my mom is getting married to a guy that i dont really like... it aint that he is a bad guy because he is awesome but my mom is 33 and he is 24... now i dont hate him but what should i do do try adn enjoy his company a little but more
2007-08-23 16:38:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Nothing just be happy for your mom.
2007-08-23 16:43:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is obvious that the age difference bother's you, obviously it doesn't bother them. You don't need to "enjoy" his company but it would be good if you could keep lines of communication open between you and him. You don't give your age but I suspect you're in your teens which is another reason you're not sure about this guy...he is pretty close to your own age. That can seem a bit "weird" I know, my own mother was only 6 years older than my oldest step sibling when her and my father got married. It is going to be rocky at first and quite naturally you are going to resent this guy setting rules. I think what would be best is that you all sit down and map out some ground rules now before you become a "family" so that you all know where you stand. You all are going to have to be able to communicate in order to make it all work out.
2007-08-24 03:48:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let your mom go and live her life. She's grown and you won't be around forever. If she get hurt that's OK it's part of life, but at least for that moment she loved and laughed.
2007-08-23 23:47:26 · answer #3 · answered by Shari 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accept it,after all it your mother choice,he is not ur husband,if not happy u may distance ur self from him.
2007-08-23 23:53:43 · answer #4 · answered by Alexis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IS IT THE AGE THING? CUZ AGE IS JUST A NUMBER. AS LONG AS HE TREATS YOUR MOM GOOD,YOU SHOULD BE HAPPY FOR HER.
2007-08-24 00:38:56 · answer #5 · answered by TABBYKAT34 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move out, otherwise be happy for your mom and respect her decisions
2007-08-24 00:09:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Concentrate to finish your school and get a job. and get a new place.
2007-08-24 00:09:04 · answer #7 · answered by Seph2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing you can do.. yes just be nice to him and treat him as you would any friend. also it is her place to discipline you not his.. but also treat him and he should treat you with respect. good luck
2007-08-24 00:14:36 · answer #8 · answered by Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should just try to understand that she is happy you should be happy for her.
2007-08-23 23:43:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's your mother, she had you to raise and now she is ready to get involved with someone else...who cares wtf you think....would you want someone cramming their nose in your soon to be marriage? i think not.....leave them alone and grow up..........
2007-08-23 23:47:59 · answer #10 · answered by bubba gumps light 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋