The majority of my friends happen to be men. I am happily married and my husband approves. I do have female friends just less than men.Recently I was with one of them at a beach house, long story short somehow her keys ended up in my purse... I never drove, unlocked any doors, touched her keys she has 3 roommates that could have. Well shes blamed it on me, I returned the keys the next day at about 3, like I said I had no idea I had them.. She lost my number ??? so couldnt call me to tell me to look for them...so she sent me an email, which i checked at 2:30... basically what i am trying to say is over these Fu@@ing keys, I have received 4 emails about two pages long of her bitching... all the way down to my personal relationships with others, to how I raise my kids... I have said I am sorry I dont need this kind of drama in my life, its nothing personal we just dont see eye to eye on things. we need not continue this friendship. am i wrong? my men friends wouldn't do this
2007-08-23 07:06:39 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yeah, chicks are crazy. Being one of the guys, you can see that now.
Dump this broad and hang out with the dudes.
2007-08-23 07:11:37 · answer #1 · answered by Frinn 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same way you do. Women tend to get waaaaayyy too dramatic. I know I've had moments, but there are some that go overboard. I have more male friends than female and the few female friends I have are very similar to me. We all feel the same way about the majority of the female population.
I have ended up having to cut many ties with female friends because of petty drama such as you are describing. I feel that everything happens for a reason and that connections and friendships are also for a reason. They may only last a day, a year or a lifetime, but they were put in your path for a specific reason. You may never actually put a finger on that reason, but it is there nonetheless. So maybe this friend has served her purpose in your life and it is time to end the relationship and move on.
Also you always feel that you want to end a relationship on a good note, but sometimes it's just not possible and again it has to happen in different ways (good and bad) for a reason.
I guess the main thing for you to think about is if this person really means a lot to you, how long you've been friends, if you feel that it is in your best interests to keep her or to just let her go.
Good luck.
2007-08-23 07:18:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know I have the sam problem. Most of my friends are men. There are days that I do not want the drama a women in my life. Granted I am one and all. But I would most definetly agree women do have to much drama. They also don't tell how things really are, they always tend to sugar coat things. Hey if I wanted something sugar coated I would bought some sugar. Just tell me things how they are with out the sugar. Women are nothing but drama at least most. Good luck!!
2007-08-23 07:17:31 · answer #3 · answered by Trouble 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are right men wouldn't think like that, they think differently all together. Men think about the matter at hand they just want to handle it and get on their way. Your friend sounds like she was having a bad day and made more out of it then what it was and if she is your friend then how come she doesn't have your phone number. I would tell her that you don't check your email every hour on the hour and next time she should call you and then hand her your phone number.
2007-08-23 07:14:32 · answer #4 · answered by xoxoredphoenix64 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh darlin, do I ever understand! Did you ever realize why you got along better with men? I have, and I figure that about 90% of men,a woman knows exactly what thier thinking. Women always like to be queen bee, make some1 else who is honest and decent look bad to justify how they work and feel. In short, most women well they do things I can't name here! So end the friendship, move on, it wasn't worth the drama and atleast your man understands how you feel about women. Good luck!!
2007-08-23 07:19:13 · answer #5 · answered by Lacey 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ugh. This is precisely the reason why I'm SUPER choosy about the females I'll be friends with. I've dealt with stupid, mindless drama with other women too many times. :P
I'm also friends with a lot of guys and I hear all the time about the dumb crap their GF's and wives do. It's a shame that so many women actively choose to be manipulative and b itchy.
2007-08-23 07:13:18 · answer #6 · answered by cherriebomb 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are not even close to wrong. I have distanced myself from all of my female friends, and there weren't that many of them to begin with.
I agree with you that the majority of women are just too high maintenance to maintain a friendship with. Better to drop these people than let them sap your energy. In this life we have enough to worry about. Hypersensitive, self absorbed females need not apply.
2007-08-23 07:16:13 · answer #7 · answered by sleepingliv 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I can totally agree. Women are sooo petty! I tend to have like one or two girlfriends, because they are just sooo drama filled. If it's not their boyfriends, it's their bodies, if it's not this it's that. Not to mention, that most of the women I have met are such liars! I don't care if you're rich or not, I don't care about how many men you have or have not slept with! ARGH! It's so frustrating.
2007-08-23 07:12:58 · answer #8 · answered by Chrystal 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG! Are you serious? This is so beyond petty. I mean to hell with it if she wants to get upset over some damn keys. Its not that serious. And for her to continue to ***** at you over and over again. Damn! Does she need some attention or something! Honey you are better with her as a friend. Thats crazy! And your right your guy friends would not have been so damn dramatic about it.
2007-08-23 07:17:29 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are one of the smartest girls to post a question on here...
man I love a girl that has guy friends. only if they are just as much my friends as they are hers and if I know i can trust her. other then that my ideal wife would be a girl that can hang with me and the guys and get along with everyone and actually have a good time.
But I would need guy time 2.... I mean common.
2007-08-23 07:14:54 · answer #10 · answered by Andy O 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋