girl I was seeing" - Does this mean you're dating a lesbian/bisexual?
2007-08-23 05:42:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hes trying to say you cant have her and hes showing off the fact that he does
2007-08-23 05:44:44 · answer #9 · answered by crystalf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no they are telling you she's taken and to back off. they dont know your single your girl could be at home. they could care less they are just stating that that one isnt for the taking.
2007-08-23 05:41:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋