She's in 6th or 7th grade. But theres this boy that was a senior in school his year who was very good friends with her. He would walk her home everyday and hug her. She started to get kind of scared though he wasn' doing anything. She just felt awkward being such close friends with him. He emails her all the time and she sends me their emails. In one of them he talks about how he missed not talking to her and said he was about to cry after he saw her beautiful ocean blue eyes. Then in one she tells him she's not ever talking to him again because he refuses to say something to her, so he begs her to keep on emailing him or he'll die. Is this guy just really dramatic or should I telll my younger sis to stop talking to him. whenever she does, he keeps on emailing her. I'm hoping he gets more busy in college. She was talking to him to just be nice but their conversations become much to serious and she really doesn't like him. I would tell him myself but I go to a different school than him
2007-08-23 02:25:40 · 9 answers · asked by ------ -- 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
By the way thanks to those who answered but he has friends. He's a normal guy supposedly and he has other teenage girls crushing over him and has other guy friends form what I heard. Thats why I'm curious to know why he's so obsessed to talking to my sis.
2007-08-23 02:39:33 · update #1
well,try to talk to him urself outside school then.or ask ur sister to talk to him and ask him wahat actually his problem n why does he has to be so dramatic.ask him does he has any friends other than ur sister.ask him to socialize more with other people coz that he is a bit lonely.that's why he's so sensitive.
2007-08-23 02:36:06 · answer #1 · answered by syaheed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this guy is stupid and over emotional! If my sister was talking to someone way older like him, I would go there myself and ask him what he wants from her, because supposedly there are many other females who are crushing over him, and he likes your sister. What makes her different from the others that he can "like" back and is the same age as he is?
If you're sister says that she feels uncomfortable talking/emailing him, but he insists, tell him to find another hobby other than obsessing over her. If he is persistent and aggressive, I would tell my parents and sure enough, they can call the police, get a restraining order, and scare his butt away!
2007-08-23 03:10:07 · answer #2 · answered by YAMAMA757 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really know what this guy is after, but i find it peculiar that a boy of almost 18 is whining and crying to a young girl who is 12 or 13?
Your parents need to know... there is a slim possibility he could just be "slow" or have no friends, or whatever, but this isn't normal.
take care.
2007-08-23 02:36:32 · answer #3 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have her quit e-mailing him back, block his e-mail address or change her's. Don't answer his telephone calls, nothing. If he still persists or starts to get violent or threaten violence, let your parents in on the situation (if they don't already know). If it does get to the harrassing, stalker situation, have a restraining order issued against him. She's too young for an 18/19 year old guy to be obsessing about.
2007-08-23 02:33:26 · answer #4 · answered by ladygodiva0220 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut of the whole thing with him. He may be trying to take advantage of your sister just because she is younger. Its nice to know that people still care about their siblings. I have a little sister and the same thing was happening to her. I told her to stop everything and then we found out he raped a girl in her class.....Be very careful!
2007-08-23 02:50:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to stop emailing him. He is way to old for her. Seriously he must want something from her, if he is intrested in a 7th grader. So either he wants something from her or he is a really messed up guy. So either way its bad news and she needs to stop talking to him completley.
2007-08-23 02:42:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell ur sister to quit talking to him or emailing him he sounds like trouble
2007-08-23 02:34:23 · answer #7 · answered by camri g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
block his email from her and tell her to stay away. even the nicest guys can be predators...you need to tell your parents too so they can help.
2007-08-23 03:51:13 · answer #8 · answered by chris d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think hes in love with your sister, & he sound pretty serious about her,
if your sister really don't like him, she should stop chatting with him, shes so lucky but shes to young to realize it lol
2007-08-23 02:52:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋