I went clubbing on tuesday night. I saw the guy that I've been talking to for like 2 months now and he knows how I feel about him. Then, I saw some girl and she was all over him. I ignored him the whole night and act like I never saw anything. He knew that I saw the girl all over him. He texted me the next day and asked me if I had fun at the club but I didn't respond back because I wasn't in the mood to talk to him. Did I do the right thing by ignoring him? Is he still interested in me or he is trying to see how I'm going to react?
2007-08-23 00:52:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well "he knows how you feel about him" yet you aren't in a committed relationship with the club guy? Sounds to me like if you want him all to yourself you need to make it known... if he agrees then your question would be valid. As of right now you have no control over him or what he does.
2007-08-23 00:56:52 · answer #1 · answered by umannjo 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're overreacting.
You've only been talking to him and have no "rights" to this guy and he hasn't sworn an oath of loyalty to you.
On the other hand, you don't have to be cool with it or even talk to him again.
If you want him exclusively, then you'll have to make it a formal relationship.
If you're going to continue to give him the cold shoulder then I would say that the longer you do this the crazier you look... and it doesn't sound like he'll have a hard time replacing you.
2007-08-23 01:03:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only been two months. If all you have been doing is talking then I am sure he feels he has done nothing wrong. You weren't dating or anything. Maybe he isn't ready for a relationship. So, you have 2 choices here one just be his friend and continue to talk to him or 2 move on and find the guy of your dreams.....sorry
2007-08-23 00:58:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he honestly cared about you he would have told the girl who was "hanging"all over him to please not do it cause he it would be disrespectful towards you.I feel as though you did the right thing it showed you had no interest of playing games in any relationship and you deserve more!Someone who cares and respects you enough to give you their time and effort...good luck!!
2007-08-23 00:58:52 · answer #4 · answered by hugsandhissyfits 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes you did the right thing the first thing is shes going to be all over him then the next thing you know shes literally all over him
2007-08-23 00:58:28 · answer #5 · answered by DJ-wreck 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
That's a question only he can answer... He could be testing your reaction. Or he could just not be interested in you.
If he knows how you feel, ask him how he feels!
2007-08-23 00:56:36 · answer #6 · answered by bluedevil1642 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should keep playing your silly little immature games unstead of talking to him and acting like an adult.
2007-08-23 00:57:19 · answer #7 · answered by Tomasi Rollo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u obviously like him, thats why it matters to u wen he's flirting wid others.. best advice, stay cool.. dnt give him "am hot for u" vibes and juz generally be friendly and if need be talk to other guys, c how he reacts.. if he cares, he wil let you know..
2007-08-23 00:57:15 · answer #8 · answered by Abhi M 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He wants you to make a move one way or the other. He sounds a bit immature to be honest, so watch out.......
2007-08-23 00:56:55 · answer #9 · answered by Bart S 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i dont understand ? where you going out? or just friends ?did he do something wrong ? are you reading to much into this ? do i ask to many questions?//
2007-08-23 00:58:07 · answer #10 · answered by matty60 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋