I recently just got back together with my girlfriend. Here's the situation. I am in the wrong as well so I know I shouldn't of done what I did. Ok
Well basically, she was dating this one guy "Billy". I was her friend at the time. Then one night something happened and she broke up with "Billy". The thing is her dad doesn't like any of the guys she ever dated but me, and the thing that happened that night made her break up with him, so her dad won't let her date anyone but me, he told me this on the phone when the girl called me a couple of days later. Anyways she told me what happened that night, and then we got back together after that. (This is where I did wrong, don't give me too much grief) Recently she gave me her myspace password..I had no idea why, but anyways I went on there(mistake 1) and noticed she was talking to "Billy". Turns out everything that happened that night was a completley different story, and that she broke up with him because she wouldn't of been able to stay
2007-08-23 07:16:14 · 10 answers · asked by Carlos 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
with him. And she was telling him how much she loved him and how much she wanted to see him right now. Now I'm feeling guilty because I went on her myspace for 1, found out she was lying to me for 2, and she wants her old boyfriend more then she wants me for 3. I'm looking to break it off with her, but I'm not sure how to seeing as I'm in the wrong as well for snooping in her messages..but in doing so I uncovered the truth..how would I go about doing this?
2007-08-23 07:19:12 · update #1
well sounds like she's using you for cover with her dad. Yes you shouldn't have snooped, but you did. She's lying, she's cheating (emotionally at the very least) so just leave her and don't look back. You deserve better.
2007-08-23 07:21:21 · answer #1 · answered by girlnextdoor409 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I understand that you feel like you were wrong for invading her personal page, but, ask yourself this, why did she want you to have her myspace password??..I mean to me that's a invitation to check it out..hmmmm
Maybe she wanted you to find out what the truth was So, that you Could break up with her...And she just doesn't have the heart to do it herself.
But, I dont think you were in the wrong at all, I think she wanted it to happen. So the best thing for you to do right now is just end it and find someone who isn't gonna play games with you and who wants to be with you!.
Stay Strong.
2007-08-23 14:28:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She lied to you, basically shes cheating on you, shes using you for her dad, so you dont deserve to be treated like that.
Well, my advice would be to ask her about it [ask her if what she told YOU was really the truth], and see if she confesses. If she lies again, tell her that you trust[ed] her, but you dont want to be used or lied to, and that your sorry....[then break it off]
[SHES the one who gave you her myspace password so you really shouldnt feel guilty about it...[maybe she wanted you to see it...] so just ask her about it and see what she says. if she tells you the truth, try working it out and communicating together]
2007-08-23 14:29:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she gave you her password... what the hell did she expect you to do with it? You can apologize for snooping but he practically invited you to find those messages. Also you can tell her "You trusted me enough to give me your password so i trusted you enough to not hide things from me... i went on your account thinking i wouldn't find anything because i trust you but now that has changed." You were just being a human being but she was being a *****!
2007-08-23 14:22:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump her Dude!
She GAVE you her password.
It's not snooping, don't feel bad. Obviously she wanted you to see that she's not into you, but him.
She lied to you to pull on your heart strings, to manipulate you. Do you really want a girl like that?
You did nothing wrong. You got a "free pass", the truth.
Feel me?
2007-08-23 14:30:28 · answer #5 · answered by Califiyah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her you don't feel the relationship is working out. Tell her you just want to be friends. Don't let on that you know anything. Obviously, to her, it isn't as important as a relationship with this other guy, so let her go.
2007-08-23 14:22:05 · answer #6 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the parents are involved with deciding who she can and cannot date, you need to back off.
You didn't mention your ages, but I would suggest leaving this one alone until she matures considerably.
2007-08-23 14:21:29 · answer #7 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So what if you snooped? She lied. Break it off and forget about her.
2007-08-23 14:36:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just say "There's someone else. You're out of the picture with me."
2007-08-23 14:22:42 · answer #9 · answered by Bill. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been able to stay what....
2007-08-23 14:20:32 · answer #10 · answered by Rian M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋