why do people scold other people because they get prego and they dont want to the child? it's not thier fault that the condom broke or that birth control failed. nothing is 100%. so do you expect that person to be celibate? sex is thier right.
2007-08-23 06:57:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im sorry i meantt to say, "they dont want to care for the child".
2007-08-23 06:58:44 · update #1
You are an idiot. There is no such thing as a "right" to sex. It is a privilege and above all a responsibility. I hope you don't plan to reproduce.
2007-08-23 07:01:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 1⤋
R U F'in kidding me....That is like going 65 mph in a 45 mph zone and getting a speeding ticket and then trying to say that it not your fault you got the ticket. U had a choice on whether to speed or not knowing the risk that a cop may be their to bust U....Same thing with sex, you have a choice on whether or not to have sex. If you make that choice, you know full well there is a chance that U can become pregnant. So yes, it is your fault for making that choice to have sex, no questions asked.
2007-08-23 14:21:06 · answer #2 · answered by Lookin-2-Talk 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yeah nothing in life is 100%. It's no ones fault when things are out of your hands, but sex is your choice and comes with responsibility. If you don't want children keep your legs closed because babies are children not choices!
2007-08-23 14:15:08 · answer #3 · answered by Stephanie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you. And I totally am against abortions, but adoptions are good! I mean if you don't want a child yourself and you get pregnant there are so many couples out there who CAN'T get pregnant who would LOVE to adopt your child! And if you can't stand that then get an open-adoption so you can see your baby, but not be its mother, just its birth mother. I mean there are always options. It is your fault if you aren't trying to stop the pregnancy, but if you are and your method failed, then there are always options and you did try to stop it. My bio teacher stupidly said 'Babies shouldn't be making babies!', and yet he was teaching us about physical adulthood. When you are cabable of sex, you have a right to sex because, physically, when you're capable of it, you are mature enough for it. And it you aren't mature enough mentally for a child, use protection. If that protection fails you just make the best decision for the child first, and then yourself. I agree w/ u.
2007-08-23 14:24:20 · answer #4 · answered by red_rose_kiss2010 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Nothing is 100% that is why if you are not prepared to have a child then yes you should be celibate.
2007-08-23 14:05:06 · answer #5 · answered by ShoreD 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Like the person above said earlier--it's not a 'right', it's privilege, and yeah, if they plan to abuse sex, then it is their fault. And you know what? If they don't want kids, then DON'T HAVE SEX. So, don't stick up for them.
2007-08-23 14:04:47 · answer #6 · answered by Crystal♥of♥Iris 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because people assume that if you want to act like a grown up by having sex then you have to take on grown up responbilitys when something like getting pregnant happens. Your right sex is a right. But if your not ready to be a parent then you shouldnt be ready to have sex.
2007-08-23 14:03:03 · answer #7 · answered by TIFF 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I agree with you 100%.
People have their own rights, whether its to have a baby, give it up for adoption, or have an abortion.
I got pregnant once, and i had a misscarriage. If i didnt, i wouldnt have been able to keep my baby. No matter what decision you make when you get pregnant, it will be a hard one!
Abortions will haunt you for the rest of your life. Sometimes, people just have to make the right decision. Its noones fault for getting pregnant.
2007-08-23 14:03:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
I expect you to take responsibility for your actions.
Sex is not a"right" , it's a "privilege"
2007-08-23 14:04:47 · answer #9 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you arent prepared for the consequences of sex..why in hell's bathroom are you having it???
is this a frickin serious question????
i cannot tell....
2007-08-23 14:02:46 · answer #10 · answered by jdog 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋