I had my one bf back home and I had the other one at college. I didnt tell neither of them about the other. I was just trying to see which one I liked better and plus they were both taking me out. I dont understand what the big deal was. Guys do this all the fricken time! Then somehow they found out about eachother and they were going to fight. Then all of a sudden they both broke up with me and went to the bar together. What the hell is up with that crap. They became fast friends and they told me they were united by their hatred for me! Now no other guy will go out with me for more than one night. I try calling them but they tell me to leave them alone. What should I do? Why didnt they fight? Why did they become friends I would assume that they would of hated eachother because they knew that this hot girl could have either one she wanted!?
2007-08-23 02:51:57 · 14 answers · asked by Ashely85 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Forget about both of them and meet someone new. It's okay to date more than one person, but you should be honest about it up front, and if things turn sexual, then you should only date that one person.
2007-08-23 03:01:13 · answer #1 · answered by wwbrad90 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Silly, silly little girl. I don't believe that you are mature or intelligent enough to be accepted to college.
They were about to fight because they had assumed that each knew about the other. Once they found out that neither knew and that you had deceived both of them, they finally had something in common and decided to teach you a lesson by spreading the word around about what you did (it appears that you completely missed this part of the lesson). Once a guy hears this about you, of course they're not going to want to go out with you for long because they have no way of knowing if you're playing the same game by having more guys on the side that you don't tell anyone about. It's not rocket science.
Guys may do this also, but not all guys and not all the time. Your actions don't make it right. You just like to be taken care of at anyone's expense no matter who gets hurt in the process. You also crave attention from guys that compete for you and fight over you. I have zero sympathy how you feel or for whatever reputation you deserve.
Get over yourself and grow up. You're not that special.
2007-08-23 10:03:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well obviously now its too late to change what has happened, you shouldn't have been dating two guys at once, regardless of circumstances.
The reason they didn't fight is because they realized the situation and knew it was you, not them. They became friends because mainly, like you said, they both "hate" you.
What do you do now? Well its impossible that every single guy in the area knows about this incident, so just go on with your life and make sure this NEVER happens again, everyone will forget about it in a short amount of time, they will.
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2007-08-23 10:05:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What you did is horrible, dishonest and cheating. As far as them fighting, you sound like you wanted guys to fight over you, well sorry to say, no guy will fight over a girl that is cheating on them. They became friends cause they quickly figured out how you were playing both of them. What you did was wrong and you deserved to lose them both. Find a new guy and don't cheat.
2007-08-23 10:31:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They did the right and mature thing.
Now what you need to do is learn from this mistake.
You cannot play with two people's hearts, plus, it's obvious that you didn't truly care for either of them or your concious would've kicked in and you would have told them both the truth.
You need to leave them both alone and move on. You need to learn from this and never do it again. Oh, and don't sleep with either one of them, or that will cement their reason to think you're a sl*t.
2007-08-23 10:03:49 · answer #5 · answered by mags2313 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for one your a female.For some reason guys do do this all the time and rarely do they get away with it forever.Its not right and its not fair.They probley figured it wasnt there fault cuz they didnt know about eachother so they went out and got drunk together and talked about you.And laughed cuz you were in the wrong and got busted.Did you learn from this?
2007-08-23 10:02:03 · answer #6 · answered by Gemini 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Poor little you. Get over yourself, learn from this, and stick to the straight and narrow, relationship-wise, at least.
Guys do this, and they get burned, too. Some learn, some don't. It's part of life.
Oh, and they didn't fight because they decided that their friendship with each other was worth a lot more than dating you.
2007-08-23 10:01:33 · answer #7 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No they realized them fighting each other wan't going to solve anything but i assume they compared how they found out about what you did to both of them and they found friendship in each other....HOW SWEET!!! I hope u learned a lesson here .....be more careful next time lol
2007-08-23 10:01:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they recognized an egotistical Sl*t when they saw one. It's loose broads like you that keep the pharmaceutical companies and free clinics busy!!!!
Now that the word has circulated, you will find your self on you knees, servicing guys in glory holes, before you get another decent piece of *ss.
2007-08-23 10:00:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
they didnt fight because they dont care about eachother they have the problem with you. they probably didnt know eachother and im glad they united against a sl*t like you
2007-08-23 09:59:29 · answer #10 · answered by man behind the mask 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋