e.g. at foreplay would you dirty 'talk' about having another woman in the bed 'giving you a little lick' or maybe 'giving him a suck' or 'letting him have a go on her etc but only keep it strictly as a fantasy.
2007-08-23 03:06:11 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i have been married for 10 years myself &ithe 'fantasy' never goes anywhere actually for those who think im a lesbo!!
2007-08-23 03:19:02 · update #1
Most certainly do, discuss what we would let her do to each of us and what we would do to her. It's fantstic and gets us aso horny..(mind you he is not my husband)
2007-08-23 03:15:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
You people must not trust your husbands. Fantasizing is OK. Hell, you don't play doctor-nurse? Or watch porn? BORING! You women better spice up your sex lives if you want your husbands to stay. I tell my wife all the time the reason I won't cheat is because she is as freaky as I am. If I screw that up, I'll probably get stuck with boring women like you on here.
Fantasizing is healthy and keeps the sex new and exciting. If you are worried that fantasies always lead to action, then most of us would be dead because I'm sure our spouses have fantasized about killing us at least once.
2007-08-23 12:06:19 · answer #2 · answered by Blade_III 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes we did when we where together it was great she could go anywhere with it IE the fantasy and so could i we when in to ffm mmf we when into lots of things it was great time and whatever she said or i said during sex was never the day after topic bedroom only. she would listen to my fantasy during sex then next time she would initiate sex this this hint IE tonight the-rs 1 more for dinner IE my mates coming over to f...k can i watch . so enjoy while you can, make the most of it go places you can only go in your dreams then see his reactions because we are all afraid that our fantasy's will not suit the other bad luck its yours the rs hope this helped you
2007-08-23 12:37:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
good question girl...i see you have a few answers...but its up to each couple and what gets them off...no couples sex life is the same....even whats normal and whats not are different...its what each of you are happy with....so don't take what others say and you have your own sex life the way you want it. and give each of them a few more years and see how their sex life is going..some times when you have been with someone for a long while things need so spicing up and what ever both are happy with is fine to do or try and not everything is right for everyone...so its you sex life do and try anything you want.
2007-08-23 10:17:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
My wife and I talk like that all the time. I think its a very common fantasy. If it works for you, then go for it.
2007-08-23 10:24:18 · answer #5 · answered by AngiesHusband 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely!
Sharing fantasies is one of the most exciting parts of having sex.
2007-08-23 10:22:12 · answer #6 · answered by C 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I have never given my husband the thought of another woman doing sexual things to him. Dont think that would be a good thing.
Sharing fantasies is one of the most exciting parts of having sex... but our fantasies only involve each other and we have no complaints!
2007-08-23 10:37:37 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Sabre♥ 6 · 1⤊ 4⤋
Yes we've decided to this instead of having another girl join us.
To add a little more flavor to it tie him up and blindfold him and THEN start talking about it. What I haev done is to go as far as to ask him would he like "her" to lick/suck/etc him and then I do it. He knows its me but its just another form of role playing.
2007-08-23 10:34:20 · answer #8 · answered by Spring 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Nope
2007-08-23 10:47:00 · answer #9 · answered by ME 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
From a man's point of view, don't even talk about it if you don't want it to happen. The thought always precedes the action. Introducing conversation about things that are tabu in your relationship as though they were ok in fantasy is almost like feeding an alcoholic "near beer" It keeps the desires alive and that much closer to being "ok".
If you want to strengthen your relationship with him, talk about fantasy where only you and he are the subjects. It works for my wife and me... for sure
2007-08-23 10:15:05 · answer #10 · answered by Albert L 3 · 3⤊ 5⤋
Yes.
2007-08-23 10:10:58 · answer #11 · answered by Rein 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋