Did I just forget how to have fun??? How to go back to my own happy self again???

Question

Well here we go Im only 24 and I have two kids a 7 yr old and a 5 month baby since I had my first baby I only dedicate my life to her and I was being really responsible and stuff but lately I feel that I completly forget about myself I use to be the light of a room and so positive with big smiles everywhere ,but now dont have any new friends and the ones back in high school are all married and in their own little lifes. I feel lonely and somehow unhappy dont get me wrong I love my babys but I also feel that I need a little space, some time to reconect with myself if that make any sense. Any ideas and how do I meet new people?? hahaha almost funny. Please do anwser and give me a lot of ideas

Answer 1

Hey! Now requinze that your dealing with a problem thats.... global in scoop? Did you notice how you only got me to anser you and not like 100 responses in the frist 10 mins? Becasue your question is beyond the scoop of most people. They'd assume all it take is a man, or time, or happiness, or something light and happy and not very helpful. Don't worry thou I got yea...

Ether way frist things frist, you need to add some dynamics to your life, which is my fancy world for new things and change. Are you much of a reader? START! Do you care much for science or history? START! Are you religionous are not? If so, go to church! If not, define your spirtuality!!! Very important!! Also since your in a situation that gives you a purpose outside of society, start looking out side the box. Its very helpful for an individual espaically in your situation (the reading, science, history, and relgion/spirtuality help with this) to see some of the.... shortcomings? of society. Its not perfect and requinizing that and establishing a purpose that helps solve and at least acknowledge these problems is Parmount, to feeling at the very least, at peace with yourself. The funny and happiness will come, but spending sometime wraping yourself in the serious will allow you to see much more the brigter-side of life, its not that bad out here, if you see things right! But advancing yourself, getting sort of caught up in the family, and trying to understand this world, are wonderful things to do to kill time, tell you meet some people. It will happen! And it well happen espacially fast if you make yourself, more and more, opioninate? Intellegent? Understand? Compassionate? But being a person that can see outside the box will give you a perception that well allow you to see better those reason for feeling good, for feeling happy. Its the nature of love really, the more you feel, the more you grow, the more you grow the more you know, the more you know the more power, potentional, and ability you have at your disposiale to do what you can. See you hit the ceiling of what this society can give you, you've got your kiddos, you've got your house, you've got your direction, the rest hunnie is up to you! There so much more out there to feel and experience, it also can be done for the safty of your chair, with kiddos right there!

Answer 2

Well I don't know if you are a believer in going to church, but you can meet some fine folks there...
Also places like libraries, concerts, festivals, and art centers or museums...
I have met many folks like this in public areas always...
Do you have family that can babysit your kids?
It would be good for you to get out at night or have a day to go shopping or get a new hairstyle or haircut...
Buy yourself some new clothes...
Buy a new perfume...
Do something for you...
Treat yourself to a day out with no kids...

Answer 3

7) YELLOW You are sweet and innocent and trusted by many people. You are usually the leader in relationships. You make good decision and make the right choice at the right time. You are always dreaming of a romantic relationship.