well i was hanging out with this guy, he kissed me an then we were talking as he was driving an then out of no where he asks me what does it take to get down my pants? im like thats not something you ask a girl, an take me home. so now i can't hang out with him anymore and im glad to but im just wondering what would u have done if someone asked you that?
2007-08-23 16:56:17 · 17 answers · asked by kate M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Obviously all this guy was interested in was getting down your pants! And if that's something you don't want to do, then don't! In your place, I would've demanded he take me home too or I'd get out of the car and have somebody I know pick me up. I wouldn't see the guy again!!--even if he apologized because what he asked you was inappropriate, rude and disrespectful. He's apparently a sleaze w/ a one-track mind. Good for you that you told him to take you home!
2007-08-23 17:03:04 · answer #1 · answered by sonrisa 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is what I call jumping the gun.
There are phases to any relationship.
1, Knowledge of the person... you know of someone and can place them
2. Acquaintance. You know the person, might say hi, and generally don't think of them after the encounter. School is like this.
3. Casual friends. You enjoying being with the person, but don't really think of calling them for things you like to do. For example, if at school and you see the person, you might sit with them at lunch. But you would not call them on the weekend to have lunch.
4. Activity buddy. You call them to experience the activity. You like to play tennis and you call them to play tennis.
5. Experience buddy. You just want to be with the person.
6. Intimacy. You want to ... well.. be very friendly.
What your story suggests is that you went from acquaintance to intimacy. You missed a lot of steps. He felt that he could just be at stage six. You felt something was missing. Well, guess what! Something is missing! Take it slower and get to step six after you do the other steps. Take your time and decide if you really like to be with him, do things with him, have common hobbies, and then... entertain more.
For now... you made the wrong decision to kiss him. You made the right decision to pull back.
Good luck!
2007-08-23 17:16:37 · answer #2 · answered by AlexAtlanta 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was driving one of my friends younger cousin home.. he is only a little younger then i but while i was driving he started asking me if i was a virgin... how many guys i had been with... i just started flying down the road to get him home asap..i laughed a lot ... pretty awkward
but I've been smacked around by a guy before and my first reaction in uncomfortable situation is say take me home if the situation is not so bad... if I'm close to home or it is bad i generally get out of the car and walk or find a way home...
he also made many of references toward teaching me to drive stick.... as in standard vehicle... or so i thought... but not what he was talking about i laughed out loud...
2007-08-23 17:03:41 · answer #3 · answered by arei 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would expect my daughter to do the exact same thing you did.
In return I would have given him a 5 minute head start before I hunted him down, killed him and buried his body in a deep hole witha bag of lime so the coyotes wouldn't dig his body up.
You did an excellent job, pat yourself on the back.....:)
2007-08-23 17:01:10 · answer #4 · answered by Michael H 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I would have done the same and be kinda scared he would rape me or somethin lol. Guys tend to play girls a lott to get into their pants . It's gross .
2007-08-23 17:03:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Look at him like he was crazy, and tell him assholes arent worth of getting in my pants.
2007-08-23 17:03:51 · answer #6 · answered by Jc. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have done the same as you, told him to take me home!
2007-08-23 16:59:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
same thing u did tho ima guy so if a grl did that to me id b like uhhh
2007-08-23 17:01:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't want to have anything to do with that person anymore.
2007-08-23 17:03:32 · answer #9 · answered by pretty asian 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This really isn't a question for a guy!
2007-08-23 17:02:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋