My boyfriend and I have been going out for 5 months now. And everything has been going pretty good. Except for the past month we haven't been talking very much and when he goes to say I love you he puts it as love you bunches and that's what most of my friends say! I'm starting to think he is losing interest in me or is about to break up with me. But I don't want to break up with him because even though I still love him I'm starting to feel that he has no feelings for me anymore.
2007-08-23 04:53:13 · 9 answers · asked by Rebecca 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he is trying to break up with you, why would you want to be with him? young men get bored very easily - if you aren't an interesting person, maybe you should look at yourself and try to figure out if you are a good girlfriend or if you are in fact boring to him - in either case, if he wants to move on you should, too
2007-08-30 20:43:45 · answer #1 · answered by Big Buddy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of you want the best answer you can get for this question, you already have it. The best way to find out if your suspicions are true, say this to him:
[You and I have been going out for 5 months now. And everything has been going pretty good. Except for the past month we haven't been talking very much and when you go to say "I love you", you put it as "love you bunches" and that's what most of my friends say! I'm starting to think you are losing interest in me or are about to break up with me. But I don't want to break up with you because even though I still love him I'm starting to feel that you have no feelings for me anymore. I'm I wrong?]
This will get you your answer.
2007-08-30 18:42:43 · answer #2 · answered by Bruno Vespucci 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rebecca, I am sorry to say this, but if you have a sense that your boyfriend is drifting, your instincts are probably correct. Instincts can be a powerful tool, and usually the feelings, or vibes that you are getting are a pretty true indicator. I would speak to him, and if he has lost interest, you will have to let him go. I know it is hard to breakup with someone you care about, but trying to keep a one sided relationship together will never work out. Relationships come and go, it is all part of the dating scene. Personally, I would not want a relationship that is not based on two people who love and care for each other, and want to be together in a healthy, balanced relationship.
2007-08-30 23:44:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try this as a last ditch effort: Say, "Hey we put a lot into this relationship, do we have the same spark now as we did when we first started?"
If he says "yes" you should go to the special place you have and start again.
If he says "no" call him a two-timing lying &^%*(&%$. Then walk away with your head high.
2007-08-30 14:02:32 · answer #4 · answered by Joey Michaels 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel this way and suspect hes already thinking about it i would just get rid of him first that looks better then him breaking it of with you and the guys will see it best also then you can find someone who really cares and you wont' have to worry.
2007-08-30 14:39:09 · answer #5 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to spice it up babe feed his fantasy wear something cute or take him out and show him a good time with a nice nightcap and get back to me, men are visual we need it on our brain wear him out boo!
2007-08-30 17:33:18 · answer #6 · answered by fromprince2king 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is moving on. Maybe you should too.
2007-08-30 03:33:10 · answer #7 · answered by hugskisses4707 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's not easy at all,but there's no way to go on.in these cases there's only one way left for you and all girls: LET HIM GO....
they really deserve nothing!
sorry,it's not really OK,but you have to accept that...
2007-08-23 05:29:09 · answer #8 · answered by Hama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to him and tell him whats goin on in your mind
2007-08-31 04:40:19 · answer #9 · answered by lyssa_lynn89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋